block: Make sure throttled BDSes always have a BB

It was already true in principle that a throttled BDS always has a BB
attached, except that the order of operations while attaching or
detaching a BDS to/from a BB wasn't careful enough.

This commit breaks graph manipulations while I/O throttling is enabled.
It would have been possible to keep things working with some temporary
hacks, but quite cumbersome, so it's not worth the hassle. We'll fix
things again in a minute.

Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Alberto Garcia <berto@igalia.com>
Acked-by: Stefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@redhat.com>
