 or have someone talking about the accident to you. So you learn how to maneuver in crowds and how to blend in. How do you learn that at that young age? What kind of things were going on in your life that you had to navigate that taught you to blend in? Well, I just don't think you have a choice. You know, you have a mother who's 30 years old and with three children and is suddenly widowed, and you need to pick up the pieces. And, you know, I picked up the male role in my family.