 and we make enough money to pay these bills we just need to get aligned on how to do it would you sit down here and help me write this out and us be in agreement and neither one of us raise your voice could you not do that what we're getting there we've not made a lot of talk about this tonight what what couldn't you do that tonight does she know about all these numbers fell does she know that and i don't think she has okay absolutely so what's what's the strict what's the fly in the ointment uh...