 I'm going to say this until I'm green in the face. I don't understand the excuse. Men don't have an excuse either. Don't come crying to me. My son, I tell him now, man, leave these little women alone. Don't be trying to go out with no girls, even though he's 13. When I was 13, people was having sex in their half days. I was too shy. I would have been having sex if I wasn't too shy. It was peer pressure in middle school.