 Wow. Where are you from, how many brothers and sisters, and where are you in the pecking order? Born right outside of Trenton, New Jersey. I am one of three girls, and I'm the oldest. Tell me a little bit about 8 to 14. What kind of stuff were you doing 8 to 14 years old? It was a rough chapter of my life. My mother left my family when I was about 11. Prior to that, there were many chaotic household moments. So a lot of my 8 to 14-year age was spent raising my sisters.