 Right? So you are, are you sad? Are you depressed? Are you anxious? Are you worried? Are you angry about where you are when you get 50, 60, 70 years old? That doesn't mean you can't make a change because when your mind is right and you feel good about yourself, good about where you've come, then you could start thinking about where you're going. And you know, what you're saying is when your life is off balance and,