<P> The official music video uses the radio edit version without the intro . The video begins with the girls in their respective apartments , watching television on their long couches . While Brandy watches an episode of The Jerry Springer Show Monica accidentally turns Brandy 's TV , with her remote , to an old romantic movie which Monica watches on her own TV . Whenever one of them turns the channel , the other 's TV stays on that channel and they soon tire of the back and forth . They then start to sing the song . The next scene shows the two discussing their problem among their separate groups of friends . The `` boy '' himself ( played by Mekhi Phifer ) then appears outside the two girls ' apartments , which are next to each other ; all their friends walk by him as they exit their respective friend 's place . The girls are in their pajamas in the next scene , and then each phones the boy over to make him decide whom he wants to be with . After Brandy and Monica fight with the song 's lyrics , the man comes to the left apartment , frustrated over whom to choose . The door opens , showing Brandy . Then it swings a little wider to reveal Monica as well . The boy is taken aback , and the door is slammed in his face . </P>
<P> The official music video uses the radio edit version without the intro . The video begins with the girls in their respective apartments , watching television on their long couches . While Brandy watches an episode of The Jerry Springer Show Monica accidentally turns Brandy 's TV , with her remote , to an old romantic movie which Monica watches on her own TV . Whenever one of them turns the channel , the other 's TV stays on that channel and they soon tire of the back and forth . They then start to sing the song . The next scene shows the two discussing their problem among their separate groups of friends . The `` boy '' himself ( played by Mekhi Phifer ) then appears outside the two girls ' apartments , which are next to each other ; all their friends walk by him as they exit their respective friend 's place . The girls are in their pajamas in the next scene , and then each phones the boy over to make him decide whom he wants to be with . After Brandy and Monica fight with the song 's lyrics , the man comes to the left apartment , frustrated over whom to choose . The door opens , showing Brandy . Then it swings a little wider to reveal Monica as well . The boy is taken aback , and the door is slammed in his face . </P>
who is the man in the boy is mine video
who is the man in the boy is mine video
Mekhi Phifer
Mekhi Phifer