block: Use 'detect-zeroes' option for 'blockdev-change-medium'

Instead of modifying the new BDS after it has been opened, use the newly
supported 'detect-zeroes' option in bdrv_open_common() so that all
requirements are checked (detect-zeroes=unmap requires discard=unmap).

Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Max Reitz <mreitz@redhat.com>
