a few sources.  i am a regular reader and commentator on the unz review, which has some chinese readers. they clarify some misconceptions about china sometimes. one discussion they had was that after the courtship phase, which is already very burdensome (dowry, ceremony, etc.), it's customary for the man to hand over his finances completely to the woman. so the man goes out and earns as much money as he can, and nearly 100% of it goes to the woman to manage. the commentators said not only was it customary but the men enjoy it to some extent - or at least he did. that how much money he gave a woman and how little he cared about how she spent it was an expression of how much a man loved his wife. another source was going on xianhoushu for a few hours for a week. one of the first things i saw was them asking if we had a dowry system and how much western men gave their women. sorry - nothing a but a nice looking ring if you're lucky. there was also a lot of feminist and anti-racist content, which i wasn't expecting as our understanding of china (as right-wing white people) is that china is still a homogeneous country and has old-timey racist beliefs. like in this documentary called empire of dust about a chinese businessman trying to build things in africa.   l7iythk8 also, there's a chinese guy i am subscribed to who used to live in canada and makes videos about a variety of topics that are interesting to me. i like his very direct no-bullshit style. he has stated that feminism has infected chinese women just as much or more than in the west.   torian2022/videos
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