h264: allocate hwaccel privdata after the frame buffer

This ensures the hwaccel privdata does not leak when a frame buffer could
not be allocated (and toggle the assert when the frame is re-used).
Having no frame buffer available is quite common when using the DXVA2
hwaccel in situations where the DXVA2 renderer is being re-allocated, for
example when moving between displays.

Signed-off-by: Anton Khirnov <anton@khirnov.net>
