KVM: use KVM_CAP_IMMEDIATE_EXIT

The purpose of the KVM_SET_SIGNAL_MASK API is to let userspace "kick"
a VCPU out of KVM_RUN through a POSIX signal.  A signal is attached
to a dummy signal handler; by blocking the signal outside KVM_RUN and
unblocking it inside, this possible race is closed:

          VCPU thread                     service thread
   --------------------------------------------------------------
        check flag
                                          set flag
                                          raise signal
        (signal handler does nothing)
        KVM_RUN

However, one issue with KVM_SET_SIGNAL_MASK is that it has to take
tsk->sighand->siglock on every KVM_RUN.  This lock is often on a
remote NUMA node, because it is on the node of a thread's creator.
Taking this lock can be very expensive if there are many userspace
exits (as is the case for SMP Windows VMs without Hyper-V reference
time counter).

KVM_CAP_IMMEDIATE_EXIT provides an alternative, where the flag is
placed directly in kvm_run so that KVM can see it:

          VCPU thread                     service thread
   --------------------------------------------------------------
                                          raise signal
        signal handler
          set run->immediate_exit
        KVM_RUN
          check run->immediate_exit

The previous patches changed QEMU so that the only blocked signal is
SIG_IPI, so we can now stop using KVM_SET_SIGNAL_MASK and sigtimedwait
if KVM_CAP_IMMEDIATE_EXIT is available.

On a 14-VCPU guest, an "inl" operation goes down from 30k to 6k on
an unlocked (no BQL) MemoryRegion, or from 30k to 15k if the BQL
is involved.

Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>
