single men account for 3/4 of suicide deaths.  women can get sex and relationships whenever they want. for a woman to become an older virgin she would have to be severely mentally abnormal to begin with. society doesn't care about men, so you hear more about the 40-year-old cat lady who took her own life, but for every cat lady, there are 5 incels or divorced men.  despite that, i promise you older male virgins are still more fucked up and more suicidal. middle-aged single men are the most suicidal demographic. no one cares, so you don't hear about it, unlike with cat ladies.
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