this is closer to the solution. you need to become entirely self-sufficient and remove her influence entirely. and even once you are free physically, you need to then free yourself from the psychological presuppositions she inlaid in you throughout the years. this used to be accomplished through coming of age ceremonies of initiation where young boys became men and were then accepted as part of the tribe of men that surrounded them. we no longer have this in modern times which leads to a flood of men unable to free themselves from their mothers. look into jungian psychology and the mother complex he talks about.
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