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Mostly relating to relationships, I'm wondering what people (men and women) feel about this. If you're in a relationship and the sex is great, does that make you want more? Or does it not affect your sex drive at all? Do you get turned off when the sex is not great?

If the sex is hot with lots of chemistry in a relationship I will not only desire my partner more, but be likely to carry on ex-sex once we have parted ways.

Bad sex? Newly bad sex or always bad sex? Bad sex from day one would not make it to a second round much less the relationship stage. Recently bad sex is a turn off. However, if my partner was willing and open we could likely work through it - depends on a lot of factors.

My wife loves sex, we both have it at least 4-5 times a week. I am pretty well endowed and love spending every min pleasing every part of her body. We both crave sex together as it's always fantasic whether it's loving, naughty, rough, etc. Because of this I feel we both love and continue to have sex, alot! This pattern has carried on since we were 17years old until today, 10 years later

My wife loves sex, we both have it at least 4-5 times a week. I am pretty well endowed and love spending every min pleasing every part of her body. We both crave sex together as it's always fantasic whether it's loving, naughty, rough, etc. Because of this I feel we both love and continue to have sex, alot! This pattern has carried on since we were 17years old until today, 10 years later

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ditto... (well except for the 'endowed' part... and more like 20 plus yrs together for me and mine)

of course through the years there have been declines in our sex for periods for various reasons.. job stress, family stress, whatever. But if you can identify the reason that sex is not as 'freaking hot as it used to be' then you can talk about it and get it back there... we have...

you both have to agree that sex is great. finding someone that likes the same things you like, and cares as much about pleasing you as you do them.... that's tricky .

If the sex is good? I want more. If the sex is bad....define bad? Like first time and oh, that didn't quite go right? Or, never was good and now it sucks? Cause that first one might get some forgiveness and 'let's try this' but not the later. I dunno. Bad sex is bad. Like I never, never want to have sex with that person again. But sex that had possibilities and we were too new with each other, or whatever, that's different. I my opinion, of course.