 my wife talks about uh buying a house for it you're not near it you're not near that yeah hey that's exactly what i told her you're between a rock and a hard place and the only thing that's going to change this this is not something you can cut cut away at a budget although we're going to make sure you have a budget before you leave here we got to find ways to get the income up and unfortunately i think some of it lies with you but i think your wife holds a key in this as well i think there's something she can do part-time on the side at nights