Richie, the elder at 27 and taller at 6ft 9in, with 63 caps and a 2013 Lions Test on his CV, has been a mainstay for Scotland since his debut in 2010.
But the recent progress of 6ft 6in Jonny, 23 next week, has seen him earn most plaudits as a potential 2017 Lion.
"Jonny has gone from strength to strength," Richie Gray acknowledged.
"What I said a couple of years ago was about the need to do it consistently, but he's been able to do it week in week out and that's the most impressive thing.
"I've seen him come on as a leader. He's grown and matured and makes me very proud.
"How has his emergence as a leader changed our relationship? Not too much. We still have our discussions about things and what we can get better at.
"We're not really competitive. I think he wins most weeks anyway. It's not much of a competition.
"With brothers I suppose you always want to win the battle but we're not too much like that. We try and help each other out as much as possible.
"I see him more as an inspiration. It's great to see and certainly keeps me going. It gives me a standard I have to aim for. I'm just trying to keep up."
Jonny Gray, a vice-captain to stand-in skipper John Barclay, is the leading tackler in this year's Six Nations, with 52 from 54 attempts. He is also in the top 10 for carries, with 36 in the three rounds to date.
Richie, meanwhile, has made more tackles than anyone else without missing one (41) so far.
They are both likely to make plenty more on Saturday if Scotland are to achieve a first win at Twickenham for 34 years and secure a first Triple Crown since 1990.
But even if victory eludes them, the elder Gray believes a bright future lies ahead for the class of 2017.
"It's a great position to be in," said the Toulouse lock. "Obviously it's a huge challenge going down there and a match with a huge amount of importance. We're looking forward to it.
"We've constantly been progressing with the group of players and the staff. We have been getting better and better.
"Glasgow and Edinburgh have both been doing well in Europe and, with us having three home games this year, hopefully that all adds together to form a good championship.
"But there certainly is a lot more to come. It's a young group and we have got more things to show."

Judith Kerr's children's book sold 72,935 copies in the last week, according to Nielsen BookScan.
It makes it the 10th consecutive week a children's book has taken the number one spot, while four out of the top five books are children's titles.
Diary of a Wimpy Kid: Old School by Jeff Kinney is at number two, with David Walliam's Grandpa's Great Escape at three.
Kerr published 16 Mog books with Mog's Goodbye released in 2002, in which Mog died.
She brought Mog back to life for Mog's Christmas Calamity, which is also the subject of this year's Sainsbury's Christmas advert. It sees the accident prone cat causing havoc with the Thomas family's Christmas.
First number one
The book is being sold by the supermarket chain and all the profits for the book are going to Save the Children. It has raised nearly Â£900,000 for their UK child literacy campaign so far.
Despite a highly successful career, Mog's Christmas Calamity is Kerr's first number one book. It also makes Kerr the oldest person to top the book chart.
Mog's Christmas Calamity sold 74,453 copies in its first three day of sales and has outsold all previous Mog books.
Its first week sales were the highest for a children's book since J K Rowling's Harry Potter spin-off The Tales of Beedle the Bard in 2008.
It is the third book in the year to have sold more than 100,000 copies in one week, after EL James's Grey and Harper Lee's Go Set a Watchman.
It is only the second picture book to go to number one in 2015 after McFly members Tom Fletcher and Dougie Poynter's The Dinosaur That Pooped a Lot.
Scotland lock Richie Gray says younger brother Jonny is an "inspiration" rather than a sibling rival in their burgeoning second-row partnership.
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Mog's Christmas Calamity has topped the UK book chart for a third week.