nofap and semen retention used to be the norm in the past. having a family and women of course were too a norm. but the emphasis was much weaker on this whole fornication thing. men after children, or sometimes even before, didnt care that much about women in the capacity that we are in today. it should not completely destroy you as many are going through. if you fail, then you fail but you dont curse the gods and the realm for it lol. the activities of life are vast and unending. from war, to invention, to moneys. there are many things you could do that satisfy you.
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