fix processing of large bulks (above 2GB)

- protocol parsing (processMultibulkBuffer) was limitted to 32big positions in the buffer
  readQueryFromClient potential overflow
- rioWriteBulkCount used int, although rioWriteBulkString gave it size_t
- several places in sds.c that used int for string length or index.
- bugfix in RM_SaveAuxField (return was 1 or -1 and not length)
- RM_SaveStringBuffer was limitted to 32bit length
