no, men are afraid of being ostracized and ridiculed in front of others, lowering status. this is deeply primal. there is substantial risk of social blowback in many forms. in reality this is usually less than the incel fears, but there are real risks. alternatively, some more attractive men are afraid of the nebulous implied commitments. so if a girl does like you, what will she try to extract from you? succubus legend didn't appear for no reason.
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