 actually uh there were no sparks on that day it was all business um but our first date was at a hot dog it was at an eating contest and and nick what was it for you um you know i think we always joke around that we love each other in spite of competitive eating um but uh you know she approached me as a four-time champ and i was uh more than happy to to speak with her take a picture and we just had a mutual friend that uh that told us we should talk and