how to know if someone is self obsessed?
['They are always on the defensive. ... ', "They don't see the big picture. ... ", 'They are imposing. ... ', 'They feel insecure sometimes. ... ', 'They always think they are superior to others. ... ', 'They consider friendships a tool for getting what they want. ... ', 'They are extremely opinionated. ... ', 'They do not have long lasting relationships.']