<P> Big and Carrie eventually become close friends . He relocates to Napa Valley , and they are able to discuss their other ongoing relationships with each other . But their sexual chemistry always remains just below the surface , and their friendship never remains strictly platonic . After reading Carrie 's book , Big begins to understand how much he has hurt her , and he empathizes further when a woman he is dating treats him in a fashion similar to the way Big has treated Carrie : at arm 's length , eschewing true intimacy . The relationship between Big and the celebrity is certainly a parallel between Carrie / Big , except that the celebrity refuses physical intimacy one - sidedly , ignoring Big 's overtures except when it suits her , whereas Carrie / Big 's problems were almost completely emotional and undeniably two sided . Although it ends up allowing Big to finally get past his inner pain , the comparison is rather crude . Big grows as an emotional being , changing and evolving as the series progresses , moving past innate pain to suit Carrie 's needs better , ostensibly becoming a `` better man . '' </P>
<P> Big and Carrie eventually become close friends . He relocates to Napa Valley , and they are able to discuss their other ongoing relationships with each other . But their sexual chemistry always remains just below the surface , and their friendship never remains strictly platonic . After reading Carrie 's book , Big begins to understand how much he has hurt her , and he empathizes further when a woman he is dating treats him in a fashion similar to the way Big has treated Carrie : at arm 's length , eschewing true intimacy . The relationship between Big and the celebrity is certainly a parallel between Carrie / Big , except that the celebrity refuses physical intimacy one - sidedly , ignoring Big 's overtures except when it suits her , whereas Carrie / Big 's problems were almost completely emotional and undeniably two sided . Although it ends up allowing Big to finally get past his inner pain , the comparison is rather crude . Big grows as an emotional being , changing and evolving as the series progresses , moving past innate pain to suit Carrie 's needs better , ostensibly becoming a `` better man . '' </P>
where did big live in sex and the city
where did big live in sex and the city
Napa Valley
Napa Valley