qapi: Fix string input visitor handling of invalid list

As shown in the previous commit, the string input visitor was
treating bogus input as an empty list rather than an error.
Fix parse_str() to set errp, then the callers to exit early if
an error was reported.

Meanwhile, fix the testsuite to use the generated
qapi_free_int16List() instead of rolling our own, and to
validate the fixed behavior, while at the same time documenting
one more change that we'd like to make in a later patch (a
failed visit_start_list should guarantee a NULL pointer,
regardless of what things were on input).

Signed-off-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <1461879932-9020-23-git-send-email-eblake@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Markus Armbruster <armbru@redhat.com>
