no shit, women will give you a fake 'safe space' to know your weakness so she can: - use it against you in the future - manipulate you knowing it - use it as an excuse to trauma dump on you 100 times your problems. either way, you are losing with such deal. i never share mine, but one time a girl i dated who was completely wholesome, sweet, and all good stuff, kept begging me to open up and how she's only opening up, sending memes how boys should trust girls and what not, long story short, one time she found something about me i never shared with her and when asked i told her i like to keep 'layers' to protect my inner spark of life, few weeks passed and we get in an argument and guess what? yep, 'you know i have trust issues, it's not like you don't yourself!!' implying that i have trust issues because i'm keeping layers myself kek so tldr, never share anything except what you could use to get info from her, not a real weakness.
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