vhost: ensure vhost_ops are set before calling iotlb callback

This patch fixes a crash that happens when vhost-user iommu
support is enabled and vhost-user socket is closed.

When it happens, if an IOTLB invalidation notification is sent
by the IOMMU, vhost_ops's NULL pointer is dereferenced.

Signed-off-by: Maxime Coquelin <maxime.coquelin@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Marc-André Lureau <marcandre.lureau@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
