the elites adopted it, particularly the women, who then converted men in their family. constantine was converted by his mother, helena (not the other way around). the story is that a human woman, mary, birthed a god, or the son of god (and a human male wasn't involved in the process). despite christianity ostensibly being totally patriarchal, it actually venerates women. using women to control the men still goes on today.
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