person A: My younger sister is getting married before I am_comma_ I can't believe it.
person B: Do you feel negative about it_comma_ or positive? It's hard to tell from your sentence. Maybe you feel both ways. If I were in your shoes_comma_ I could see how you would start to feel some more pressure in that situation. I was always the youngest child_comma_ so I never had pressure on me to accomplish anything by a certain time. If you're not happy about it_comma_ hopefully you can turn it into a positive so that your sister doesn't get any undue negativity.
person A: It's hard when all I can think about is being green with envy. What's wrong with me? I can't even get a date!
person B: I can understand why you'd start to feel that way. I think it's good that you want to look inward instead of just blatantly blaming other people. That means you can start to look for ways to make you feel better about yourself_comma_ that are solutions! But nothing has to be "wrong with you." For some_comma_ it just takes time. For others_comma_ they find it easier to accept someone to settle down with.