> go outside(yes yes, this is the hardest part) > look at stars(this is also really difficult, i can understand your inability to do so) > notice moving light(oh it's just a plane there's nothing higher) > it isn't flashing red and blue(no it's just a plane, you can't make me understand!) > check iss tracker online have also seen the lines of the starlink sats. too bad about your light pollution situation, i guess.
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