I wished I saved my money. The intro was promising but the rest of book failed--miserably.  I'm going to say the writer was trying to please some of those people who may point to a double standard regarding men and women and past relationships. for that reason she not only points to the heroine's old lover as good in bed and someone the heroine loved, but she had the girl bump into old lover and agree to have coffee with him. It didn't work but helped to persuade me that the gal was a bubble headed little tomato.