a close family member of mine is trooning out. i haven't heard from them in a long time, and suddenly i find out that he's coming back to my city so he can get jaw surgery. what the fuck do i do?  i'm sure he's been around bad influences for a long time and so anything i say will be nothing against the worldview he's built up. i'm just scared if i say the wrong thing i will push him to suicide.  it feels hopeless but i also feel like i need to do something.
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