person A: Hi friend. I feel very ashamed because I got cheated on. I feel very negative and just depleted of emotion. I trusted them.
person B: Well_comma_ that't not your fault at all. It's your scumbag significant other's fault. You shouldn't feel ashamed for the crummy thing he did - you did nothing wrong.
person A: Thank you I appreciate that. I just held him to such a high standard and he let me down. A lot.
person B: If he's not meeting your standard then it's time to find a new boyfriend - even if that's the hard thing to do. You shouldn't ever lower your standards.