text:  that's fair but you laid it out he can do it he can afford it and it's not going to ruin him I mean if you call me up and you tell me you make $300,000 a year and I dreamed about it since I was a child I'll kiss my butt you know I'm gonna and you know I got no money and I'm gonna go get a car loan to buy that no I'm gonna rip you to shreds no that'd be dumb okay for your own sake because I love you but yeah but I mean yeah really that's so I honestly it doesn't make the sale to me