Title: Perfectionism in ChildrenThe Center for Parenting Education
Headings: Perfectionism in Children
LIBRARY OF ARTICLES::
School and Learning Issues:
Perfectionism in Children
Understanding Perfectionists
Characteristics of Perfectionists
How Parents Can Help with Perfectionism in Children

Content: Encourage high standards, but explain that there is a difference between perfectionism and quality work. Involve them in setting realistic standards for themselves. Let them know that even if they fail at something, they are loved. Challenge their belief if they call themselves a failure, and provide a more rational evaluation. Help them prioritize tasks and to break assignments or projects down into manageable parts. Teach them to revise, start again, and learn from their errors. For those who procrastinate, change the goal from perfection to completion. Provide support if they perform at a lower level than expected. Help them learn coping skills such as positive “self-talk.” ( Encouraging Thoughts)
Encourage the use of self-control skills. (