Title: You Can't Fix Other People's Problems (Do This Instead)
Headings: 
There’s a fine line between supporting and ‘fixing’
We can’t fix other people’s problems
3 steps to follow when you want to fix other people’s problems
Step 1: Remember that other people have their own guidance system
Step 2: Recognize you can’t deprive someone of hitting bottom
Step 3: Know that you can’t change anyone who doesn’t want to be changed
What you CAN do for others instead of trying to fix them or make them happy
The most loving thing we can do for someone is to accept them
Accepting someone doesn’t mean you stick around
Accepting others gives you freedom, too
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Content: I also share some resources for anxiety and mental health in this post. But just remember that you can’t coax, guilt or force anyone to take action. The most loving thing we can do for someone is to accept them
As I teach in Step 4 of my book Judgment Detox: The most loving thing we can do for someone is to accept them. The most unloving thing we can do is try to change them. When you try to change someone you’re effectively saying that you know what is best for them. Your unsolicited “help” is a way of controlling and judging them. People may not be show up the way you want them to, but when you accept them where they are you can let go, forgive and release. If someone wants to change and asks for your help, you can show up and offer support. But it’s not helpful, kind or loving to try to impose change on anyone.