you are partially right. i find it hard to have a geniuine realationships with women because of no common topics and im yet to find a women that doesn't have a problem taking accountability.  in my family, work, the schools i uses to go and few i tried to date could never take accountability for their actions, ever. everything they did wrong was almost always someone else's fault.  and even if it was their fault, it wasn't really because someone or some external factor forced them to do bad and they were victims
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