> outline of a person that's a great analogy. refers to their mirroring ability which can be savant like.   many bpd traits are "just female behaviors" but as the anon mentioned, the sliders are set not only to the max but above it. volume level at 11/10.   it involves a fetish she has (although acted almost trad-like around me, kek) and the impulsivity and recklessness to act out on it all the time in secret. the numbers are staggering. for her, it's not about the sexual pleasure but about the attention.
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