 it would be something that the guilt of which can be remitted by an act of contrition which seemingly you've already had or you've expressed sorrow for it you even perform sort of a penitential action by going and apologizing to your mother and so you can rest assure that the guilt even if this is an offense the guilt would be remitted and then if you want you can take it to the sacrament of reconciliation as a further act of penance in order to confess it humbly in the presence of a priest now with regard to whether you actually