person A: My girlfriend wants me to go to Thanksgiving at her parents this year_comma_ but I haven't even met them yet.
person B: I don't envy you there. I have done the blind family meeting at a holiday dinner before. It's nerve racking. 
person A: I feel a little nervous about it but my girlfriend doesn't understand.  She is starting to get irritated that I haven't given her my yes or no yet.  It is putting a strain on things.
person B: Well_comma_ my advice is to give in now_comma_ because you probably will in the end anyway and avoid any extra arguing you two would do because of it.