I am a 42-year old woman and yes... I bought this for myself.  I cuddle him sometimes while I sleep.  If that's wrong, I don't wanna be right.  I have named him Ben and he is awesome.  He is VERY soft.  And I love that he's floppy -- the beanie things are all in his hands and feet and bottom.  So he sits just like this picture.  He is also very well made and has sturdy construction, for those of you thinking of purchasing him for a child.