i found an amazing woman- she is very unreliable and such, but i realized she's really basically add/adhd/whatever. she's super sweet and cooks for me, takes care of me, she hasn't left me while i'm in-between jobs (i do earn more per year, but my work is spotty). we've worked things out nicely and i'm gonna marry her. i'm mid-30s and i've had awful, just awful relationships before, along with some decent/okay-ish ones, and also just dated some women who were just 'not great.' (kinda rotten people on the inside, you know? incapable of even thinking.) i quite like her. i think she's sweet, and she thinks i hung the moon since i help her with her diagnosis ("you stuck today? alright, let's get you going-") and am really understanding toward her. she gives lots of affection and is super devoted. overall, i can't imagine life without her. there's hope is what i'm saying.
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