text:  Mom, I followed it. I followed the recipe, but it's not quite like yours. And so, one, the memory doesn't top. Two, the ingredients are different from those previous years. And so I think it's a combination. Like you just have to do, you have to get as close as you can. And that's all you can do. And accept that. Like, you know, you can't spend 40 years trying to make your mama's cornbread.