If you draw a bucket out of a well too quickly, you will lose a lot of water. Similarly, if you confront your mate too forcefully, your mate may become defensive and the opportunity to draw him or her out may be lost.
Sɛ wotwe ade a wɔde saw nsu fi abura mu ɔhare so a, nsu no bebree behwie agu. Saa ara na sɛ wo ne wo hokafo ankasa yiye a, ɛbɛyɛ den ama no sɛ obegye ne mfomso atom na ɛremma wuntumi nhu nea ɛwɔ ne komam.