 The book of Psalms tells us to keep our eyes off of worthless things and to keep our lips from speaking deceitfully. Let no unwholesome word come out of your mouth. Contrary to it, be thankful in all things. Let's be a creation of God that he can boast in. In short, let's trust and obey. That's one way, and I think it's the best way to make it our goal to really please him and bring him joy.