He took me out last Sunday and I said  as we were driving over to Lavenham, I said an early would be much appreciated, I said I cooked  the Sunday Lunch for my lodgers, but I haven't, in fact, had any myself  he said you've got to have a high tea, he said  you must have  a proper meal  and he ordered up salad and  a a ham salad and  have this and have that and have the other, where as some of them  like this chap Gerald  who was erm  sent me by one of the other agencies  the first time we went out he took me to a meal  and he obviously felt that quite enough, after that he used to come out  to see me after he'd had his meal    meanness, hanging onto money!