Yes, and she phoned me and she said I feel as though I dropped out of the bottom of the world she said, you know, I just don't see anybody, I said well of course you were working on Mondays, you see she used to have Mondays to herself and I would often go round on a Monday afternoon and, we, we could talk, but that's gone and I said I can't run in at half past five when you get home from school and chat to you because Ned will be coming home at six and I don't want to be there all that often when he's there  erm  its  you know, its just happened and I also thought to myself and I'm probably going to move a lot further away then Fen Lane.