vfio: Generalize vfio_listener_region_add failure path

If a DMA mapping operation fails in vfio_listener_region_add() it
checks to see if we've already completed initial setup of the
container.  If so it reports an error so the setup code can fail
gracefully, otherwise throws a hw_error().

There are other potential failure cases in vfio_listener_region_add()
which could benefit from the same logic, so move it to its own
fail: block.  Later patches can use this to extend other failure cases
to fail as gracefully as possible under the circumstances.

Signed-off-by: David Gibson <david@gibson.dropbear.id.au>
Reviewed-by: Thomas Huth <thuth@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Laurent Vivier <lvivier@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Alex Williamson <alex.williamson@redhat.com>
