i think most people will be kind and call you what you want to be called to your face, but in their heads they don't actually see you as a woman. they don't really see you as a man either but some other third thing, which puts you at an unfortunate sexual disadvantage because not a lot of people are sexually attracted to that third category of person. they don't hate you, but they wouldn't date you and it's a similar situation to morbidly obese people where they don't even really register on most people's sexual radars and if they do, it's probably some kind of fetish.
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