 And so they operate in fear, which is bad decision-making. When you're in a state of fear, it's bad decision-making. And when all you want is to be seen as caring and fair, and you do not take time to dig below the surface, you can end up thinking you're being caring and fair when you're in fact being cruel. There's an old Hebrew saying that I always, I molest in some ways, but a rough translation of it is this.