Okay, so when you start to know yourself in that kind of non conceptual way, not with thinking, but through embodied awareness of sensation and of, you know, hearing and smelling and tasting, and stuff like -- and of your thoughts, that are overthinking who to be in a relationship with, or who to break off a relationship with, or whatever it is, and you're not judging that whole thing -- your deeper intuition and wisdom is trustworthy. 