i am 37 and i've given up on women.  i haven't had sex in at least 4 years.  i am at the stage where i'm looking for wife material not some casual hook up or fling.  the options are pretty abysmal and nowadays every woman has 100 guys in their dms, an ex they still talk to, at least one guy they're currently hooking up with, and then like 3-4 guys that are all competing with you going on actual dates etc.  it's just not worth it.  you message some girl at 10am on a saturday and she's in another guy's bed.  you'll be talking for a week and everythings good then they just completely ghost you and may or may not come back around when it inevitably doesn't work out.  they go on vacation and fuck random strangers every night.  girls are pigs and i'm done pursuing them.  if she wants me she can make the effort otherwise i'm not wasting my time or energy.    funny you say this because i know plenty of guys/girls who've been incredibly creepy or been creeped on incredibly hard and nothing happened. this includes co-workers.
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