pthread: Avoid crashes/odd behavior caused by spurious wakeups

pthread_wait_cond can wake up for no reason (Wikipedia: Spurious_wakeup).
The FF_THREAD_SLICE thread mechanism could spontaneously execute jobs or
allow the caller of avctx->execute to return before all jobs were complete.
This adds tests to both cases to ensure the wakeup is real.

Signed-off-by: Ben Jackson <ben@ben.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael Niedermayer <michaelni@gmx.at>
