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Content: Focus your encouragement by pointing out what specific characteristics or actions they are displaying that are good. Make sure the words of encouragement focus on things that the child can control in their own behavior.[2] XResearch source
Focus the encouragement based on the character trait you want your child to develop. For instance, if your child was honest about breaking something, explain that there will be consequences for breaking the item, but that you are proud of them for telling the truth and taking responsibility. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/c\/c1\/Build-Children%27s-Confidence-Step-3-Version-4.jpg\/v4-460px-Build-Children%27s-Confidence-Step-3-Version-4.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/c\/c1\/Build-Children%27s-Confidence-Step-3-Version-4.jpg\/aid398166-v4-728px-Build-Children%27s-Confidence-Step-3-Version-4.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>License: <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\" class=\"external text\" href=\"https:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc-sa\/3.0\/\">Creative Commons<\/a><br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
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Help your child to cope with failing. No one is immune to failure or loss at some point. Help your child to learn self-compassion through encouragement. Children need to learn resilience despite failures so that they can be able to recover from problems. Encourage your child to understand that setbacks area  part of life and can be overcome. Be a positive motivator for your child, rather than focusing on their faults.[3] XTrustworthy SourceChild Mind InstituteNonprofit organization providing evidence-based care for children with mental health and learning disorders and their familiesGo to source
Your child's self-worth should not be measured by their performance alone.