text:  I was meeting with a guy and discipling him, and just we were getting into a place where we're starting to share personal prayer requests, and one of ours for my family was we had a daughter that was a few years off from going to college, and we started saving, but we had a desire to see them, both of our kids graduate debt-free, and the plan was we would pay 50% after scholarship, and they would pay 50% after scholarship, and