Well, your statement about Papaji putting something at his feet before knowing what it is you really want to say and I'm really not sure what I want to ask but we've talked about grief and anger and I want to talk about love you talked about letting the grief come and go it's not part of the self so express the grief it's not part of the self but love, love comes and goes and yet I was taught as a child that God is love and I guess I don't know different types of love but 