 how we can't sit down and just have a conversation because we can't even like communicate about this because there is so much fear. There is so much heightened emotion. And I think what's going to start to come to the surface as you guys dig into these numbers is you're actually going to see a lot of, oh my gosh, we've broken down in communication on a lot of life, not probably just this situation. And what we do find, which I hope gives you hope, is that for so many people that walk a journey that choose to really be intentional about a part of their life and we're in the