text:  Because I had Mary Jo, my spouse, who is a very no BS person and who very lovingly pushes me in directions that I don't want to go because she knows they're best for me and I almost always end up agreeing. So there was part of that. So she's elbowing me to ask how to cook this fish that I have never encountered before in my life. And that first question just sort of elicited just a hailstorm of