What is the fine-grained topic of the following text: Where the narrator of this song is losing his identity in service of unrequited love, for Farris, it�s quite the opposite�it�s relinquishing a vision of identity that needs to be served by attention or self-medication and instead takes root and grows through love. Only return the topic.
The contrast between the narrator's loss of identity due to unrequited love and Farris's growth through love.