   I'm Bored aka The Friend Zone
  I really need a gf, whos with me say 'I'?Seems like woman see me more as a friend, which is so annoying! I'm no stud, but women are completely different company to men and i'm lonesome tonite.[sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad][sad]I don't care if noone replies i just wanted to share my pain.[Edited by - Dave on December 14, 2005 4:04:18 AM]
Quote:Original post by DaveSeems like woman see me more as a friendhahaha :) j/k it's frustrating isn't it. Invite a "friend" over and seduce them with a "friendly" game of twister. Or go to your local meat market if you're not really after a relationship.;Quote:Original post by DaveSeems like woman see me more as a friendmy experience tells me the problem is probably one of these: either you are too unattractive, or you simply act too feminine. the good news is that its usually the latter, which is easier to solve than the former.   ;  Well i see myself as a fairly attractive bloke, certainly not but ugly and other more distant women i have talked to about this have said that they can't understand why i aint going out with anyone.I don't believe i am a feminine-acting person, i mean what would be the definition of this?I'm not a person who has perfectly waxed hair every day, not remotely. I can make people laugh etc,Now supposing i was too feminine, how do i butch up. I'm not genuinly looking for a way to, but i'm curious as to what you mean.I think my lack of success with women boils down to being incredibly bad at reading signs and incredibly bad timing. *sigh*   ;Quote:Original post by Davemore distant women i have talked to about this have said that they can't understand why i aint going out with anyone.<snip>I think my lack of success with women boils down to being incredibly bad at reading signs and incredibly bad timing. *sigh*That was probably a sign.I wouldn't get too worried about it, the best relationships appear out of the blue & when you least expect it.   ;Quote:Original post by DrewGreenQuote:Original post by Davemore distant women i have talked to about this have said that they can't understand why i aint going out with anyone.<snip>I think my lack of success with women boils down to being incredibly bad at reading signs and incredibly bad timing. *sigh*That was probably a sign.I wouldn't get too worried about it, the best relationships appear out of the blue & when you least expect it.What was probably a sign, the fact that she said that about me?   ;  The "I can't understand why you're not going out with anyone" part.I only speak from my own experience, but that very same phrase has been said to me several times. I suck at reading signs as well but when I found out what they'd meant some time in the future off other friends I either a) kicked myself for being that blind or b) got my game on successfully the next time I saw them.   ;  im bored to, so consider this part of a friendly conversation more than advice:girls are weird, but I bet you they dont truly see you as just a friendI had this same thing and then I found out that the cutest, most attractive friend I had had a thing for me even though we were 'just friends'. Its been 5 years now.For fucks sake the world is weird, weird I say.   ;Quote:Original post by DaveSeems like woman see me more as a friend, which is so annoying!So work on that. Chat up their friends. Don't just sit there listening to everything they say, take control. Flirt. Get out there.   ;  I also find myself in the i-like-her-but-don't-say-anything-and-then-never-see-her-again thing.So infuriating. I feel like i should be more impulsive to eliminate that problem.   