avformat/mp3dec: fix gapless audio when seeking in CBR mode

Removing a bunch of questionable hacks makes it work. These hacks
apparently try to make concatenated mp3s with Lame headers seekable,
which doesn't make too much sense anyway. The main change is that we
trust the Xing header file size field now (the same field is used for
seeking with Xing TOC). Note that a mp3 might contain an unknown number
of unsupported additional tags, so we can't reliably compute this size
manually.

Signed-off-by: Michael Niedermayer <michaelni@gmx.at>
