block: change drain to look only at one child at a time

bdrv_requests_pending is checking children to also wait until internal
requests (such as metadata writes) have completed.  However, checking
children is in general overkill.  Children requests can be of two kinds:

- requests caused by an operation on bs, e.g. a bdrv_aio_write to bs
causing a write to bs->file->bs.  In this case, the parent's in_flight
count will always be incremented by at least one for every request in
the child.

- asynchronous metadata writes or flushes.  Such writes can be started
even if bs's in_flight count is zero, but not after the .bdrv_drain
callback has been invoked.

This patch therefore changes bdrv_drain to finish I/O in the parent
(after which the parent's in_flight will be locked to zero), call
bdrv_drain (after which the parent will not generate I/O on the child
anymore), and then wait for internal I/O in the children to complete.

Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Fam Zheng <famz@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <1477565348-5458-6-git-send-email-pbonzini@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Fam Zheng <famz@redhat.com>
