ui/console: ensure do_safe_dpy_refresh holds BQL

I missed the fact that when an exclusive work item runs it drops the
BQL to ensure all no vCPUs are stuck waiting for it, hence causing a
deadlock. However the actual helper needs to take the BQL especially
as we'll be messing with device emulation bits during the update which
all assume BQL is held.

We make a minor cpu_reloading_memory_map which must try and unlock the
RCU if we are actually outside the running context.

Reported-by: Laurent Desnogues <laurent.desnogues@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Alex Bennée <alex.bennee@linaro.org>
Reviewed-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Gerd Hoffmann <kraxel@redhat.com>
