nbd-client: Refuse read-only client with BDRV_O_RDWR

The NBD spec says that clients should not try to write/trim to
an export advertised as read-only by the server.  But we failed
to check that, and would allow the block layer to use NBD with
BDRV_O_RDWR even when the server is read-only, which meant we
were depending on the server sending a proper EPERM failure for
various commands, and also exposes a leaky abstraction: using
qemu-io in read-write mode would succeed on 'w -z 0 0' because
of local short-circuiting logic, but 'w 0 0' would send a
request over the wire (where it then depends on the server, and
fails at least for qemu-nbd but might pass for other NBD
implementations).

With this patch, a client MUST request read-only mode to access
a server that is doing a read-only export, or else it will get
a message like:

can't open device nbd://localhost:10809/foo: request for write access conflicts with read-only export

It is no longer possible to even attempt writes over the wire
(including the corner case of 0-length writes), because the block
layer enforces the explicit read-only request; this matches the
behavior of qcow2 when backed by a read-only POSIX file.

Fix several iotests to comply with the new behavior (since
qemu-nbd of an internal snapshot, as well as nbd-server-add over QMP,
default to a read-only export, we must tell blockdev-add/qemu-io to
set up a read-only client).

CC: qemu-stable@nongnu.org
Signed-off-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20171108215703.9295-3-eblake@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Vladimir Sementsov-Ogievskiy <vsementsov@virtuozzo.com>
