I just want to say that often we feel really entitled to speak about certain people and their ways of presenting in the world and one of those groups of people that we feel that we can comment on are those who are feminine whatever embodiment that is and I think that its like really interesting how we often are like "oh that's patriarchy, that's walking patriarchy." when we like never kind of address or seek to disentangle the problematic aspects of masculinity and um, I just want to maybe make people, get people thinking about how they're demonizing femmes without looking at the other side of that coin 