title: The Body Language of Dating: Read His Signals, Send Your Own, and Get the Guy
author:  Tonya Reiman 
description: "[Tonya Reiman has] been deconstructing what's REALLY going on behind the world's most famous faces on TV with me for years. She's great at that, so imagine how good she is at seeing past the frozen smiles and darting eyes of regular folks like you and me. She has an innate talent, helping us all see what the guy or girl across the table is really thinking!" --Juliet Huddy, FOX News
zlib_text: Delivery Guides
  Emotional Bank Account
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  This Sequence relies on storytelling, and so use tonal variety which corresponds to the peak-trough-
  plateau structure that you should already be familiar with (refer to the Rollercoastering report for a 
  refresher.) Change your tone when you quote "uncle Ronald". Also, place extra emphasis on the bold 
  keywords.
  The Asshole Theory
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  Place non-verbal anchors when you say the bold keywords (arrogance, self-assurance, cockiness, 
  confidence) in order to associate those attributes to you. Don't be afraid to associate seemingly negative 
  attributes like "asshole" or "arrogance" or "cockiness" to yourself - it will serve as a contrast to the other 
  "nice" guys who seemed to be nice only to get into her pants.
  Value Elicitation Sequence
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  The final line is crucial as you want to make the association between the ideal guy imagery in her mind 
  with you. Remember to "blotch" this line appropriately - just like you would with an Implanted Command. 
  For mo