being single isn't so bad.  when you're on your own, the quality of your life depends mostly on your own actions. if you're a lazy shit who never does anything it will kinda suck, if you put some effort into important things, it will improve. if you're in a relationship, you add another factor to this. if your gf is a better person than you, she'll improve your life, if she's a worse person than you, she'll make it worse. now think about how many women you know who are either better people than you, or at least on the same level. then you know the likelihood of your life becoming better or worse if you add one.
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