yeah though womens standards have definitely gone up, if you're an average dude you gotta shoot your shot. you literally have no choice. lots of guys will never do it though because they don't want to feel the sting of rejection. i notice lots of guys make excuses nowadays too "oh i don't make enough money yet, oh i don't have a career yet, oh i don't have a nice place yet, oh, my hair isn't good right now, oh im not in great shape right now" etc. etc.
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