when i see "wife doesn't have to worry about finances" i wonder what that means.  in every marriage i see, the wife is never economically secure, in the sense that once the family makes more money, she sets her sights on more expensive things, relative to income. so if you don't make much money, she wants an iphone and an apple watch. you make a bit more, she wants a new car. a bit more, luxury vacations. a bit more, you need a bigger house and/or remodel the house.  eventually if you are rich she wants horses or a storefront where she can larp as a cake decorator and lose money every month or to run a "charity" where she goes in the red throwing dinners and parties. every wealthy married man i know loses vast sums each month on these wife larps, because it's either pay for her to play pretend or get served divorce papers and lose even more.
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