This video is awesome! I could have watched it in the hospitol when I had my baby, and I didnt, and I really wish I had! We thought that our baby hated being swaddled, but that wasn't true! You have to swaddle and rock him.... and put him on his stomach or side, its amazing watching these babies in the video just immediatly stop fussing and become calm. There IS a calming reflex, and knowing how to trigger it is a very important part of parenting a newborn. This video came too late for my first baby, but I will CERTAINLY use it for my next one! I really wish that I had known about it before. EVERY PARENT should watch this video before and shortly after having a baby. It is amazing how well it works for newborns. I did try it with my 2 month old, and it did work, but he was a little old to be used to it anymore! BUT I HIGHLY recommend this video to EVERY PARENT! its AWESOME!!!!