 And it's behavior and the two of you working together. And that's those are marriage issues. And really what you're calling us about is, you know, what to do with your marriage. And I think you need to get some coaching from a godly counselor. And you're a person of the book like we are. And so someone is going by the book, the Bible and saying, OK, you know, godly wife does not include abuse and you're being abused.