person A: My uncle is going to come after me. I didn't graduate.
person B: Why would your uncle be upset? And how do you feel about the situation? It sounds like there's a lot to unpack there.
person A: You are right but my unle is a simple man and he gave me a warning about me not graduating.
person B: I see. Well_comma_ what's most important is your reaction and feelings around the situation_comma_ and what you plan to do about it. The only one that can affect the outcome is you. It's disappointing to deal with your uncle's negativity_comma_ but you can't let it distract you from moving in a positive direction.