I do not like the term blow job,the term is rather iky and besides,we as women know it has nothing to do with blowing the action of this is more about mimicking and making your hands and your mouths and ? vagina that is really what you create here you creating the three sensations that men say absolutely made for great intercourse when they first centrol women it's a combination of heat,pressure and moisture so you mouth is creating heat and moisture your hand is creating pressure you would say that your jaw gets... yeah,my jaw always hurts... and now you are using your jaw for the pressure if you attach your hand to your mouth like this and imagine a little ball bearing right here your jaw isn't creating pressure your mouth is open,is more open and this is creating pressure your ring at this,and pulling up,or through up and down or and the other thing you do your tongue is not just hanging out,Ok? your tongue is creating sensation on the back area the most one of sensitive as clitoris your hand and your mouth seal together you got 4 main motions you got up and down motions you got twisting motion of your hand coming up you got this is creating pressure coming up you mouth is creating the heat and moisture and your tongue is doing a back and forth motion 