text:  of this and I know all this is you know new to you maybe even new to her of just this idea of being intentional with your money and so I think it's kind of a fun thing for you Tommy that you're entering a new season of life as a married man for the first time and there's probably this level of feeling like other changes are going to happen and your money is probably going to look a lot different a year from now which is very exciting because you may actually end up controlling it and feeling in control of it for the first time ever so hang on the line Tommy Austin will pick up