<P> Their relationship becomes problematic when Vanessa secretly applies to NYU 's program for writers , Tisch , which Dan has also applied for . Despite their competition , Vanessa is chosen by the program and although this causes further issues between the two , Dan eventually expresses pride in Vanessa . Later , however , their relationship hits another obstacle when Dan discovers that Vanessa has received an offer difficult to reject : to work in Haiti , assisting the disaster aid as well as filming for CNN . When Dan tells Vanessa he knows she 's been offered this position , she insists on not going and staying in the city with Dan to work on their relationship . Dan eventually convinces Vanessa to accept the offer , however , when he informs her that it 's a once in a lifetime opportunity . Thus , Vanessa says a tearful goodbye to Dan and leaves , the couple planning on engaging in a long - distance relationship . </P>
<P> Their relationship becomes problematic when Vanessa secretly applies to NYU 's program for writers , Tisch , which Dan has also applied for . Despite their competition , Vanessa is chosen by the program and although this causes further issues between the two , Dan eventually expresses pride in Vanessa . Later , however , their relationship hits another obstacle when Dan discovers that Vanessa has received an offer difficult to reject : to work in Haiti , assisting the disaster aid as well as filming for CNN . When Dan tells Vanessa he knows she 's been offered this position , she insists on not going and staying in the city with Dan to work on their relationship . Dan eventually convinces Vanessa to accept the offer , however , when he informs her that it 's a once in a lifetime opportunity . Thus , Vanessa says a tearful goodbye to Dan and leaves , the couple planning on engaging in a long - distance relationship . </P>
who does vanessa end up with gossip girl
who does vanessa end up with gossip girl
Dan
Dan