qom: make object_delete usable for statically-allocated objects

Store in the object the freeing function that will be used at deletion
time.  This makes it possible to use object_delete on statically-allocated
(embedded) objects.  Dually, it makes it possible to use object_unparent
and object_unref without leaking memory, when the lifetime of object
might extend until after the call to object_delete.

Reviewed-by: Andreas Färber <afaerber@suse.de>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Anthony Liguori <aliguori@us.ibm.com>
