person A: The anniversaries for my Daddy and my sisters passings are coming up this month.
person B: Sorry to hear.  Will you be planning anything special?
person A: I want to do something but haven't decided what yet. It will be 18 years for him and this is her first which makes it especially hard.
person B: If you have other family member around you_comma_ ask around and get everyone involved.  It should be nice.