#Person1#: I don't want you to be worried, but our son has some bad habits now. He says painful words everyday.
#Person2#: What words? Can you tell me?
#Person1#: He says kick mommy, beat mommy, don't want mommy very quickly if I do something that he doesn't like. You know, if I wash his face or change his clothes, things like that.
#Person2#: Honey, I don't know what to tell you. Of course Tony is a young child. But do not underestimate his ability to learn and reason.
#Person1#: Yes, but sometimes he is just not reasonable.
#Person2#: I suggest you treat him with patience, affection, and respect. If he needs to do something, like go to bed, or be washed, etc. , please guide or help him to get it done, but lead him with gentleness.
#Person1#: It's easy to say, but I will try.
#Person2#: Motivate Tony to cooperate by rewarding his good behavior. Do not emphasize punishment for bad moods, etc. Do not threaten him with punishment if he resists the actions you desire.
#Person1#: I know my parents sometimes threaten to punish him. But this doesn't work, instead he picks up another bad habit.
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