person A: I always complain_comma_ nag_comma_ and treat my husband like crap. Which makes me feel like crap. I need to change/
person B: Whoa_comma_ that is quite the confession. But you know_comma_ it's good that you recognize that you need to change a behavior. Very mature. Not everyone has that same ability to be honest with themselves_comma_ and you should feel proud about that!
person A: That's true but it's not much to be proud of. You say it is but I certainly don't feel that way.
person B: I know_comma_ and I know it can be really hard to deal with that guilt. You want to solve the problem though_comma_ and that's still worth something. Being able to take the little victories will go a long way toward the goal you want in terms of how you treat your husband.