Ensure good ordering of memory instruction in cpu_exec

The IO thread, when it senses cpu_single_env == 0, expects exit_request
to be checked later on. A compiler scheduling constraint is not strong
enough to ensure this on modern architecture. A memory fence is needed
as well.

Signed-off-by: Olivier Hainque <hainque@adacore.com>
Signed-off-by: Fabien Chouteau <chouteau@adacore.com>
Reviewed-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Stefan Weil <sw@weilnetz.de>
