(as such terms are defined for purposes of paragraph (14)). (ii) Disregard of months of assistance In determining the number of months for which a family that includes an adult who has received assistance under the State program funded under this part or any other State program funded with qualified State expenditures (as defined in section 409(a)(7)(B)(i)), the State shall disregard any month for which such assistance was provided with respect to the family during which such adult was an older caregiver relative or a caregiver relative caring for a child with a disability (as such terms are defined for purposes of paragraph (14)). . (2) Penalty Section 409(a) of the Social Security Act ( 42 U.S.C. 609(a) ), as previously amended by this section, is amended— (A) in paragraph (9), by inserting or (I) after subparagraph (H)