the last woman i actually loved, three partners ago, i forced out of my life because i moved for work and the long-distance wasn't healthy for either of us. we tried for just over a year, and ultimately i "was the man about it" and we broke up after a pre-planned trip. believe it or not, women pursue men, as the majority of my relationships have begun. i'm volcel now because my last two partners (a lawyer and former stripper, both neighbors) both lied for a living, and couldn't keep it out of their bedrooms. both were similar in dishonesty and power-tripping / craziness. at this point, forty, i've decided to just work on hobbies for a few years (including a ~2600sqft house / outbuildings). beekeeping is fascinating, e.g., and i'm the type that enjoys constructing hiveboxes from raw materials (making dovetails / etc). my current "dating plan" is to lose 40 more pounds by this summer, and then start exploring my network of late-twenty-somethings... put her through nursing school (or similar) and support her until she kills me for inheritance/relief. a man can dream =p
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