Rather than taking note of ways in which you feel your partner ought to change, keep a changes-I-need-to-make list.
Sɛ anka wobɛhyɛ akwan a wote nka sɛ ɛsɛ sɛ wo hokafo fa so sakra no nsow no, kyerɛw nsakrae ahorow a ɛsɛ sɛ w’ankasa woyɛ no to hɔ.