title: Porn Addicts Wife: Surviving Betrayal and Taking Back Your Life
author:  Sandy Brown 
description: Certified life and relationship coach Sandy Brown brings over 20 years of personal development experience to her work with clients around the world to create happier lives. She sees her own life as a work in progress and, through her own relationships, has learned to embrace both the good and the bad as opportunities for personal growth. <br /><br />Sandy obtained her coaching certification from Martha Beck International, and it is her own experience in surviving the betrayal of her husbands porn addiction that has inspired her to focus her practice on helping other women to do the same. Through her own recovery and her experience with clients, Sandy has developed a process of recovery to empower women at a time when they feel all is lost. <br /><br />Sandy and her husband are happily married and live on the shores of Lake Michigan, where they have been raising their five sons.
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  DRUNK AND HIGH, HOLED UP IN A HOTEL ROOM WITH a beautiful blonde she barely
  knew, Jennie Ketcham was thirty-six hours away from entering rehab. Her on-
  camera alter ego, Penny Flame, was a rising star. Her personal life, however,
  had been getting worse for years and finally hit an all-time low.
  
  
  Guys are gonna want one thing from you. To Jennie’s young ears, her father’s
  advice meant one thing: You can use your sexuality to control men. Life was
  imploding around her: her parents’ divorce, their spiraling addictions, her
  deteriorating relationships with them. She lost her virginity at thirteen and
  began a game of initiating boys her age into manhood. For the fleeting moments
  she spent in bed with them, she got to be the center of attention.
  
  
  Eventually, Jennie found porn—that enticing world of immediate gratification,
  endless drugs, and seemingly endless money—and became Penny Flame. Divorced
  from her feelings, tempted into a 