And er  I think, I I agree, I agree with a lot of the demands that feminist women have made  but, to kind of congregate it in that way, it's bu , I mean a lot of wha er, white feminists have been attacked for  excluding black women, and that's one of the examples where  you know, to be, to say that you're a feminist, it's not just men that you're alienating, you're also alienating other way.