text:  Eliza hasn't yet checked off those big life boxes. She's also, Eliza told me, the performer of the family. The one who upstages her. Plus, Zoe's the oldest. She's actually the big sister. Eliza's like, you win. I felt like she, like, set the tone. Like, she was player one on the Wii. Like, she had to go to the bathroom first when we got home from the car ride. Like, not in any resentful way, just in like a, that was the pecking order. You're the oldest sibling. Like, that...