 but you're telling them the truth. So it's both blades of the scissors, the grace and the truth. You can't have a pair of scissors without both of them. They don't work. And so when you love someone so much, but you're holding them accountable to something that is truly dishonoring to God, then it becomes a vertical relationship. And so they cannot hold you accountable. Oh, this person is such a jerk. That's why I'm right.