i didnt, i see thats how it commonly looks like. you "date" for 1-2 years, then you move in, and listen to her bs for another year. once she gives you the child, the first 7 years are crucial. if she convinces the child to become a tranny/feminist/narcissist/soiboi, you have lost the child. its the child that will stumble upon *chans at the age of 30, with fucked hormones or mayhaps mutilated genitals therefore sterile. i say, either dream big or go home
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