but they're not in control of their body, so you must watch them, talk to them and if, if you can walk along the road with them, talking to them  now the, there is the other type where you get the aura, they know they're going to have a fit, so if somebody at your work place comes along and says to you I'm gonna have a fit in five minutes, I mean don't laugh at them and think ha ha, take them to a room where they're safe and this applies to all epileptic fits, they've got to be safe, so you're going to clear a room of any danger, they're laying down on the floor theirself because they've got time they know they're going to have this fit, if they've got something to put in their mouth alright they will put it in their mouths themselves and once again they've got five minutes to do it in and then that person will go through their fit, you stay with them, you comply by their wishes, if they say to you right, well just leave me when I come round I, don't touch me I'll be alright, they know, so you, you comply by their wish wishes, erm  but only go in when you feel it is necessary, if they say right, erm I, I should regain consciousness in ten minutes and they haven't, you're there, you stay there in case make sure they're safe, there's nothing there that can hurt them, then they'll probably get up at the end of the fit and erm go into a room for a rest and say thank you very much and er, erm that's it.