I was , I was off on, on Sunday, I mean I've joined yet another marriage agency, off on last Sunday to Latherham, with another nice old chap, you know, erm, I, I go out with erm, women friends, we, I've arranged, er there's one very, very good place that does lunches, run by a couple of homosexuals and erm, old age pensioners on Tuesday get, get a lunch, an eight pound lunch, for four pounds, so four friends, three friends and myself are going for a special Christmas lunch that they do, fortnight ago we went for a lunch with the group of the town's women's guild and friends, erm, my women's group that I belong to over at the village of  which is run by the television actress er Helen Fraser