They stay with either a grandmother or a distant aunt or uncle, and they are not able to cerebrate at home or have a party or a little bit of sweets and cake for the children.
Bahlala nomakhulu okanye umakazi okanye umalume okude, kwaye abakwazi ukwenza imibhiyozo ekhaya okanye ukwenza itheko okanye intwana yeelekese nekeyiki yabantwana.