if you want some hopefuel, i'll say that radical transformation doesn't take as long as some people imagine in september 2021 i was legitimately a full-fledge hardcore incel. i went to work, came home, and spent all my time posting on 4chan and in incel chatrooms about blackpill theory and how my life was doomed from the start something in me pushed me to change. i started following a running plan, left from the incel community, dropped 20lbs in two months, ran a half marathon. decided serious running wasn't for me after that and switching to lifting made a dating profile in november of that year and got a couple of dates, met one half asian girl who was a complete slut and would invite me over to her house to have sex for hours every night. started doing steroids, met my foreign future-wife over the internet traveled halfway around the world to meet her, had the best week of my life exploring a new country with an adorable girl who loved me, got to finally live the exact idyllic normie existence you're talking about obviously i don't know you're situation, but my experience, you're never nearly quite as far away from making it as you well. looksmaxxing does matter quite a bit. a wardrobe change and getting in shape if you're not already are good places to start.
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