i agree with you, the world is not what it is supposed to be. the issue is how you are trying to fix it. you are pouring gasoline on a gigantic fire and it will only worsen it. your approach, like virtually everyone that is not in this situation is to tell said men to swallow it up and try harder. it hasn't worked for the past decade and it's reaching a point where these men are seriously considering putting a ring on a plastic doll.
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