 you look for love in other men and it turns into idolizing people. You probably shouldn't be in the party games or looking for love and compassion from a man in relationships. And I think a lot of the trauma that happens with human beings and male and female is that people are misinterpreting what the other needs, you know, just like a young girl as a man with a, I don't have a daughter, but if I had a daughter, what is a father to a daughter?