io_uring: mutex locked poll hashing

Currently we do two extra spin lock/unlock pairs to add a poll/apoll
request to the cancellation hash table and remove it from there.

On the submission side we often already hold ->uring_lock and tw
completion is likely to hold it as well. Add a second cancellation hash
table protected by ->uring_lock. In concerns for latency because of a
need to have the mutex locked on the completion side, use the new table
only in following cases:

1) IORING_SETUP_SINGLE_ISSUER: only one task grabs uring_lock, so there
   is little to no contention and so the main tw hander will almost
   always end up grabbing it before calling callbacks.

2) IORING_SETUP_SQPOLL: same as with single issuer, only one task is
   a major user of ->uring_lock.

3) apoll: we normally grab the lock on the completion side anyway to
   execute the request, so it's free.

Signed-off-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/1bbad9c78c454b7b92f100bbf46730a37df7194f.1655371007.git.asml.silence@gmail.com
Reviewed-by: Hao Xu <howeyxu@tencent.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>
