When you think of it, if you don't have the face to face interaction that you used to have, or even the kind of pauses that you used to experience in a telephone conversation when you were speaking, if you don't experience those kind of interactional cues, then there is a much greater chance that you are not going to be censoring yourself as you are writing your message And so, what happens is that, because we don't have the benefit of seeing people's facial gestures or hearing their reactions, we actually write things down that later on we realize maybe we shouldn't have said or we wouldn't have said if we had the benefit of seeing how people were responding while we were speaking. 