when you come and stay with me, she, anyway she, she wouldn't, well in the end I just said that's it I've had enough I switched the car off and grabbed hold of her I said, frogmarched her in the car I said come on, I'm going to bed, Rudy's ready for bed I said I want you with me, so that I can keep me eye on you if I have to sit up all bloody night, of course when she was with me I picked her up and got her strong again and I say you have to be worth it, you're better off without him then she come round and then she'd say I know I am I just go down 