this but unironically, except maybe he's taking some welfare program course he can show the cops if he's caught perving.  sad truth is op, whether 30 or 40 you've been left out of their inner circle so you don't see that stuff. it's not like highschool where everyone knows all, people in college are more sophisticated and try and act like adults... something apparently beyond you. do adults walk around talking about how this or that woman is so cute? no, do they say things like that in their close circle? sometimes. you're out of touch and out of time unfortunately and projecting your lack of seeing pussy as some great cultural shift.
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