anchor.diff:  49. Keep a couple’s journal. 
   Write down your desires and fantasies and leave them out for your significant other to find—encourage him to write back.
   50. Agree to disagree. 
  -This is one of the most important relationship tips, as you both have strong opinions and therefore some issues will never be resolved. Respect each other’s point of view and agree not to argue about the same issue, unless it’s something that could get in the way of your future, like politics, religion, or values.
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   51. Set goals. 
   In addition to setting life goals, set relationship goals. For example: We aim to spend more time together outside rather than in front of the TV.
   52. Take responsibility for your own happiness
  
positive.code: 14. Know what you need and then ask for it.
  You’re dating a human, not a magical psychic.
  15. Take a class.
  It’s proven that couples who learn together connect deeper. Find some common ground (cooking? art? science?) and go from there.
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  16. Stop complicating things that aren’t complicated enough.
  Don’t pull a Carrie Bradshaw during the Aiden years: If you bemoan the fact that your relationship is going too well, you might need to revisit why you’re constantly seeking out drama.
  17. Assume that if something was said that hurt your feelings, it wasn’t intended that way.
  
negative.code: It’s easy to silo your social lives and create separate his-and-hers worlds, but bringing your friends, siblings, or colleagues together can be a fun thing.
  75. Don’t forget about sex.
  Work, stress, and other responsibilities can get in the way of your sex life, and before you know it, you’ve gone a month without getting busy. Don’t let this happen. Schedule it in if you have to, just make sure to connect in an intimate way.
  76. But do forget about jealousy.
  Jealousy can be completely toxic to relationships, so keep yours in check. If you’re always jealous, figure out if it’s your personal issue, or if your partner is doing things to appear less trustworthy.
  77. Cultivate your appreciation.
  