title: Unfaithful: Hope and Healing After Infidelity
author:  Gary Shriver 
description: Co-founders of Hope and Healing Ministries and a married couple, the authors offer what the subtitle affirms-hope and healing-in this revealing autobiography of their excruciating journey through infidelity. Each author takes a turn giving brutal expression to heartache endured in facing Gary's adultery and in subsequently working through adulterous betrayal. Movingly, each partner describes the process of looking at themselves, their marriage (before and after the infidelity), and the changes they wanted to make. Though the Shrivers present a strongly Christian perspective on dealing with adultery, their message is also pertinent to those outside the Christian faith community. Readers will appreciate their courage as well as the practical steps married couples can take to move through such a devastating experience and find forgiveness on the other side. This edition revises and updates a 2005 original edition. <br />Copyright  Reed Business Information, a division of Reed Elsevier Inc. All rights reserved.
zlib_text: FOREWORD How far will some people go to achieve those things that are
  important to them? A question as old as man. And as long as people have goals
  they feel are important, other people will feel as if they have been exploited
  for the sake of an individual's goals. Examples can be found everywhere that
  the end justifies the means for people whose personal achievement, or success,
  or personal desires, is the only thing that really matters. THE UNFAITHFUL
  FIANCEE is a story about a young woman who will do anything to attain the
  goals she has set for herself. She will even resort to what some would call
  perverted acts in order to get what she wants. But the fact remains that
  despite the means she uses to reach her goal, she does find happiness, and no
  one is harmed. A startling story that provides insight into the happiness that
  can be attained by some from actions that much of our society considers
  perverted. -The Publisher THE UNFAITHFUL FIANCEE by Janet McCoy CHAPTER ONE
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