text:  that like that's and and i get it is at a certain age you're not like if you're eight years old you're not going to be like so uh really looking to spend a time with my uncle like no you want puppies jumping out of of of christmas boxes and wrapping paper all over the place and i i get it i understand that but i mean it sounds to me and i already knew this about you you you're putting in the work to teach all the lessons