memories get hazy over time though, could have been a different place or job but at the end of the day the event itself, the happening, it's burned into your hippocampus. remember doubting trauma survivors just increases the pain and you are basically guilty of the same heinous act if you do that.  and before you start talkinga bout a double standard, remember there are 19 yr old ukrainian and israeli women getting shot for your freedom bro, and that's what we are all about.
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