title: The Dance of Sex: A Dreambody Approach to Love, Sex and Intimacy
author:  Dr. Gary N Reiss 
description: Gary Reiss, LCSW, Ph.D., Diplomate in Process-oriented Psychology, has been practicing as a therapist for 35 years. He teaches worldwide and is on the faculty of the Process Work Center of Portland. Garys approach integrates process work with spiritual traditions. He specializes in conflict resolution, family therapy, and working with people in comatose states. His books include Changing Ourselves, Changing the World; Vital Loving; Beyond War and Peace in the Arab Israeli Conflict; Angry Men, Angry Women, Angry World; Inside Coma; Dance of Sex, A Dreambody Approach to Love, Sex, and Ecstasy; Families that Dream Together; and Dreaming Money.
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  **The Sextet Anthology, Volume 2**
  
   **Dirty Dancing**
  
  Close your eyes and picture bodies swaying to a rhythmic beat.
  
  Watch as flashing eyes promise delights beyond imagination.
  
  Experience the electricity sparking between dancers as their bodies col ide.
  Feel hearts pounding with sexual excitement. Listen to their sighs as desire
  reaches its peak. Observe one woman drowning in the sensuous scents of men,
  each pledging their love and the fulfil ment of a dream. Then imagine you are
  that woman, surrounded in the dance by men who are willing to compromise, to
  join together to partake of your love, and give everything they have to ensure
  your happiness. As their bodies tempt you while moving sinuously against your
  own, wil you give in to temptation and accept what they offer? Yes, you wil .
  And when you make that leap, you wil do it knowing that you will be forever
  bound to them, intoxicated by their love and delirious with joy.
  
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  **Lessons in Lov