 um what we have to realize is you know all of us uh can fall into this ether if you will um they have really played these these scenarios out pretty well they know what's gonna hit you um they know how to do it i mean it's like it's like breaking into somebody's home somebody knows how to break into a home they know how to break into your psychology they know how to break into your psyche and um i think you you're at your own peril if you think this can't happen to you and her account um