title: Dealing with Divorce Leader's Guide: Finding Direction When Your Parents Split Up
author:  Elizabeth Oates 
description: <span>My prayer for "Dealing with Divorce" has always been that it would bring hope and healing to thousands of hurting teens. Teens - I know you are out there, many of you suffering in silence. How do I know? Because I was once just like you. My own parents divorced when I was a toddler. My mom then remarried and divorced during my teen years. Divorce is the worst. Let's be honest for a moment, shall we? No words, medication, counselors, or programs will "fix" your life. Not even this book will make all your problems magically disappear. But here is the secret: only your Savior can bring peace to your hurting soul. If you are willing to do some difficult work, this book will draw you closer to Him and bring aboutthe healing you desire. Are you ready? Then let the journey begin.</span>
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  **W** **HO'S** ******TO** **B** **LAME**
  
   **Written by**
  
   **Kate William**
  
   **Created by**
  
   **FRANCINE PASCAL**
  
  Copyright © 2015, Francine Pascal
  
   _To Hilary Bloom_
  
  Enid put her arms around Elizabeth. "Hey," she said softly, ''don't torture
  yourself. It isn't your fault that your parents are separating. Will you trust
  me on this one? However terrible the things you may have done seem to you
  right now, they aren't the cause," Enid insisted.
  
  Elizabeth sighed. Enid just didn't understand. "I guess you're right," she
  muttered.
  
  "I _know_ I'm right," Enid said confidently. "There's no way their separation
  was your fault. You have to stop thinking like that."
  
  Elizabeth nodded glumly. Of course Enid would say those things—that was what
  best friends were for. But deep down, Elizabeth knew she was at least partly
  to blame for her parents' separation, and nothing was going to convince her
  otherwise.
  
   **CONTENTS**
  
  Chapter One
  
  Chapter Two
  
  Chapter Three
  
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