media: v4l: event: Prevent freeing event subscriptions while accessed

The event subscriptions are added to the subscribed event list while
holding a spinlock, but that lock is subsequently released while still
accessing the subscription object. This makes it possible to unsubscribe
the event --- and freeing the subscription object's memory --- while
the subscription object is simultaneously accessed.

Prevent this by adding a mutex to serialise the event subscription and
unsubscription. This also gives a guarantee to the callback ops that the
add op has returned before the del op is called.

This change also results in making the elems field less special:
subscriptions are only added to the event list once they are fully
initialised.

Signed-off-by: Sakari Ailus <sakari.ailus@linux.intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Hans Verkuil <hans.verkuil@cisco.com>
Reviewed-by: Laurent Pinchart <laurent.pinchart@ideasonboard.com>
Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org # for 4.14 and up
Fixes: c3b5b0241f62 ("V4L/DVB: V4L: Events: Add backend")
Signed-off-by: Mauro Carvalho Chehab <mchehab+samsung@kernel.org>
