most men don't really have the heart to utterly destroy their former spouse. i believe she should be punished. but the fact is, men should not have sex with random women at all. if a guy needs to bust a nut so badly, he should go to prostitutes exclusively. stop treating women who aren't hookers as if they're responsible for draining your balls. only when she's your girlfriend and you are in a committed relationship is it acceptable to have sex. and quite frankly, if any guy has sex with my wife. i want to see him utterly destroyed. its mostly his fault because he likely was the one who made the first move, he's the one who likely seduced her and convinced her into bed. most women if men weren't constantly pressuring every woman around them into sex would just do their daily business and come home. very few women in committed relationships would actively seduce other men. so yes, i do blame the man more. and i feel less guilty about completely destroying him then i would about destroying the woman i loved for years. i'm not saying she shouldn't be punished at all. but i do believe the seducer should be punished more harshly.
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