the existential void you speak ofthe feeling that life has become hollow and devoid of meaningis not just personal. its cultural. society today, with its focus on hyperindividualism, consumerism, and a fractured sense of community, has made it harder for people (especially men) to find meaning. many men have expressed feeling alienated, purposeless, or disconnected from traditional sources of meaning (like career success or family). but meaning can be found in small, personal ways: in creative work, in personal challenges, in small acts of self-improvement, and in forming genuine connections. the process of seeking meaning in life is often the antidote to the feeling of being lost. one of the most dangerous aspects of feeling marginalized or worthless is the tendency to withdraw and isolate. its a natural response to rejection, but it can deepen the sense of emptiness. finding meaningful connectionseven one or two close relationshipscan make an immense difference. not superficial friendships, but real connections where you can speak openly about your frustrations, your pain, and your hopes. the irony is that while many men feel isolated in their struggles, millions of others are feeling the exact same thing, but no one talks about it. this might sound counterintuitive, but one of the hardest lessons is learning to accept the flaws, failures, and imperfections that have shaped your life. you talk about being a broken partner, someone who feels like a sucking existential void. the truth is, everyone has a degree of brokenness. lifes challenges leave scars, and while some people hide theirs better, everyone struggles. accepting that life will never be perfect and that you will never be a flawless, fully together person can relieve some of the pressure. from that place of acceptance, it becomes easier to work on healing and growth.
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