For example, a dispute that starts with “You’re always late!” may not be about the need for punctuality but about one partner feeling that he or she has been treated inconsiderately.
Sɛ nhwɛso no, sɛ ɛyɛ asɛm, “Woka akyi daa!” na ɛkɔfa bae a, ebia na ɛnyɛ bere so di ne asɛm no, na mmom awarefo no biako te nka sɛ wɔne no anni no yiye