possession and identity. if women do not identify with the men of their family and tribe or consider them theirs naturally that will arise. that is why historically women were far more fond of their brothers, father, sons, and uncles than other men(often including their husband). if you can somehow distrupt that connection a woman feels for their familial men than you can also easily distrupt the bond she feels with the men of her tribe. that is why men kill all the men and boys of a defeated tribe. it forcefully breaks that mechanism and it is what feminism and globohomo did but artificially without outright killing all those men.
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