I erm  unfortunately, er, agree with the previous speaker that a very strong calvinistic streak runs through me and I believe in the  two parent family  and also in the efforts that you should make to keep the family ge together, but I think too, there's  sp , er, perceptions of individuals and particularly, younger generations now in society, are so much different from my own perceptions when I initially became married and started my own family but  what society has to look at the perceptions and expectations of the individuals in society.