Title: What to Do When Your Partner Is Overbearing | Our Everyday Life
Headings: What to Do When Your Partner Is Overbearing
What to Do When Your Partner Is Overbearing
Stop Enabling
Assert Yourself
Establish Boundaries
Know When to Seek Help

Content: which is likely to be far better received than saying, "We're spending the holidays with my parents, because we see your parents all the time!" Establish Boundaries
It's possible that your overbearing partner may not even be aware that she comes across as controlling, suggests Orloff. Find a way to let her know whenever she is crossing the line. For example, if she keeps forcing her opinions onto you, say something like, "I do appreciate what you're saying, but I would like some time to think this through on my own." If she dominates conversation when you're out with friends, take her to one side and say something like, "It's great that you're so friendly and sociable, but I'd like to speak for myself when someone asks me a question." Patience is required here. Your partner may have learned her controlling habits over a lifetime, and they won't go away overnight. Be prepared to spend weeks or even months redefining the limits. Know When to Seek Help
If your partner's need for control manifests itself as abuse -- verbal, emotional or physical -- and you feel scared or threatened by his words or actions, put your own safety above the relationship. Turn to friends and family members for support if you decide to end the relationship.