 now but you know you change very like you have kids you you you're you're more lenient as a parent you know i but i but when i was younger i believe in and child you know spanking a child and now i believe that light murder is okay you know light murder light murder light a mild show light like it just happened just very light what are we going to do yeah all right next question next question i mean six kids will do that to you this is from someone named ted um let's see make sure i got the right one uh