They are not orininal they came later because there is a sense of I that can observe them so the question follows through what really is this I which is capable of observing all else can it itself be observed and in this pointed exploration or introspection one is finding that there is a spontaneous sense of expansion, expansive love which is not cultivated not something that what practiced it was just discovered to be here outpouring overflowing with love and it doesn't seem to make divisions but somehow within the fullness of this love there can appear husband and wife love preferences partner love children love parent love all of this can still flourish inside this unicity love like this. 