vhost-user: check vhost_user_{read,write}() return value

The vhost-user code is quite inconsistent with error handling. Instead
of ignoring some return values of read/write and silently going on with
invalid state (invalid read for example), break the code flow when the
error happened.

Signed-off-by: Marc-André Lureau <marcandre.lureau@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
