turned 30 after a decade of drinking, i still have my hair, haven't burnt bridges with my family thank god and this semester i'll finally finish my masters. it felt hopeless some times, but eventually things slowly started turning around.  during this i met a guy in a similar position who decided to go to school again in his thirties. he's now 36 and will be done at 38.  my swedish cousin also fucked up his late twenties, lost his business and became depressed. then started drinking and lost the rest of what he had. for some unknowable reason he met a girl who liked him despite of all that. even she says she has no idea why. he started working again and they had their first child when he turned 35 this year.  it's absolutely possible anon, you're swedish ffs. it hurts like a motherfucker to have an honest examination of yourself and even harder to do something about it once you see the problems but it is absolutely doable. you'll be fine :)
Norway