text:  Absolutely. And I did learn like there's two kinds of people. There are the people like me and Melissa who are like an abandoned house. We must explore it. And then there are people like our husbands who are like, this is trespassing, actually. But we kept going back every summer and we developed a relationship with this place to the point where, you know, to some degree we felt like it was ours. And then one summer we get there and it's gone. They have gone.