text:  there's a lot of dimensions to the kind of illusion part of all of this. One is that the science isn't totally there yet. So it's not like people can freeze their eggs and have total assurance that they'll be able to unfreeze them and use them to have a baby. And then the other part of it is just that the challenge of balancing life and work is still going to catch up with people even if they defer motherhood, right? So I spoke with a lot of women who froze eggs and then