text:  My partner has to be loving. He has to be respectful. He has to be funny, because it's sexy. He has to be mature and confident, you know, not insecure or jealous around my friends, especially the men. And he has to be understanding. That's it. Now, that weekend, Dad and I are going to meet boy number 15 in a coffee shop. One look at this guy, and I make a note to update