exactly. this is what i mean, they're wastes of time no matter how you look at it. when you play this game with them all you do is you take attention away from the people who need you and who believe in freedom.  so for me this means absolutely no concessions to boys, full emphasis on women and queer needs. dont even pretend. we are not here for them and theyre not here for you. they dont believe in your bodily autonomy, freedom speech or even humanity no matter what they say. look to the good people who do.
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