text:  Let me ask you how you found out about your mother being pregnant before marriage. Did she tell you that? No, she never would have told me, ever, ever. And I was 10 years old. I once looked at some documents after the war, many years later, when I started to do my master's thesis. And lo and behold, I saw the marriage date, and I know when I was born, I said, aha, they loved each other. And they loved each other so well that here I am.