disagree completely, bpd chicks are obvious as fuck i dont know why you think abusive men dont also frequently camofluage themselves or lie, or that obvious badboy types dont also have their own predatory cycles of feigning real interest & affection.  youre naturally less familiar with the patterns of predatory men because it isnt relevant to you and youre not them, but if you see it close up with someone theres a lot more clarity.
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