qemu-char: fix qemu_chr_fe_set_msgfds() crash when disconnected

Calling qemu_chr_fe_set_msgfds() on unconnected socket leads to crash
since s->ioc is NULL in this case. Return an error earlier instead.

Signed-off-by: Marc-André Lureau <marcandre.lureau@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
