text:  but really taking the time to understand your partner's relationship to their finances, their money story. How does the way that you grow up shape what you think and feel about money? What do you believe you're allowed to spend money on? What are you proud of that you do financially? What are things that you wish you were a little better at financially? And how can I help support you? Once you each have the full picture and settle on shared financial goals, try on different strategies to see how they fit your lifestyle.