honestly, i find it hard to be sympathetic when people are repeatedly warned not to go to third world shitholes, go to the third world shithole anyway, and then third world shithole things happen to them. when i went to uni there was an alleyway known as "rape alley". it had a real name but nobody used it. even the university security team, when doing their "here's how to be safe" talk to the freshers would call it "rape alley". they frequently sent out email advisories not to go into rape alley. but then someone went into rape alley and gee i wonder what happened? of course you're not allowed to say "maybe don't go into the bottlenecked unlit soundproofed alley colloquially known as rape alley" because that's > muh victim blaming
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