just to add to this, you should both discuss how you want to raise your kids, what kind of morals you want to teach them, whether you want to raise them conservatively, liberally or in-between, what kind of area you want to raise them in, do you want one kid or 2 or more, will she have a career or be a stay at home mom, etc. these are important questions many parents don't think of or discuss.  you sound like you know this obvious reason with your smartass talk, so spill it? i never said this, and am just telling you that you are extremely naive or cucked for asking other people why you should have children. you act as if i'm hiding a great secret from you.
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