and all the single mothers and out to lunch fathers, and whatever environmental factors are making so many gays/transes, and the anti male propaganda, and so on. you're right it's a tougher world for a man, one which involved decades of de-masculization to keep the sheep in the barn, but the tropes are the same as always. how aware men dealt with such adversity in the past is mirrored in today's world. i don't have a solution, i just try to live one day at a time and maintain psycholigical and material resilience to the best of my ability. another pitfall of aware men is they're not followers so forming a group to affect change is an uphill battle even without the intervention of meddlers.
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