 We've lived them. We just have. And yet so many of us have been engaged in a giant game of make-believe, pretending that we don't notice the things that we know we do notice, and we know everyone else knows that we notice them. Now, does that mean that men will always answer the call and answer it well? No. I mean, there were a lot of men that we can assume screwed up on Saturday. But the answer is to find better men