I have to say, in comment to that, I don't the know the the balance of statistics but I've been a lone parent for, for ten years now, although I've I've pressed button, it was because for ten years of being able to have a stable relationship with my children, I've got two very stable teenagers  and during that, the course of that ten years I've been disabled person as well, so  yes there may be the case that there's  there's trouble with  the children of lone parent families, but I think there's far too much emphasis on that nowadays!