like dale carnegie or robert yes i think from respect for dancers he's ah he's a gateway drug he's the guy who gets you into this he's a guy who provides a lot of the maybe not techniques or or actual things you can use but the mindset behind all this he gives you the framework and he gives you the foundation the foundational beliefs our mindset that kind of permits a lot of the comedian allot of what we're doing i actually got of the community and little bit before the game cannot so i didn't have that book it kind of the guide me and when it did come out and read it and about islam is like three hundred pages and i read it in literally a day credit like eight hours to trade treaty couldn't put it down because it represented represented that this was what i wanted i hope the whole time and any not only was it was it the embodiments of like the community but it was like and i actually didn't and or nbc_ did it in the book bread and we'll we all thought that maybe would looting ourselves in in the whole community thing and all the sunday is a guy who actually did and he brought about it and this is his journey and so it was really influential tumi got to see that someone did and is to see the summit accomplished it and to kind of put all that jargon the characters the people in the industry all into into one things like really understand it and so you had a huge huge impact on me what's kinda funny as i've read that book but six times now and it doesn't give what i'd like to be so much because now the continent it's the book the story but every time you read that book you're in a different point your development and you see different things when i first started out i read that book and i saw the loneliness assault the despair and when you were saying you know you just didn't have a girlfriend he couldn't find enough for him all these things like that resonate with that i saw it again when i read the book again then i was in that pain puri and resonated with hinging blown out a lot and going in and not being able to kissed the girl had nothing to push the boundaries or barriers mary dent and you know it was in these that feeling of i had this new-found ability right and where many goto six exists it's exciting it's it's kind of the boat is open right in their own again and and this time it was 