title: I Love You, but I'm Not IN Love with You: Seven Steps to Saving Your Relationship
author:  Andrew G. Marshall 
description: Andrew G. Marshall is a marital therapist with twenty years experience. He works for RELATE, the UK&#146;s leading couple-counseling charity, and writes on relationships for The Times, Observer and Sunday Express. Dr. Marshall is also the president of the British Men's Counseling Association and a frequent contributor to stressbusting.co.uk, a relationship counseling website.
zlib_text: **ASKING FOR A SECOND CHANCE**
  
  “What can I do to convince you I’m sincere?” Andrew asked.
  
  “I want to fix this, but I’m not sure how to get past it.”
  
  Andrew covered her hand. “I’m truly sorry. We must overcome this.”
  
  “I have no doubt your apology is sincere. I’m miserable letting you go. But I
  vowed not to marry another man who didn’t treat me as a partner. You should’ve
  trusted me enough to know telling me Gabe’s story wouldn’t have mattered.”
  
  “I do trust you. You’re my partner. Can you admit you love me?” Andrew
  pleaded, “At least give me that much hope.”
  
  “Yes. I love you. If I didn’t, I wouldn’t be upset. Love isn’t enough. I
  learned this lesson when I married Gerald. You had me convinced we’d built a
  firm foundation for a marriage and future, until this. Please give me time.”
  
  “I’ll leave, but I urge you to reconsider your decision. We grew a friendship,
  which blossomed into a long-lasting love and respect for each other. I promise
  you we can have the future you desire.” He wa