aside from this "bpd" being jewish pseudoscience the american flag has the right idea. women figure out that causing a scene and acting dramatic gets them attention. you being a man don't like negative attention but to women attention is essential, they're like vampires for it. if they don't get positive attention they will happily take negative attention. why? if she can push your buttons and get you to react with emotion, even if that's anger or sadness she knows that on some level, she has power over you. if you act completely chill and say "okay" and then just ignore her it will make her realise she has no power over you. the first ever girl i lost my virginity to was like this. she had an alcoholic father and had a shitty abusive ex boyfriend. 18 year old me unironically thought he could "fix her" and let the fact she was hot and the sex was great cloud my judgement. before i knew it she had smashed up my guitar and game console in a rage because i wasn't giving her enough attention. i used to spend time with her every weekend but that wasn't enough, women that are fucked in the head will see you hanging out with your friends as a threat to "losing" you and feel jealous. i tried for weeks to try to "reason" with her but nothing was ever good enough. if i gave in to something, she'd have more outrageous demands. so when she threw another tantrum i just said "okay" and left and never texted her again. i made plans to hang out with friends and go to the pub, etc and just ignored her. i got a barrage of long texts about how evil i was and i just ignored them. then she threatened to punch me if she saw me. to smash my apartment windows, etc. i just never replied to any of it. and then she tried the pity angle. anon i'm sorry. anon just text me to let me you know you're ok. if you don't want to talk to me text me to let me know. etc. this went on for months. i got lewd mms messages with "are you sure you don't want this?" dodged a bullet.
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