 I don't know that we deserve much of anything, but ought we to do it is my point. That's my point, is the women of today are not the women of yesterday, and it's becoming more and more difficult to find the women that you're talking about, and there are not enough to go around. That's my point. Sure, but you're framing this as a question of who deserves to be married, but my framing of it is what one ought to do, that marriage is a natural end of our nature. I don't deal in oughts. I deal with what is.