blockdev: move BDRV_O_NO_BACKING option forward

For both external_snapshot_prepare and qmp_drive_mirror, we eventually
append the option BDRV_O_NO_BACKING. However, we generally do so after
we create the image.

To accommodate image creation wanting to verify that a backing file
exists or not, add this option prior to create to override checking
the existence of the backing file. This prevents QEMU from trying to
re-open a backing file that's already in use (thanks to qcow2 locking).

Signed-off-by: John Snow <jsnow@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>
