So, it's tax time and I'm thinking about my wedding because the form that the government provides us to fill out at tax time requires, under penalty of perjury, that we identify our marital status, but if I check that box as "married," - and this is my wedding certificate, my marriage certificate - if I check that box and say, "Yes, I am married," the federal government says that I can face penalties, criminal penalties, financial penalties, for stating what is simply true about my life. 