I got married twenty three years ago in China, well, we just invite er, invited er our friends, and er former school mates to ma , to my home and we didn't make any vow, er we  just gave a banquet to the friends, and er, in China people now can get married in many ways  and er  some foreigners have come to China to get married in a traditional Chinese way, and they have to  er, carry their bride in a sedan chair.