<P> Victoria then states that she would not allow Vanessa to ruin her happiness , and that she would not apologize for the choices she 'd made . She then turns on a horrified Lisa , demanding that Lisa begin taking care of her financially as she made sure that Lisa had the best of everything while she was growing up . Victoria then leaves and later lies to Lisa and tells her that Carlos has agreed to counseling . Lisa returns to Carlos and resumes her wedding plans . At the family reunion , held at the home of ninety - six - year - old Aunt Ruby ( Georgia Allen ) , Vanessa and Victoria get into another verbal confrontation , eventually turning into a physical fight after Victoria insults Vanessa about her relationship with Frankie in front of the family . The fight is broken up when Myrtle , ( Cicely Tyson ) Madea 's daughter - in - law , and Aunt May ( Maya Angelou ) gathers the family members to an old shack the family 's ancestors grew up in . They , along with some of the older members of the family are appalled by how the family has turned out and Myrtle gives a long speech convincing them to act better to each other and to themselves . </P>
<P> Victoria then states that she would not allow Vanessa to ruin her happiness , and that she would not apologize for the choices she 'd made . She then turns on a horrified Lisa , demanding that Lisa begin taking care of her financially as she made sure that Lisa had the best of everything while she was growing up . Victoria then leaves and later lies to Lisa and tells her that Carlos has agreed to counseling . Lisa returns to Carlos and resumes her wedding plans . At the family reunion , held at the home of ninety - six - year - old Aunt Ruby ( Georgia Allen ) , Vanessa and Victoria get into another verbal confrontation , eventually turning into a physical fight after Victoria insults Vanessa about her relationship with Frankie in front of the family . The fight is broken up when Myrtle , ( Cicely Tyson ) Madea 's daughter - in - law , and Aunt May ( Maya Angelou ) gathers the family members to an old shack the family 's ancestors grew up in . They , along with some of the older members of the family are appalled by how the family has turned out and Myrtle gives a long speech convincing them to act better to each other and to themselves . </P>
who played aunt ruby in madea 's family reunion
who played aunt ruby in madea 's family reunion
Georgia Allen
Georgia Allen