text:  And one day we won't. And I don't know. Maybe I'll be sad. Maybe not. I don't know. It's interesting. My friend Toni Morrison, whom I do and still do love so very much, and my favorite Toni Morrison, among other things, is Sula. And when Sula is dying, she says, oh, wait till I tell Nell. Because Nell is her best friend. And she says, wait till I tell Nell. It doesn't hurt. Wait till I tell Nell. Let me ask this question a different way then, though.