they were told they could have it all. that it was fine to just throw away their virginity, to get in the habit of giving up their body in order to boost their ego. to try different guys, it was just different flavours of ice-cream. and for years, it seemed good. lots of male attention, and after all, it feels so good to just let a guy you just met nut in you. there's a thrill to it! once you've had your 9th boyfriend or 4th ghosting after a weekend of "fun", the novelty wears off. as good as the pleasure feels, they can't help but wonder if any guy who shows interest is just doing so to use her like a sex toy and dump her. she sees her friends in very long term relationships and married, with children. she starts to want what they have. but nobody that meets her standards will have her. they're all into younger girls, so she will lash out and call a 31 year old who is nutting into a 19 year a paedophile to try to shame him. but that 31 year old was invisible to her when she was in her 20s, and she was the 19 year old who was having "just a bit of fun" or "summer love". she's a hypocrite and she knows it, and shaming tactics is all she has and they don't work on the men she wants. she goes through the motions at a job she pretends to like (because she tries to make it into a status symbol, but nobody buys that either, it's a meme job and deep down she knows it). in a lot of cases these women will hit the bottle, they were already doing it while partying but now they do it out of sheer boredom. and alcohol is a depressant, so it just makes things worse, not better. but they will happily damage themselves to get a fuzzy feeling for a short time. that, combined with the shitty diet, the sunbathing, means that she ages even faster and her chances of getting it all (getting to live like a slut while still getting the high value man) continue to diminish. so why wouldn't these childless women be depressed?
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