; or (ii) the most highly compensated employee of the large employer; by (B) the median of all wages (not including any amount of cash tips received in the course of employment by an employee), paid to all employees of the large employer who are employed in the United States. (6) Dating violence The term dating violence has the meaning given the term in section 40002(a) of the Violence Against Women Act of 1994 ( 34 U.S.C. 12291(a) ). (7) Domestic partner The term domestic partner means, with respect to an individual, another individual with whom the individual is in a committed relationship. (8) Domestic violence The term domestic violence — (A) has the meaning given the term in section 40002(a) of the Violence Against Women Act of 1994 ( 34 U.S.C. 12291(a) ), except that the reference in that section to the term jurisdiction receiving grant monies shall be deemed to mean the jurisdiction in which the victim lives or the jurisdiction in which the employer involved is located; and (B) includes dating violence. (9) Employee The term employee means— (A) any full-time or part-time employee; (B) any individual who is a full-time or part-time independent contractor (including any employee of that independent contractor) and provides services to an employer, unless— (i) the individual is free from control and direction in connection with the performance of the service, both under the contract for the performance of service and in fact; (ii) the service is performed outside the usual course of the business of the employer; and (iii) the individual is customarily engaged in an independently established trade, occupation, profession, or business of the same nature as that involved in the service performed