text:  backgrounds and beliefs right there let's come back next time and uh you know apply the marriage principles to all this but let me ask this the three goals of communication you've touched on it but let's end there because it's positive and these are the things we need to think about well this was so delightful because this is where the social science lines up with what we've already been instructed in scripture in every conversation think about ending in one of three ways encourage that person