The only book I purchased and then threw away in the same day.  I could not get anywhere in this whiney book. I should have read all these reviews before I purchased this book.  I would have saved my money. When I started reading and immediately found a hung up, unlikeable woman with a screwed up family, I thought, "Karol, you need something much more interesting."  Don't bother, it stinks from the first page and how it could win it's way to a "list" is beyond me.