I am happily 100% committed to my husband but not entirely oblivious to what I find attractive. 2 major things have changed. My age range of who I might consider attractive has aged and expanded as I have aged. When I was young, old dudes ewww, but now I'm older I find older guys much more attractive & young guys meh. Its funny, I used to watch LOTR and think, "Legolas soooo hot!" Now when I watch it I think "Aragorn soooo hot!" Probably in a couple of decades I'll be thinking, "Gandalf sooo hot!"

The other way my taste has changed over time is so much less interest in physical appearance and more attracted to guys with great personalities who have their life together. Now if I find myself thinking someone is attractive its because he's a really cool, accomplished, confident guy not because of how symmetrical his facial features are or how ripped his abs are. My husband is the hottest man I know. He is funny, smart, witty, confident and successful. He's also fat & gray-haired these days but IDGAF about that. Which is nice. I feel sorry for people my age whose taste in SOs doesn't mature with them, they often wind up wrecking great relationships because they are blinded by youth and good looks.