Instead, ask questions gently and respectfully, and be patient if your mate does not articulate feelings as quickly as you would like.
Mmom no, tɔ wo bo ase na fa obu bisabisa wo hokafo no nsɛm, na sɛ mmuae no mma sɛnea wohwehwɛ mpo a, kɔ so nya ne ho abotare.