net/ulp: prevent ULP without clone op from entering the LISTEN status

When an ULP-enabled socket enters the LISTEN status, the listener ULP data
pointer is copied inside the child/accepted sockets by sk_clone_lock().

The relevant ULP can take care of de-duplicating the context pointer via
the clone() operation, but only MPTCP and SMC implement such op.

Other ULPs may end-up with a double-free at socket disposal time.

We can't simply clear the ULP data at clone time, as TLS replaces the
socket ops with custom ones assuming a valid TLS ULP context is
available.

Instead completely prevent clone-less ULP sockets from entering the
LISTEN status.

Fixes: 734942cc4ea6 ("tcp: ULP infrastructure")
Reported-by: slipper <slipper.alive@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/4b80c3d1dbe3d0ab072f80450c202d9bc88b4b03.1672740602.git.pabeni@redhat.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>
