For the sticky files, with a lot of repentance, we want to see the other person as 100% faultless, and due to our pride (maan), or due to the way we will or want (dharyu karavoo), or our illusionary attachments (moha), or finally even due to sensual pleasures (vishay) or in the end, due to reasons of greed (lobh), we have hurt others in one way or another so it is due to our tubers (gaanth) that we see others at fault, or have dislike (dwesh), abhorrence (ahbaav), contempt (tiraskar), even felt intense contempt (tarchhod) towards them. 