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Why Should Parents Stop Comparing Their Child to Others
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Harsha G Ramaiya (Parenting Coach)
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Why Do Parents Compare Their Children to Others?
What Parents Need to Understand Before Comparing Their Kids to Others
1. Children Should Think on Their Own
2. Children Are Not Decorative Pieces
3. Education Is Not a Special Favour But a Right
Negative Impacts of Child Comparison
1. Increases Sibling Rivalry
2. Instils Detachment
3. Suppresses Talents
4. Leads to Carefree Attitude
5. Increases Hesitation and Impacts Social Interactions
6. Diminishes Self Worth
7. Destroys Self-Esteem
8. Builds Stress
What Are the Positive Comparison Approaches That Can Help Children?
1. Give Unconditional Love and Support
2. Set Realistic Expectations
3. Appreciate the Strengths
4. Help Children Cope With Their Weaknesses
5. Do Not Compare; Rather Set Benchmarks
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Content: 2. Set Realistic Expectations
Parents must not commit the mistake of setting unrealistic goals for their children. They should instead try to understand the inherent potential of their kids and help them excel in their fields of interest. 3. Appreciate the Strengths
Whatever task kids do well should be appreciated generously. Liberal appreciation will help them gain the confidence to face the world. 4. Help Children Cope With Their Weaknesses
When parents know their kids’ weak areas, they must support and help the kids to help them overcome their weaknesses. Though it is not easy, it can be achieved with unconditional support and motivation. 5.