   My dad == Asshole extraordinare...
  My dad comes knocking on my door getting ready to leave for work. It''s 4:35am here so I figure he just wants me to turn my music down. No. He asks if I am registered for the local community college yet. So Now I have a big argument with him because I told him last week I wasn''t going to start college this year and that I was going to get a job and pay for it myself. So he''s all pissed and is saying he''s gonna kick me out of the house now. I am about ready chop him into fucking pieces with my katana and feed the chunks to my cat.He told me I either have to be enrolled full time in college or have a job in order to live in his house. I told him, "Fine, how the fuck is your poor ass going to pay for college? You''re so damn poor you can''t even afford your weekly secret pack of cigarettes. And I don''t know if you''ve noticed, but I have been trying to get a goddamn job! You know as well as I do what the economy (at least in california) is going through! NO ONE IS FUCKING HIRING! I''ll get a job when someone finally hires me. I know you''re probably going to say I should have stayed at my other job, but not only was it in telemarketing, but they were also CROOKS! I was supposed to be an independant contractor and the salary I got was tax free (sort of). Well I earned $86.00 and only got $45.00! So don''t be bitching at me." Then I slammed my door and cranked my music up to the max. I''ve been job hunting unsuccessfully for about 3 months now. I had a job working for "Vector Marketing" selling Cutco knives but it ended up being a telemarketing thing and I hated it, so I quit. If you read the convo above you will know they are also crooks. I don''t really want to explain the payment method right now, but you could easily get screwed working for those bastards. God damn  I hate my dad... 
  mmm mmm mmm mmm mmm get a job! ;  Hands up who honestly thought DHS was NOT one of these pathetic teenage morons who causes trouble for their parents? No hands ... didn''t think so! ;  I am not being a trouble at all. Fuck they haven''t bought me new clothes since I was 16, the house we live in is a shithole and I never even leave my room. By mom is constantly locked up in her room watching TV. My dad is NEVER home. The only time I ever get a good meal is when I happen to be at a friend''s house around the time their parents start making dinner and invite me to join them. I''ve been looking for a fucking job, putting in apps, going to interviews, calling people, sending letters. The economy in california is fucked right now. No one is hiring. As soon as I do get money I am moving the fuck out of this hell hole and I hope to never see any of my family again for the rest of my life, which at this rate isn''t going to be very long before I fucking shoot my self in the fucking skull because I am so fed up with all the other fucking morons in the world like Nervo and OOCCO. There is only about so much fucking SHIT one person can take in their life before enough is enough, and I''ve just about had it. ;;  I''ll try to be a bit helpful here DHS since I have been through what you have a few years ago. My only choice ended up being the military because 1) I didn''t go to school and 2) Even though I did hold a fulltime job it was a dead end one. Not that going into any branch of the military might be an option you have to consider but the point is that you have to try hard and refrain from directing blame toward your parents and using self defense mechanisms. You just have to wake up one day or just have the "moment of clarity" where you realize without a doubt that no matter what you and you alone has control over your lifes destiny. Blaming circumstances around you for your own shortcomings is a hinderance. You have to look at it perhaps from a standpoint of life being a total challenge to you and you have to fight back hard. I know there are jobs out there, it is just an issue of how much you are willing to compromise for a job that will keep you gainfully employed. I admit that school might not be something you want to delve into right away which is perfectly fine, because I don''t recommend anyone going to college if they don''t feel a deep passion or desire for learning at the moment.Remember one last thing also: The more time you spend unemployed, the harder it will be to get a job because many employers do not look favorably toward large gaps in employment.Just make a good faith effort to find a job and that should help relieve some of the burden. For instance, you shouldn''t even be doing anything else like posting here or playing games or watching TV until you have accomplished that goal first. Good luck.  ;  Or you may wake up and realise that your only purpose in life is to serve as a warning to others. But then ... It''s probably all your parents fault, moron. ;quote:Original post by Nervo  I''ll try to be a bit helpful here DHS since I have been through what you have a few years ago. My only choice ended up being the military because 1) I didn''t go to school and 2) Even though I did hold a fulltime job it was a dead end one. Not that going into any branch of the military might be an option you have to consider but the point is that you have to try hard and refrain from directing blame toward your parents and using self defense mechanisms. You just have to wake up one day or just have the "moment of clarity" where you realize without a doubt that no matter what you and you   alone has control over your lifes destiny. Blaming circumstances around you for your own shortcomings is a hinderance. You have to look at it perhaps from a standpoint of life being a total challenge to you and you have to fight back hard. I know there are jobs out there, it is just an issue of how much you are willing to compromise for a job that will keep you gainfully employed. I admit that school might not be something you want to delve into right away which is perfectly fine, because I don''t recommend anyone going to college if they don''t feel a deep passion or desire for learning at the moment.Remember one last thing also: The more time you spend unemployed, the harder it will be to get a job because many employers do not look favorably toward large gaps in employment.Just make a good faith effort to find a job and that should help relieve some of the burden. For instance, you shouldn''t even be doing anything else like posting here or playing games or watching TV until you have accomplished that goal first. Good luck.    I am not sure if you read my post at all. I am not blaming my parents for anything (other than not buying me clothes when I need them or feeding me) I am having problems with. I am bitching about my dad being an asshole when he knows damn good and well I am having problems and instead of helping me he just throws more problems on my lap. I''ve been trying so hard to make them happy and yet they never seem content with anything I do... Nothing is ever good enough for them. This may sound a little cliche but it''s the fucking truth. All they can do to "encourage" me is to put me down and make me feel low about myself. I have never heard a single praise from them my whole life. They only think of the negative side and that''s probably why I am so pessimistic myself. I am actually crying as I write this because I just can''t think of how to make them understand what I am going through, everyone will claim they went through the same thing but it''s always different in someone. You can feel sympathetic but you can never feel my pain. I just don''t know what to do anymore. ;  Well, son, you''re very good at being a dickhead on message boards. Nervo was right - the military is designed for people like you. You''ll even have the honour of going to the front line. ;  It was obviously a mistake to post here, since it seems that NO ONE  has even hit puberty yet. 