text:  her own true self. In this volume... I think that's helpful for her. In this volume, in Crazy Rich Asians, she's so concerned with appearances that even though she knows that Michael is having an affair with somebody or believes that he is having an affair with someone, she's not going to leave him. None of that divorce business. Keep up appearances. Not even going to acknowledge it, yeah. And you see this... I can't tell you how many women I know who are in that boat.