this is one of the reasons a lot of men on this site fail to end up in a good relationship, projecting their understanding of external visual cues onto women and writing off large swaths of woman who are probably actually quite nice, while assuming women who check all the right external boxes are more likely to be better internally. there's countless dommer femjak tier women with a tat or two who are very low body count and pretty based, and countless 'pure' looking women who are not. unironically stop being so obsessed with external aesthetics
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