text:  you know who is anybody else to judge obviously celebrities are are in the public eye and we're going to be you know asking a lot of them are asking questions or they're going to be sort of surrogates for how we think about our own lives just remember that these are certainly people and they may not really be seeing all these comments but you know you never know if they do but in general think about people in your own life if there are people who you might judge for not being married or whatnot think about maybe