text:  right but i joe george i hear this with like oh if i take this job just say you don't like your job just do that and just go on about your life right be honest with yourself be honest tell the truth to yourself keep keep secrets to yourself i mean keep secrets keep the keep the the promises you make to yourself man that's it go from there and the key is is this money a big part of your world if you do it or the ramsey way it's not so if something goes wrong you go oh okay