don't worry too much. anime is kind of a taboo to westerners because it's wide open to being ridiculed for being a homosexual way to share erotic fantasies through drawings. westerners like their playboy pinups to be virtual nurses for gratification while people who they might be seen with in public need to have "attitude" that says they can take care of themselves. yes, it's immature. it's the kind that caucasians don't seem to grow out of. women have their own dumb rules for how men need to look when the girls are together.
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