i remember a feminist saying, about women's liberation, that "now men aren't needed as protectors and providers women what to be with men who are good people". i think there is an element of truth to that, but at the same time it means that women have to be good people as well when their biological usefulness is over. and, like the incel, they're just awful and unpleasant to be around. all the women like the op had is a few years before this came home to roost.
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