the image seems rather wholesome to me, and i agree with it. men want a place - a person - who can be an oasis of tenderness, a refuge from the harshness of the world they must face with courage every day.  believe it or not, a genuinely traditional wife - and by "traditional", i mean western europe before 1800 - was expected to be an emotional confidant for her husband. she would help him relax in the moment and feel at ease to soothe the pains of his labour. most amerimutt posters know nothing of what gender roles in most of western history entailed. if you think impulse, aggression, and "rizz" defined masculinity, then you are an idiot and little better than a nigger.
Kekistani