> so they dont want to have to rely on family members no-one here would ever want to rely on or leech off of anyone - we give everything away to make sure we never owe anyone anything, and the only internal fight we have is the battle of paying the total bill at a restaurant etc. - the insisting/lucky winner can relax, and all the losers feel disturbed for now being in debt and thus transfer a generously estimated amount of money to the winner when they come home or the next day.
Denmark