text:  I've seen it. I've seen, like you said, the sacrifices that women make for their kids, the sacrifices that my wife makes for our family. Tremendous. I mean, like, without, and that's the concept in Hawaii I think is different to this day culturally. When you see in the West the idea of like, and not to say you shouldn't be chivalrous and all this stuff you should, but in Hawaii there's definitely a more