But in a positive sort of way.
While many self-help gurus espouse the power of positive thinking, they actually sell their students short if they stop there. One of my big criticisms of the smash hit The Secret is that it doesn’t really paint a complete picture. Positive thinking and the law of attraction are great tools, but they can only get you so far. Real life is not all sunshine and rainbows, and expecting it to be that way just because we wish it were is naive and unproductive.
Craig’s take — which I think is as common sensical as it is provocative — is that negativity is a part of life. We can choose to become victims of it or use it as a tool. Here’s an example:
Why wear seatbelts? Positive thinking tells us that we’ll be fine if we just have a good attitude. Negative thinking allows us to look at the dangers of driving and to do something about it. Airbags, seatbelts and speed limits are all negative-based things that are good for us.
As much as I wish Adultitis wasn’t a real problem, it is. There’s no magic bullet or snappy affirmation that makes it disappear. It takes a concerted effort every day to maintain a childlike outlook on life. That’s why Kim and I write on this blog and speak to audiences and send out newsletters: because we all need a little help in the daily battle against Adultitis. If there was a special pill to solve the problem we’d make it easier on ourselves and just sell that.
Fortunately, although the daily nature of the fight makes it more challenging, it also makes it more fun.
Go check out what Craig has to say and read an exclusive excerpt from There’s An Adult In My Soup. Oh, and while you’re there, you can find out how to win a free copy for yourself or a friend. (But be warned: wishing that you’ll win it won’t be as effective as actually following the simple directions Craig outlines.)
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