i have never had trouble getting women at all, never paid for sex, only had one psycho ex and one pushy cunt trying to be the boss and one girl i wanted that i got a snogging session with but no further. never tried hard to get them, never tried hard to keep them, just did what i wanted and let them hang around, and when one was gone there was always another waiting to step in. i cannot at all relate to a lad who just cannot pull as it has been like fishing with dynamite for me.
United Kingdom