also, this post is true to some extent. i think women more land on the latter, if that makes sense. women settle and cope, etc. most women just want a bad boy who's willing to be good for them, which always struck me as virulently retarded, but here we are. but yes, plenty of women will sleep with a man who has some practiced boredom, is straightforward with some mystique and confidence, and so on.
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