<P> Perry started filming for the video on September 30 , 2011 . Filming ended on October 2 , 2011 . The video was shot at the Lima Residence , a contemporary home located in Calabasas , an affluent city in Los Angeles County , California . Mexican actor Diego Luna plays Perry 's boyfriend in the video . Photos from the set surfaced online , showing Perry wearing a conservative long - sleeved dress as well as sporting gray hair and prosthetic face wrinkles . The video was directed by Floria Sigismondi , who previously directed the video for `` E.T. '' The music video premiered on November 11 , 2011 . </P>
<P> Perry started filming for the video on September 30 , 2011 . Filming ended on October 2 , 2011 . The video was shot at the Lima Residence , a contemporary home located in Calabasas , an affluent city in Los Angeles County , California . Mexican actor Diego Luna plays Perry 's boyfriend in the video . Photos from the set surfaced online , showing Perry wearing a conservative long - sleeved dress as well as sporting gray hair and prosthetic face wrinkles . The video was directed by Floria Sigismondi , who previously directed the video for `` E.T. '' The music video premiered on November 11 , 2011 . </P>
the one that got away music video cast
the one that got away music video cast
Diego Luna Perry
Diego Luna Perry