compiler: rework BUG_ON using a struct

There are theoretical concerns that some compilers might not trigger
build failures on attempts to define an array of size (x ? -1 : 1) where
x is a variable and make it a variable sized array instead. Let rewrite
using a struct with a negative bit field size instead as there are no
dynamic bit field sizes.  This is similar to what Linux does.

Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Markus Armbruster <armbru@redhat.com>
