migration/rdma: Fix race on source

Fix a race where the destination might try and send the source a
WRID_READY before the source has done a post-recv for it.

rdma_post_recv has to happen after the qp exists, and we're
OK since we've already called qemu_rdma_source_init that calls
qemu_alloc_qp.

This corresponds to:
https://bugzilla.redhat.com/show_bug.cgi?id=1285044

The race can be triggered by adding a few ms wait before this
post_recv_control (which was originally due to me turning on loads of
debug).

Signed-off-by: Dr. David Alan Gilbert <dgilbert@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Peter Xu <peterx@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20170717110936.23314-2-dgilbert@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Juan Quintela <quintela@redhat.com>
