text:  Instead of just a lack of empathy, it turns out that in conflict, we often see what is known as parochial empathy. We hear a lot for the people on our side and almost use our empathy on those insiders and have very little left for folks on the other side. Well, and you can see that most clearly in the war between Israel and Hamas, because you say a part of this parochial empathy is an existential threat to that community.