person A: My spouse gave me a gift_comma_ a watch. A friend of mine wanted to borrow my watch but I could not lend it to her. It values a lot to me
person B: If it is a treasured gift_comma_ your friend should not be asking for it! how did you feel when she did ask you? 
person A: I was surprised because she knew who gave me the gift_comma_ but she insisted.
person B: Did she understand when you gave her the reason you didn't want to lend it to her? 
person A: No! She didn't speak to me for days_comma_ she said I was mean and selfish.
person B: She doesn't sound like a good friend to me! 
person A: That's exactly what my sister said. She should have understood the reason why I could not lend her the watch.