 Anger management. Your kid is going to get mad. Do they know how to manage it? Can they tell when they are being mad over a true injustice or they're just mad because they didn't get their way? Apology. Can your child apologize and mend a relationship? And the last one, attention. Can your child take their wandering attention and listen to that teacher, listen to that pastor, read that book assignment? Kids, more than ever, they do not know how to pay attention.