text:  and we were quick to call out anybody who changed jobs in less than five years as a job hopper and a lot of older people have taken that mentality into how they are engaging with the younger people in their lives and i'm here to tell you there's no quicker way to shut down the conversations and to ask a question like that of someone who is um undecided or not really clear and frankly just these days that's most that's most of the of the young people we're dealing with