text:  And if you don't do that, then the person with your laptop and your intimate images is going to send them to your contacts, including your friends, your family, husbands of friends, people you know on Instagram. I had seconds of, what should I do? Should I reply? Who is this person? And then I'm like, Patty, you need help. You need to call the police. So then my action mind was like, okay, action.