where do you live? also, if you want to be successful you need to learn some of the language and culture. if you cant bridge the gap it wont work. its a multiyear process - but once you have invested enough time to be able to communicate with them and not be cringe you become a god no other way to describe it. they obsess over white skin and culture but they have to be able to sell it to the family. if you can have basic communication with the mom, she becomes your madam basically ordering her daughter to fuck you and always taking your side in any arguement even if you are clearly in the wrong
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