you don't need to experience shit anon. there is no reason for it. it's just stupid cope. you could argue that some type of experiences shape human brain in certain way. once human brain can be changed at that level the argument falls apart. you can simply add in the resultant useful neural networks, that give you the perspective someone who been through shit has, without the memories or going through said shit. reality won't meet many (primitive) expectations
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