text:  who loved this girl's mom and was married to her for 16 years, had sat down with this girl and the others and said, hey, I care deeply about you guys, but when we got married, we decided that my money was going to go to my kids, and so I want you to know ahead of time it has nothing to do with whether I like you or whether I care about you, but I'm leaving my money to my sons, and it's substantial, but that's none of your business.