 sitting there on top of this. And it's just she's I mean, because I know because grandma and grandpa have been picking up the three year old and getting her off because she's driving everybody crazy. So he's driving everybody crazy. She's not. But so, you know, that's that's what all this dynamic is going on. And she feels like you've left her at home to deal with all of it. And so I think what we're talking about is woven into this. And then sit down and go, OK, I'm going to help you with these kiddos.