For example, “I feel slighted when you make plans without consulting me first” is much more likely to elicit a positive response than “That is just like you—always making plans without consulting me!
Sɛ nhwɛso no, sɛ woka sɛ, “Woyɛ nhyehyɛe bi na woanni kan ammɔ me amanneɛ a, ɛma mete nka sɛ me ho nhia” a, ɛbɛma woanya mmuae papa sen sɛ wobɛka sɛ “Wode saa ara na wote—woyɛ biribiara a, wonka nkyerɛ me!