this is my thinking as well. i've made it clear that i don't think she did anything wrong and that i'm happy with the three sons we have. i am concerned that she groomed herself somewhat on getting cucked by reading worst korean manwas, but im sure it will pass eventually. i agree that i think it would eat at her over time and cause way more harm than good. i don't particularily want more. if i recall the stats show that three kids has optimal success outcomes, and i dont know that i'd want to deal with raising a daughter in the current environment.
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