> the young man equivalent of going after a badboy (first bpd chick to give them attention) those two are not equivalent at all. a thug is very obvious in being a thug and signals said thuggery towards women, hence why they're attracted to him ("he must be alpha, he can probably protect me"). men, in sharp contrast to this, look for chaste and loyal women, or "good girls" - bpd whores are experts at giving off the false impression of being one of said "good girls" and luring men in with all sorts of promises, lies and false presentations. always the same pattern with them, too.  of course an inexperienced dude will get excited when a woman seems to fall head over heels for him. he'll think the bpd idealization and mirroring are genuine affection on her part when it's just part of her bpd cycle she goes through with multiple dudes per year at best (per month, at worst).
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