> it's ok for family to burden eachother.  it's ok for family to ask for help, but don't intentionally burden people. that makes you an asshole, especially when you can carry your own weight. family is not a one way street, ie your parents have to wipe your ass forever. they have been waiting on op to take the onus to live his own life, and he has yet to do so. now they have to force him. notice how no one ever talks about the autonomy of the parents in these scenarios.
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