No, first what makes Allah and his Prophet happy then that time you are going to find a role model that is going to fit you and the way you are living your life - you are going to hold on to that and slowly you will be raised to higher stations to understand because Prophet ASWS did not come to bring Arabic culture, he came to bring Islam there are so many aspects of Arabic culture that he destroyed burying daughters for example even wearing the turban, there is a way - the Islamic way of doing it and there is a way the jahiliyya Arabs were doing it that he has forbidden meaning it is Islam, it is not culture that we have to put first now when the wide people and the alims and the ulemas and the awliyaullah came to bring Islam they said whatever traditions you had first - you are going to keep that and make that become more Islamic they didn't tell you to come and suddenly dress in robes and thobes and this and that which there is nothing wrong with if you wear it you are going to get rewards, definitely but there is something in your culture that is already there inshallah with that we will find guidance and safety we will come back to our own identity and we will come back to our own self because when Hazrati Mahdi AS is coming he is going to come with the takbir and all the nations are going to come together, and with their own secrets, with their own identities they are going to come and help him in his way and with that, own secrets and own identities - old ways of living old architecture, old buildings, all this modern ones, Seyh Mawlana and Seyh Effendi is saying will be removed and thrown into the deepest seas and all the old ways of living will be put back - all the angels will come in one night to build it, not to worry we are believers 