Um, so I was trying to figure all that out and I felt a little confused and i said so on my blog and um I said that I wanted to start a website for teenage girls that was not this kind of one-dimensional, strong character, empowerment thing because I think one thing that can be very alienating about a misconception of feminism is that girls then think that to be a feminist they have to live up to being perfectly consistent in their beliefs, never being insecure, never having doubts uh, having all of the answers. 