monitor: Prevent removing fd from set during init

If an fd is added to an fd set via the command line, and it is not
referenced by another command line option (ie. -drive), then clean
it up after QEMU initialization is complete.

Signed-off-by: Corey Bryant <coreyb@linux.vnet.ibm.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>
