text:  And, you know, having some amazing female influences in my life has taught me some lessons. But I still think there really truly is a gulf. And I think that's what leads to so much misunderstanding and so much relationship complications that I see everywhere. Well, thank you, Kevin Kwan. Well, we got a question from Jakarta. This was rung into BBC World Book Club by Tika. Hello, my name is Tika. I'm from Jakarta.