Cause they're my friends and they'll love me anyway so that would be a normal quote unquote normal relative worry where you're like ugh it's dirty but i need to clean it and then you're over it right oh i'll just do this but a person with GAD can't really do that they will excessively worry about it so much that it could ruin their day they might wanna try to leave work early and they may even like hurt other's feelings or do other things that are bad for them in order to alleviate this worry okay? so that's gad generalized anxiety disorder and as with all of the things that i talk about i mean anxiety disorders have at least like i don't know 