person A: I was disappointed when I realized someone close to me was not who I thought they were.
person B: Did that person betrayed you in any way?
person A: Well_comma_ in a sense. But to be fair_comma_ I may have had my own "vision" of who they were and held them to that standard -- not really seeing them for who they were. I have to accept some responsibility for that_comma_ you know?
person B: Don't be so hard on yourself for being a frien and trust another people.
person A: I've definitely worked through that! Happily_comma_ it hasn't affected my ability to trust -- just inspired me to be more truthful with myself and others ;-)