> don't be autistic about it yeah guys. you know what they think they want. a fun dude. but once you nail that down, you need to learn how to be serious.  young women don't know it, but they want a man.  women are goofy. they're children, and they know it. your power as a man is the capability of being serious.  you're capable of discernment. you're capable of direct action, in a way they'll never be. and they'll turn to you when that kind of attitude is the only thing that will solve a problem.  every single time. learn how to be serious, and women will hate how much they're in love with you. > dialogue 1 brockwood park, england october 6, 1980 what is it to be serious? why haven't human beings deeply, profoundly transformed themselves psychologically? how do you observe life? the world in which there is injustice, cruelty, wars, violence, is that world different from each one of us? if the mind sees everything very clearly, there is no need for decision. does knowledge give you freedom? the whole world, as we know it now, is based on thought. thinking has produced all this. unless the quality of thinking changes, it will be perpetuated.
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