> until she decides not to be that, and you have no leverage absolutely, you definitely risk getting raped in a divorce. i was just sort of trying shed light on the fact that divorce isn't even the worst outcome that you can get from a marriage. wait until you bury a child, or she gets sick and you have to watch her suffer. i've been there, i understand fully how hard marriage can be, even with a great wife. i wouldn't even attempt marriage with a woman who doesn't want to follow and support you, and has damaged here pair bonding ability with multiple partners. i don't know what the fuck to tell you young guys. i have three sons coming up, and i'm at a loss here of what they should do. i hope they find decent wives, but to be honest it's not looking good.
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