again, you hid behind a lawyer. you should not hide behind anything. you roped yourself into a corner where lawyers couldn't easily defend you, where you required their help at all. accept that your conduct as a man has been faulty. embrace masculinity, not malakoi mentality. lawyers are the tools of snakes and snakes are the charmers of women. your goal should be to cut the head off the snake, not charm it into a basket.
New Zealand