title: Why Did You Give Up The Koochie and Now You Mad: Understanding God's Idea of Woman, Wife, and Marriage
author:  Shadoew Rose Terrell 
description: Shadoew Rose is a freelance writer who enjoys coaching spouses in controversial marital issues, along with her husband, Clarence. She is an inspirational poet, and blogger. She maintains a Facebook page to network with her friends and readers. Shadoew is the author of, "From The Father's Heart" (Tate Publishing 2010). Her latest project, "WHY DID YOU GIVE UP THE KOOCHIE, AND NOW YOU MAD" enlightens men and women in God's idea of woman, wife, and marriage. She and her husband coach challenged marital relations. Currently, Shadoew is pursuing her PhD in Theology. This is Shadoew's second book.
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  After the scream, he had more or less been numb.
  
  He had held the body of his beloved Jadzia Dax, his wife, in his arms, and he
  had howled the Klingon death scream. Even though she had not been truly
  Klingon, in many ways she had attended to the teachings and standards of his
  race with more diligence than he had.
  
  And now he had shut down.
  
  Jadzia was dead. It had been so futile, so pointless, and above all, so
  sudden. They had just been speaking of having a child, just that very day, and
  just like that, she was gone.
  
  Once upon a time, the Klingons had had gods. But then they had killed the gods
  because they were too much trouble. As a result, Klingons knew that once one
  was put into the universe, one was on one's own. There was no looking to a god
  or gods for answers, for none were ever going to be forthcoming. There was no
  court of higher appeal for the unfairness of life, there were no prayers to be
  served up asking for personal gain, support, or understanding. At this
  particu