Title: 7 Signs Your Partner Is Possessive — & What Experts Say To Do About It
Headings: 7 Surprising Signs Your Partner May Be Possessive
7 Surprising Signs Your Partner May Be Possessive
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They Stop By To Visit Unexpectedly
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They Said "I Love You" Really Quickly
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They Pout When You Need Some Space
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They Need To Know Your Schedule
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They Want To Spend All Their Free Time With You
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They Text You All Day Long
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They Share Too Much On Social Media

Content: But by bringing this to their attention, you'll be able to have a conversation about boundaries, and other possessive moments in your relationship. 3
They Pout When You Need Some Space
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Possessive partners may find it tough to spend time apart or give you space, since that means not knowing where you are, not gaining the comfort the relationship gives them, not having control — whatever their underlying issue might be. So take note if "your partner is needy of your time and attention," Dr. Margaret Paul, PhD, relationship expert and author, tells Bustle, especially if it gets to the point where they pout over simple things, like if you won't watch TV with them, or if you want to go to bed a bit earlier. If you can't even go into the next room without them getting upset, that's a major red flag. You may even want to call in the help of a therapist at that point to help you figure out your next move. 4
They Need To Know Your Schedule
It's common for couples to share their schedules, and update each other throughout the day. But if your partner wants to know where you'll be 24/7, there's no doubt they're being possessive. "A partner is possessive when they make demands on your time [or] control your schedule," Jill Sylvester, LMHC, a licensed mental health counselor, tells Bustle. The trouble is, while having a say in your schedule may be comforting to them, it can be smothering for you. And that's not OK.