with, with my granddaughter, she, she did the same s she used to go and babysit at this girl's house and she fe felt, she was only fourteen, and she felt sorry for her  and she'd go and babysit every night she'd go and babysit  and er  but she used to b sit up in the bedroom, she never ever went down the sitting room thinking that the  child's mother was either down in the sitting room or just going out for a short while and coming back and then eventually they put erm a bed up in the child's bedroom for  Denise to stay there over nights and Pearl didn't worry at all, well she knew, knew where, at least she knew where and er  this girl was bringing men back down in the sitting room every night, three or four, sometimes ten men in a night  during the night!