vfio: Do not reattempt a failed rom read

During lazy rom loading, if rom read fails, and the
guest attempts a read again, vfio will again attempt it.
Add a boolean to prevent this. There could be a case where
a failed rom read might succeed the next time because of
a device reset or such, but it's best to exclude unpredictable
behavior

Signed-off-by: Bandan Das <bsd@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Alex Williamson <alex.williamson@redhat.com>
