Once you get over, if you get over, then what's going to happen? you are going to lose your identity and you say that you know what, to find our identity our real identity not all this, not all this messed up but you know what, we have cultural and religious amnesia because with all these generations of colonialism, generations of war, we have lost contact with our history we don't know how our forefathers lived, what they were believing in, so we make up our own thing and that's what's happened every country now that declared their own independence from the Middle East, to north Africa, to the Far East, when they came to their own independence, 