that people can  make their o , they have a balanced education which allows them then to make their own choices about, that  things aren't over, I mean if we've lived in a patriarchal society in which men are in power and that kin , and male sexuality maybe has come through more in sex education, those have been the issues that have been  co ,ha have been given more importance and female issues have maybe been neglected a little bit  and now erm, with Aids as a problem  we don't want to turn out and suddenly become really homo homophobic or really, you know, right condoms, condoms, it has to be  you know, you need to kind of keep the balance so that people  are given the information and then have the freedom to make the choice themselves.