Again, this comes from Locke when thinking about children, that Locke makes the argument when he's discussing children, he says--well, I'll put it into twentieth century words or twenty-first century words, but the basic idea is, what do you do if you raise your child, you do your best for them, you pour resources into them, you pour energy and affection into them, you do everything right and they turn around at the age of eighteen and they say, your kid says to you, "Dad I think you're a schmuck. 