they probably just genuinely don't know what it's like when a woman is completely obsessed with you and you're her he-can-do-no-wrong oneitis where you don't even need to do anything to win her over or keep her. it's a completely different video game from women who are kind of open to you but only if you put in the exactly right kind of effort at the exactly right amount and it's all an excruciating torturous journey of pain and agony where you're always stuck proving yourself and never truly succeeding - mostly because someone else is already on their mind and you're never going to be him. so since this is all they know they're willing to defend it with their lives. at least in the modern age electronics allow for solid evidence like that to rescue at least a few men from such a hell. if this was just fifty years ago he would've spent his life cluelessly trying to please a shitwhore who never saw him as anything other than a money dispenser.
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