i don't have much of one because i clean up after myself and don't wring myself into knots trying to justify why my spouse is wrong and should have cleaned the 21 plates and pans i singlehandedly soiled. if she would have just cleaned up after the mess she made right after she made it instead of shoving it all into the sink and blowing up when there are no clean cooking implements before dinnertime and looking for someone to blame, she would have spent a quarter the time and a tenth the mental effort.
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