And er she says Jean I swear to God she says if she comes over near my door, I've told Jim she says, I, I'm ready for her  I'll beat her round that square and she said I'm not like that but she says that's just the way she says, and she hurt my kids  when I sent them Easter eggs over, doing that she says, that really galled me, she says cos they were hurting my kids rather than me.