Title: 6 Signs He Might Actually Change for the Better - Verily
Headings: 6 Signs He Might Actually Change for the Better
6 Signs He Might Actually Change for the Better
So he says he wants to change. Should you believe him?
01. He shows remorse.
02. He listens and asks questions.
03. He is motivated by more than just you.
04. His actions improve—but slowly.
05. Your gut is telling you it’s real.
06. You’re in it together.

Content: Here are a few signs that his change is probably legitimate. 01. He shows remorse. One of the most telling signs that change is really about to occur? Remorse. “Remorse is not just sorrow for an action, or getting caught at something they should not be doing,” shares Monte Drenner, a Licensed Counselor, Master Certified Addictions Counselor, Life Coach, who has more than thirty years in the field. “ Remorse means the individual has deep and painful regret for their action,” Drenner says. Drenner explains that change often occurs when the pain of remaining the same exceeds the pain of changing. Having remorse for a past action is often a sign that the pain has passed that threshold. 02.