The ability to resist or even the desire to they are often raised not to desire an education since the girls are usually raised within the feminine side of the family this is what opened before me prospects and doors that i wouldn't have interred if it wasn't for this support and care from my mother my father used to say that i can choose my husband when I'm 18 years old she says: "when she finishes her education" she says: " when she finishes her education" 