vhost-net: do not crash if backend is not present

Do not crash when backend is not present while enabling the ring. A
following patch will save the enabled state so it can be restored once
the backend is started.

Signed-off-by: Marc-André Lureau <marcandre.lureau@redhat.com>
Tested-by: Yuanhan Liu <yuanhan.liu@linux.intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Yuanhan Liu <yuanhan.liu@linux.intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Victor Kaplansky <victork@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
