 and that's going to be a really hard conversation but it's but it is a hey we're either transferring the loan in your name son or or i don't even know i wouldn't even do that i think i would just sell it i mean i would get to a point where you're like no no i say listen honey you got you got 90 days to get your button gear with this car and uber eats and everything else and pay it off because otherwise i need to sell it because i'm getting out of debt