text:  being like okay cool that's fine i don't even really know what's happening um so it does feel weird going thirds it does feel weird going thirds now i don't know the dynamic of your family if it's like no like he calls my mom mom and we're all together like i do think that plays what do you think rachel yeah i mean i think there's a level of courtesy right that i'm like okay if it was like you know when's i going in and if one of my siblings