person A: My girlfriends aunt just died.  She wasnt close to her but is still devastated because of the impact it had on her sister.  I'm doing whatever I can to help them both.
person B: Sometimes deaths affect us even when we're not really close.
person A: Thats very true.  I know she feels bad for not keeping as close contact as she could have with her aunt now.
person B: Guilt can be a terrible thing to live with.