Add load_dataset_builder
Hi @mariosasko, thanks for taking on this issue.

Just a few logistic suggestions, as you are one of our most active contributors ❤️ :
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I hope you find these hints useful. 🤗  @albertvillanova Thanks for the tips. When creating this PR, it slipped my mind that this should be a draft. GH has an option to convert already created PRs to draft PRs, but this requires write access for the repo, so maybe you can help. Ready for the review!

One additional change. I've modified the `camelcase_to_snakecase`/`snakecase_to_camelcase` conversion functions to fix conversion of the names with 2 or more underscores (e.g. `camelcase_to_snakecase("__DummyDataset__")` would return `___dummy_dataset__`; notice one extra underscore at the beginning). The implementation is based on the [inflection](https://pypi.org/project/inflection/) library.
 Thank you for adding this feature, @mariosasko - this is really awesome!

Tried with:
```
python -c "from datasets import load_dataset_builder; b = load_dataset_builder('openwebtext-10k'); print(b.cache_dir)"
Using the latest cached version of the module from /home/stas/.cache/huggingface/modules/datasets_modules/datasets
/openwebtext-10k/3a8df094c671b4cb63ed0b41f40fb3bd855e9ce2e3765e5df50abcdfb5ec144b (last modified on Wed May 12 
20:22:53 2021) 

since it couldn't be found locally at openwebtext-10k/openwebtext-10k.py 

or remotely (FileNotFoundError).

/home/stas/.cache/huggingface/datasets/openwebtext10k/plain_text/1.0.0/3a8df094c671b4cb63ed0b41f40fb3bd855e9ce2e3765e5df50abcdfb5ec144b
```

The logger message (edited by me to add new lines to point the issues out) is a bit confusing to the user - that is what does `FileNotFoundError` refer to? 

1. May be replace  `FileNotFoundError` with where it was looking for a file online. But then the remote file is there - it's found 
2. I'm not sure why it says "since it couldn't be found locally" - as it is locally found at the cache folder and again what does " locally at openwebtext-10k/openwebtext-10k.py" mean - i.e. where does it look for it? Is it `./openwebtext-10k/openwebtext-10k.py` it's looking for? or in some specific dir?

If the cached version always supersedes any other versions perhaps this is what it should say?
```
found cached version at xxx, not looking for a local at yyy, not downloading remote at zzz
``` Hi ! Thanks for the comments

Regarding your last message:
You must pass `stas/openwebtext-10k` as in `load_dataset` instead of `openwebtext-10k`. Otherwise it doesn't know how to retrieve the builder from the HF Hub.

When you specify a dataset name without a slash, it tries to load a canonical dataset or it looks locally at ./openwebtext-10k/openwebtext-10k.py
Here since `openwebtext-10k` is not a canonical dataset and doesn't exist locally at ./openwebtext-10k/openwebtext-10k.py: it raised a FileNotFoundError.
As a fallback it managed to find the dataset script in your cache and it used this one. Oh, I see, so I actually used an incorrect input. so it was a user error. Correcting it:

```
python -c "from datasets import load_dataset_builder; b = load_dataset_builder('stas/openwebtext-10k'); print(b.cache_dir)"
/home/stas/.cache/huggingface/datasets/openwebtext10k/plain_text/1.0.0/3a8df094c671b4cb63ed0b41f40fb3bd855e9ce2e3765e5df50abcdfb5ec144b
```

Now there is no logger message. Got it!

OK, I'm not sure the magical recovery it did in first place is most beneficial in the long run. I'd have rather it failed and said: "incorrect input there is no such dataset as 'openwebtext-10k' at <this path> or <this url>" - because if it doesn't fail I may leave it in the code and it'll fail later when another user tries to use my code and won't have the cache. Does it make sense? Giving me `this url` allows me to go to the datasets hub and realize that the dataset is missing the username qualifier.

> Here since openwebtext-10k is not a canonical dataset and doesn't exist locally at ./openwebtext-10k/openwebtext-10k.py: it raised a FileNotFoundError.

Except it slapped the exception name to ` remotely (FileNotFoundError).` which makes no sense.

Plus for the local it's not clear where is it looking relatively too when it gets `FileNotFoundError` - perhaps it'd help to use absolute path and use it in the message?

---------------

Finally, the logger format is not set up so the user gets a warning w/o knowing it's a warning. As you can see it's missing the WARNING pre-amble in  https://github.com/huggingface/datasets/pull/2500#issuecomment-874250500

i.e. I had no idea it was warning me of something, I was just trying to make sense of the message that's why I started the discussion and otherwise I'd have completely missed the point of me making an error.
Adds the `load_dataset_builder` function. The good thing is that we can reuse this function to load the dataset info without downloading the dataset itself.

TODOs:
- [x] Add docstring and entry in the docs
- [x] Add tests

Closes #2484 
