char: use a fixed idx for child muxed chr

mux_chr_update_read_handler() is adding a new mux_cnt each time
mux_chr_update_read_handler() is called, it's not possible to actually
update the "child" chr callbacks that were set previously. This may lead
to crashes if the "child" chr is destroyed:

valgrind x86_64-softmmu/qemu-system-x86_64 -chardev
stdio,mux=on,id=char0 -mon chardev=char0,mode=control,default

when quitting:

==4306== Invalid read of size 8
==4306==    at 0x8061D3: json_lexer_destroy (json-lexer.c:385)
==4306==    by 0x7E39F8: json_message_parser_destroy (json-streamer.c:134)
==4306==    by 0x3447F6: monitor_qmp_event (monitor.c:3908)
==4306==    by 0x480153: mux_chr_send_event (qemu-char.c:630)
==4306==    by 0x480694: mux_chr_event (qemu-char.c:734)
==4306==    by 0x47F1E9: qemu_chr_be_event (qemu-char.c:205)
==4306==    by 0x481207: fd_chr_close (qemu-char.c:1114)
==4306==    by 0x481659: qemu_chr_close_stdio (qemu-char.c:1221)
==4306==    by 0x486F07: qemu_chr_free (qemu-char.c:4146)
==4306==    by 0x486F97: qemu_chr_delete (qemu-char.c:4154)
==4306==    by 0x487E66: qemu_chr_cleanup (qemu-char.c:4678)
==4306==    by 0x495A98: main (vl.c:4675)
==4306==  Address 0x28439e90 is 112 bytes inside a block of size 240 free'd
==4306==    at 0x4C2CD5A: free (vg_replace_malloc.c:530)
==4306==    by 0x1E4CBF2D: g_free (in /usr/lib64/libglib-2.0.so.0.4800.2)
==4306==    by 0x344DE9: monitor_cleanup (monitor.c:4058)
==4306==    by 0x495A93: main (vl.c:4674)
==4306==  Block was alloc'd at
==4306==    at 0x4C2BBAD: malloc (vg_replace_malloc.c:299)
==4306==    by 0x1E4CBE18: g_malloc (in /usr/lib64/libglib-2.0.so.0.4800.2)
==4306==    by 0x344BF8: monitor_init (monitor.c:4021)
==4306==    by 0x49063C: mon_init_func (vl.c:2417)
==4306==    by 0x7FC6DE: qemu_opts_foreach (qemu-option.c:1116)
==4306==    by 0x4954E0: main (vl.c:4473)

Instead, keep the "child" chr associated with a particular idx so its
handlers can be updated and removed to avoid the crash.

Signed-off-by: Marc-André Lureau <marcandre.lureau@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20161003094704.18087-3-marcandre.lureau@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>
