 They're trying to answer the question, who am I? As a parent, you must communicate to your teen that their identity is found in who they are, not in what they do. Second, your teen may be struggling for acceptance. They want to fit in. But you need to encourage your child to stand up and stand out, even if it means not being the most popular. For more struggles and solutions for teen rebellion, visit my blog at markmerrill.com. Remember, your family first.