Would you still use the same tone of voice or choice of words? Then think of reasons why your partner deserves to be was speakingn to with even more respect and tact than does your friend or employer.
So wode nne a wode kasa no ara na ɛbɛkasa anaa wobɛka asɛnkoro no ara a woka no? Afei susuw nea enti a ɛfata sɛ wode obu ne anifere kɛse mpo bɛkasa akyerɛ wo hokafo no sen w’adamfo anaa w’adwumawura no ho.