 And once I've evaluated that, I go, okay, what can I do to create the most peace in this specific trigger? And I tell people all the time, it's not cliche to just pray. God, I don't even know what to do about this right now. But I trust that you give wisdom. You promise that you give wisdom generously. Will you help me come up with a creative way to address this trigger with my child? More advice on dealing with triggers at familyminute.org.