text:  No. But then again, Haru also says she was raised to keep a lid on it. Growing up, if she or her siblings got hurt, she was told by her parents to suck it up and get on with it. And that way of thinking applied to camp, too. Would Grandma say shikata ganai? She said that a lot. I think the Anabas learned that phrase pretty well. What does that mean, shikata ganai?