but Julia said to me before she came round with Hayden she said er, cos her mum and dad are still there, not her mum and dad, her mum and step dad are still there, they're only giving them forty pounds for nine weeks, forty pounds towards the mortgage like you know, been there since after Christmas and erm, anyway she said ooh she said, Steve said er, that's her husband, said to me ooh isn't Emily well mannered she said, she doesn't walk in the house, she waits in the doorstep you know