qemu-nbd: throttle requests

Limiting the number of in-flight requests is implemented very simply
with a can_read callback.  It does not require a semaphore, unlike the
client side in block/nbd.c, because we can throttle directly the creation
of coroutines.  The client side can have a coroutine created at any time
when an I/O request is made.

Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>
