text:  So here I am at this age and gone through this and still, and I'm like, dang, I still can't get it right. Like I still can't. No way. I still can't quite get it right. One, it's memory. The memory always tops it. You know, even my grandmother, that was where I started because I remember my grandmother saying, me saying, oh, this cake is so good. And she'd go, not as good as my mama's. It's not as good as my mama's. And now here are my children saying that.