text:  because we're seeing them all over social media or listening to them or watching them on tv or movies we feel like we know them and therefore we want to be as invested in their lives as it would be people that we know ourselves so that's sort of why there's a lot of kind of obsession that way but a reminder that most people in this world really do not know these people and they have private lives and we have no idea what the status really is of their relationship with