text:  have a hard time accepting those wounds or was that? No, no, no. I spoke to Mary. I mean, first off, I'm one of those people that obnoxiously vomits their life out on people. You know, it's like on your first date, you just literally the day I met her. First off, we both realized individually, we said to ourselves, I said to myself, I'm incapable of being in a marriage or relationship because I will mess it up.