title: Bringing Sex into Focus: The Quest for Sexual Integrity
author: Caroline J. Simon
description: "In this thought-provoking book, philosopher and college teacher Caroline Simon seeks to bring clarity to our culture's sexual confusion. She uses helpful metaphor, optics, as a way to talk about six different lenses through which people view sex. . . . The book, written with the non-philosopher in mind, will be particularly useful for young adults searching for a way to think through sexual issues and discern the perspectives that shape media and culture." (Susan Olasky, World Magazine, February 11, 2012)<br /><br />"The skeptic would argue that the Bible was written in a time and culture so different from ours that its prescriptions are no longer valid or relevant for us. But truth be told, the New Testament world was characterized by as much sexual freedom as we have today. In our age of 'whatever floats your boat,' Caroline Simon makes the virtuous life appealing, worth pursuing and ultimately profoundly satisfying." (Rebecca Manley Pippert, author of Out of the Saltshaker &amp; into the World)<br /><br />"Caroline Simon presents a balanced philosophical approach to the orthodox Christian ethics of sex for a whole new generation of wonderers. <em>Bringing Sex into Focus</em> is well worth your time." (Andrew Marin, author of Love Is an Orientation, www.themarinfoundation.org)<br /><br />"In this fine book Caroline Simon delivers marvelously on what she promises: philosophically informed insight into the complexities of human sexuality. Not that she stays on the level of theory. There is much practical wisdom here on the 'ordinary' interactions of our highly sexualized culture: flirtation, seduction, 'hook-ups,' and much more!" (Richard J. Mouw, president and professor of Christian philosophy, Fuller Theological Seminary)<br /><br />"Caroline Simon defends sexual integrity, but that's not her sole intention. With clarity and care Simon describes cultural lenses used to determine what we believe about flirting, premarital sex, prostitution and other sexual behaviors. She challenges readers to avoid simplistic explanations of perspectives other than their own as she helps us understand how each leads to consistent beliefs about sexual behaviors. Simon's readable, philosophical study of sex makes an important contribution to the field." (Lisa Graham McMinn, professor of sociology and author of Sexuality and Holy Longing)<br /><br /><em>"Bringing Sex into Focus</em> delivers on the promise of its title: clarifying the meaning of sex and sexual faithfulness. Caroline Simon describes multiple lenses--both Christian and secular--used to interpret human sexuality, and fairly brings them into dialogue with one another. The book promotes civility and fairness for Christians engaging diverse sexual views and also upholds Christian ideals. Readers will be challenged to sharpen their vision, supported by this well-researched and lucidly presented book." (Jenell Williams Paris, professor of anthropology, Messiah College, and author of The End of Sexual Identity)<br /><br />"I found this to be a very readable book. The author considers a number of interesting topics from flirting and seduction to pornography and prostitution to hooking up and casual sex. One of the values of this book is it helps one to consider the extent to which someone is functioning within an alternative view with integrity. . . . These virtue distinctions are presented by the author in such a way as to help others be more honest about their sexual struggles." (Rod Bassett, Journal of Psychology and Christianity, 2014, Vol. 33, No. 2)
zlib_text: **The Unrepentant Rake**
  
   **Barbara Monajem**
  
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   _England, 1802_
  
  Beatrix March chose to be a governess rather than let an overbearing husband
  rule her. Even though she never intends to marry, it doesn’t mean she can’t
  enjoy a man’s…company—especially when presented with one as tempting as
  notorious rake Simon Carling!
  
  Simon doesn’t usually seduce virtuous governesses, but Beatrix is unlike any
  woman he’s ever encountered. Her luscious curves were made to grace a man’s
  bed, and he’s never denied himself such satisfaction before.
  
  Flouting society’s tedious conventions, in favor of thrilling chemistry, may
  force Beatrix and Simon to contemplate the unthinkable—marriage!
  
   **Author Note**
  
  When Simon Carling showed up on the first page of _The Wanton Governess,_ he
  was only a secondary character—the annoying brother of the hero, James. But he
  coaxed, cajoled, and even wheedled (although he will deny that) to get a
  starring role in his own story. “I’m bri