the thing is she isn't even "way above his pay grade" physiologically if you are being honest. i used to think nearly every girls was "above the paygrade" of whatever guy she was with because i was young dumb and full of cum. as a man we are attracted to women and would fuck most decent looking women, so we tend to over estimate their actual attractiveness relative to their partners.  > she's attractive > you'd fuck her > but she's not "way above his paygrade"
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