text:  And early on when I was talking to Elisa about writing this book, we were like, are we going to say fat? I think we should say fat. And we had a conversation about it. We landed on the determination that it's not the word's fault that people treat fat people like garbage. And we tend to do this thing where we will bring in a new word. We will load that word up with all of the sin of our behavior. Toss that word out.