if you let a woman control with petty bullshit you get what you deserve. i've been with my fiance for 7 years and lived together for 2. we (respectfully) call each other out on our bullshit if one of us does something dumb so we can build each other up. i told her if she tried to take away anything i valued i'd walk out, and that i likewise would never ask her to give up anything of importance to her unless it was actively harming her(like if she become an alcoholic). so no, you can have a healthy relationship based on respect and with appropriate boundaries.
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