i have to say that i enjoy your rhetoric, particularly  > they are raised into these brain fried coo-coo flashlights with a proverbial ied built-in? yes, teenage girls in particular are highly impressionable. they have a very strong desire to fit in and be approved of by their friends and wider society, and they also want to be good people according to the conventional morality of society unfortunately when the popular culture and conventional morality is evil, there's not much you can do about it except be patient with them. hating and demonizing them for being good women (i mean good as in they are acting the way women should, by obeying the dominant culture, and in a healthy society they would be well adjusted) is just counterproductive. i can't offer much more than that because i'm sure my opinions on women generally are much more egalitarian than yours, so anything i'd advise here would be rejected by you outright
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