I think that, that there's a o , clearly a very different history behind erm  the use of women as sex objects and the use of men as sex objects, and a fundamental difference is that  erm  the, the background to erm using women as sexual objects in pornography or in prostitution is that  is sexual violence, the wo the women can be raped or can be  beaten i i in a sexual way  and and that simply is not the case with men who are used as sexual objects.