it's too late  you can't really shame men because that's been tried. guys like that have resigned themselves to the fact that civilization is on a serious decline and they are removing themselves from it.  the institution of marriage is completely broken  most modern women aren't marriage material  marriage is a massive financial risk to the man, especially when children are involved.  men have stated time and time again only to be met with ridicule and "you need to man up", instead of anybody listening to their concerns, so they withdraw which is really the most non violent protest they can make. yet they can even withdraw without assholes trying to fuck up with hobbies and goading them back into a society that they have abandoned.  best just to let them be or actually address their concerns. feminism made this problem
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