yes it seems that when consciousness manifests or expresses itself as a human being and as autonomy and individuality its expression becomes more struggling you see when there is this identification there. almost always because there is with this identification some arrogance in us preferences, judgement desires intention projection so all of this come and so being the beingness that is now identified with the limitation of the body which is only the instrument through wich the consciousness can taste experiencing with a assistance of the vital force a secondary identity arises out of that as the independent me the personality, this is me I have a context of religion and background all of this and there is a fragrance of selfishness in us in this expression our love rarely moves beyond tribal love family love or one to one love. 