The blood issue in the back of our minds was  bothering us because as Jehovas witnesses if we freely gave a blood transfusion to our daughter we get excumunicated, we'd get disfellowshipped when the doctors finnaly came into our room it was just like an ultimatum they say: listen, we know from my records that you are jehovah's witness we know that you don't take blood transfusions and a doctor look at me straight to the eye and said: mr and mrs ???????????? you have to make a decision, yes or no wether your child lives or dies? 