 Asking great questions and listening to your wife's answers is so important to having a better relationship. So here are 10 questions to ask your wife every year. First ask, what do you think is going right in our relationship? Positive affirmation will encourage both you and your spouse. Next ask, where would you like our relationship to be this time next year? There's always room for improvement, so be honest in sharing how you both want your relationship to grow. Remember, your family first.