Erm so on that one that's, that's  you didn't use any slang, the belief in the way you asked  I think that came out, I was trying to  be a prospective client rather than be the trainer cos I could see that Mike was uncomfortable and I was trying to, well okay, how, how would I  well I think yeah there was a belief that you had there, I think he was er reasonably attentive, Mike, to your response?