yeah i have learned this the hard way. women don't want responsibility so if you ever feel the impulse to share your emotions or are being goaded towards it then just make sure that the end result has an element of assurance to it, a bookend if you will. this will let the girl know that they don't have to do anything but they can still brag about you being emotionally open to their whore friends. in example: > "i am absolutely devastated that my best friend has died"  no > "i am sad that my best friend has died but all i can do is ensure that i live in a way that would make them proud and uphold their memory" yes it isn't showing emotions that is giving women the "ick" it is the fact that you are giving them responsibility and women are terminally lazy and dependent. that is the ick. putting them in charge.
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