If I could lead you from that paragraph on page three fifty over to page three six four  page three six four, one two three, four paragraphs from the top  it's ab it's the second of two paragraphs that begins the Board affirms the church's th that Christ teaches that marriage is special and divorce is not the way he would wish for his people and then this sentence  no-one would wish to condens condemn someone to stay in a marriage which is beyond redeeming.