text:  that would put her in that in that position and i have no way to know but i am sure thinking here i'm sitting here thinking yeah well she didn't have any children to distract her she didn't have any children to to worry about she she you know free bird um and that would give her an opportunity i don't know if i don't i don't know if that's a factor though because like even even maka ainana the first kid was hanaid by the grandparents right