Title: Building a Positive Self-Concept – Rebecca Eanes
Headings: Building a Positive Self-Concept
Building a Positive Self-Concept
Content: Giving your child opportunities to do things for himself will help him to develop that ‘can-do’ attitude. Allowing him to dress himself (no matter how mismatched or odd his choices are), putting things within his reach, such as his plates and utensils in a low drawer, handy snack packs on a low shelf in the refrigerator, clothes hanging on a low rack so that he may choose for himself, and step stools so he may reach the sink himself, will all help aid in making him fee competent, and therefore, confident. Allowing him the freedom to try and climb the tree or ride the bike without training wheels will also help him discover his abilities. Hovering parents inhibit competence in young children. Have faith in their abilities while remaining close by to offer assistance if they ask. THE EFFECTS OF BEHAVIOR: Misbehavior is the usual outcome of discouragement and a poor self-concept. It is so much more satisfying to behave properly that most children would if they had confidence in their ability to succeed. Encouragement is not the same as praise. Encouragement recognizes his capabilities and expresses faith in your child as he is.