the bible seems to suggest a husband and wife are each other's second priority after their relationship with god and before their own children. ephesians 5:25-28 reiterates that man must love his wife as himself because they became one in marriage, but 22-24 instructs women to submit to the will of her husband. the guy should indicate at least some hesitance to let his wife die for the baby because it's not a matter of pro-life or pro-choice at that point, and she should respect the answer he gives. however, if she is pro-choice, he yoked himself to an unbeliever who is likely going to leave soon since she's seeking counsel from reddit instead of discussing her concerns with him.
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