text:  I can imagine constantly checking your emails. Exactly. For an update. And I can imagine, I can see it on your face as well. It's the loss of control, isn't it? You are not in control of this situation in any way. And as well as the loss of control, there's also a shaming that's going on here. You're not hurting anyone. They're pictures of yourself. But the idea here is that you should be ashamed. And I wonder, you referenced earlier the idea of