because they feel unpermitted to defend themselves albeit many do not know how to appropriately. so in a similar way to police they are neutered or spayed in that capacity if you will.  but if people can work through their emotions and almost anyone that deals with them can tell you it can be challenging the can come to terms with more arbitrary means of settling disputes or disagreements aside from physical violence or other outright means. > people say things when they're mad and have no outlet or means to defuse it at their disposal.
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