They stay with either a grandmother or a distant aunt or uncle, and they are not able to cerebrate at home or have a party or a little bit of sweets and cake for the children. 
Vanogara nambuya kana tete, kana imwe hama yekure yavanoita tete, mai, baba kana sekuru, uye havakwanise kupemberera vari kumusha kana kuva nekamutambo kadiki kekufara kana kudyawo zviwitsi zvishomanana kana keke kuitira vana ava.