While you cannot expect instant love for new family members from all relatives and friends, you can ask them to be polite and fair.
Ɛrentumi mma sɛ w’abusuafo ne wo nnamfo bɛpɛ abusua a wowom seesei no mufo asɛm prɛko pɛ, nanso wubetumi aka akyerɛ wɔn sɛ wonnya obu mma wɔn.