6 Reasons to NEVER date a Single Mother

Post by Older Bachelor on Dec 13, 2004, 7:40pm

Single mothers. Well, here are MY issues with them (This pertains to a woman who had a kid and never married, or divorced her husband because "She wasn't happy". If she had a good marriage and he died, there might be wiggle room, but I still wouldn't date her).

1: She decided to have a kid without a husband. This demonstrates terrible, selfish values. It also shows that she thinks of men as sperm donors and child support payers, NOT husbands & fathers. What will happen if you knock her up? Get ready to pay up for a kid that you won't get to be a real dad to.

2: In some states, you can be responsible for child support by just living with her. I don't want to pay for kids that aren't mine. Do you?

3: False allegations of child abuse. It isn't likely, but I don't want to take that chance. Getting branded with a big "M" on your forehead (For Molester) will WRECK YOUR LIFE. It will never go away. Too big a risk.

4: Relationship aren't easy as it is. Add a minor child and it really complicates the issue. Do you want to deal with her kid(s) too? You won't be their dad and they will know it. Their mom already fucked up their life by not having a dad for them, and is fucking it up more by bringing in "Revolving door boyfriends" into their life.

5: Lots of single moms have financial problems. You will be obligated to help pay for sitters, food, braces, on and on. For children that aren't yours. Get the credit card out!

6: There is NO reason to date one. Millions of women in this country are single with no kids, and in every age range. Go younger if you have to. Don't waste your time with a woman that has PROVEN that she doesn't want a husband for her and dad for her kids. Do you think she will change her mind for you? That she will forget her utter contempt for husbands and fathers just for you? Sure she will.

I run into single mothers once in a while, and when "I have a kid" is revealed, that's the end of the conversation for me. I will be polite but I will still walk off, because I don't want anything to do with them. And neither will any other smart man.

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Re: 6 Reasons to NEVER date a Single Mother

Post by SoCalPolki101 on Dec 14, 2004, 11:45am

Hogwash! And rebuttal in defense of single mothers.

1: She decided to have a kid…

In other words she probably has her childbearing years behind her. Or at least doesn't have a burning desire and need to start a family. UNLIKE the single no kids women out there who have their childbearing years AHEAD of them.

2: In some states… living with her…

Get your story straight buddy. Look at your subject. Date and living together are two different things.

3: False allegations of child abuse. Children in daycare years are asleep by 10PM. That's when you come over with the DVD and wine and cheese.

Single mothers with older children usually have arrangements for having men over which do not include contact with children. Like sleepovers at their friends, relatives, etc.

You bug out at night because a woman with small children doesn't want them to see you in the morning.

4: Relationship aren't easy as it is.

Single mothers often want very casual come-on-over occassionaly relationships because their time is limited and schedule chaotic.

Single women have lots of free time on their hands. They have all kinds of recreational and emotional needs that need to be met.

5: Lots of single moms have financial problems.

Bullcrap. Single moms these days live high off the hog. They have jobs and they also get help from dummy who got married and got them pregnant.

And it never ceases to amaze how trailer trash can be so happy when you spend $10 at Trader Joes to buy some European delicacies for your late night come on over. $10 is what you'll spend on tips and parking on your single no kids date.

6: There is NO reason to date one. Millions of women in this country are single with no kids,

That is exactly the reason to date one. Because single women don't have kids and will probably want kids. Even if they say they don't want kids right away, they can't be trusted. Especially if they're in their