i don't see any contradiction here. i have some jewish genes that i inherited from my mommy but they are as "important" for me as nominal catholic faith of my daddy. we are 100% secular, we were never in a church, we actually hate it, we were never in synagogue (except of me - i kind of socialize myself with jews from my city by visiting the synagogue complex - i can meet people of jewish roots there like myself), we don't celeberate any jewish or catholic holidays, except of having a christmas tree during christmas. i am not circumcised at all. and to be honest, i am "antisemite" myself a bit because jews defame and insult my country all the time. my roots mean fucking nothing, it is just some family story. the most jewish thing i ever done in my entire life was spending vacations in israel.
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