This is the most insightful and profound songs in Mary J's career. Why I say that? because not only does it sounds good but it makes you think about your own life. I believe that there are singers/entertainers that have certain jobs and although Mary J was still going through her own personal crisis, she was on her way to being the sister that sings songs to empower black and other women of color. And this song allows you to examine your life and change it for the good.