(1) For remote forwarding:-R [bind_address:]port:host:hostport         Specifies that the given port on the remote (server) host is to be forwarded to the given host and port on the local side.  This works by         allocating a socket to listen to port on the remote side, and whenever a connection is made to this port, the connection is forwarded over the         secure channel, and a connection is made to host port hostport from the local machine.         Port forwardings can also be specified in the configuration file.  Privileged ports can be forwarded only when logging in as root on the         remote machine.  IPv6 addresses can be specified by enclosing the address in square brackets.         By default, the listening socket on the server will be bound to the loopback interface only.  This may be overridden by specifying a         bind_address.  An empty bind_address, or the address *, indicates that the remote socket should listen on all interfaces.  Specifying a         remote bind_address will only succeed if the server's GatewayPorts option is enabled (see sshd_config(5)).         If the port argument is 0, the listen port will be dynamically allocated on the server and reported to the client at run time.  When used         together with -O forward the allocated port will be printed to the standard output.hostport specifies a connection endpoint for the destination process running on the destination host.Is port  a connection endpoint  in the SSH server process, or in a process which runs on the same source host as the SSH server and wants to use the SSH tunneling by attaching itself to port? (My guess is the latter)(2) For local forwarding: -L [bind_address:]port:host:hostport         Specifies that the given port on the local (client) host is to be forwarded to the given host and port on the remote side.  This works by         allocating a socket to listen to port on the local side, optionally bound to the specified bind_address.  Whenever a connection is made to         this port, the connection is forwarded over the secure channel, and a connection is made to host port hostport from the remote machine.  Port         forwardings can also be specified in the configuration file.  IPv6 addresses can be specified by enclosing the address in square brackets.         Only the superuser can forward privileged ports.  By default, the local port is bound in accordance with the GatewayPorts setting.  However,         an explicit bind_address may be used to bind the connection to a specific address.  The bind_address of localhost indicates that the listen         ing port be bound for local use only, while an empty address or * indicates that the port should be available from all interfaces.hostport specifies a connection endpoint for the destination process running on the destination host.Is port  a connection endpoint  in the SSH client process or in a process which runs on the same source host as the SSH client and wants to use the SSH tunnel by attaching itself to port? (My guess is the latter)(3) For SOCKS proxy: -D [bind_address:]port         Specifies a local dynamic application-level port forwarding.  This works by allocating a socket to listen to port on the local side, option         ally bound to the specified bind_address.  Whenever a connection is made to this port, the connection is forwarded over the secure channel,         and the application protocol is then used to determine where to connect to from the remote machine.  Currently the SOCKS4 and SOCKS5 protocols         are supported, and ssh will act as a SOCKS server.  Only root can forward privileged ports.  Dynamic port forwardings can also be specified in         the configuration file.         IPv6 addresses can be specified by enclosing the address in square brackets.  Only the superuser can forward privileged ports.  By default,         the local port is bound in accordance with the GatewayPorts setting.  However, an explicit bind_address may be used to bind the connection to         a specific address.  The bind_address of localhost indicates that the listening port be bound for local use only, while an empty address or         * indicates that the port should be available from all interfaces.Is port a connection endpoint in the SSH client process, in the SSH SOCKS server, or in a process which runs on the same host as the SSH client and wants to use the SOCKS server by connecting to port? (My guess is  the second. I guess it is not the first because the SSH client has its own default port(s). I am not sure about the third) 
Which processes do the ports (as communication connection endpoints) belong to in SSH port forwarding?
ssh;ssh tunneling;port forwarding;socks
These sketches should help you answer all the questions: https://unix.stackexchange.com/a/118650/121504But to answer your questions explicitly:For remote forwarding:port is a connection endpoint in the SSH server.For local forwarding:port is a connection endpoint in the SSH client processFor SOCKS proxy:port is a connection endpoint in the SSH client processBut much more visual explanation is really the sketches linked above. But to sum it up:The first port (for SOCK proxy the only one) is always the free port you are going to connect using the next step. The other port is the port where is running your existing service.Edit:The easier thing to find out, if I understand what is really the question is to use lsof. Your port is in my examples 12345:For remote forwarding :[local ] $ ssh -R 12345:localhost:22 remote[remote] $ lsof -P | grep 12345sshd 27772 root  7u IPv6 1304283702 0t0 TCP localhost:12345 (LISTEN)sshd 27772 root  8u IPv4 1304283703 0t0 TCP localhost.localdomain:12345 (LISTEN)For local forwarding:[local] $ ssh -L 12345:localhost:22 remote[local] $ lsof -p $(pidof ssh) -P | grep 12345ssh  6779 jakuje    4u  IPv6 146565      0t0     TCP ip6-localhost:12345 (LISTEN)ssh  6779 jakuje    5u  IPv4 146566      0t0     TCP localhost:12345 (LISTEN)For dynamic port forwarding:[local] $ ssh -D 12345 root@dta3.com[local] $ lsof -p $(pidof ssh) -P | grep 12345ssh     11388 jakuje    4u  IPv6 173537    0t0   TCP ip6-localhost:12345 (LISTEN)ssh     11388 jakuje    5u  IPv4 173538    0t0   TCP localhost:12345 (LISTEN)