non-dorm housing, decent car, dont know what bel air is but i assume you mean traveling no and i assume a vacation once a year, coffee, and shoes really arent much to ask for here. god forbid they want a family. a lot of what boomers call frivolous spending is basic necessities if you want to see real frivolous spending look at what boomers do in a casino or the amount they spend on alcohol and rvs they never use
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