reported for innapropriate contact at work  i've been suspended with pay and have a meeting coming up next week. this fat chinese girl from work always liked me and kept messaging me and our chats got kind of flirty until i realised this was a bad idea and tried to distance myself from her. anyway she continued doing this whole indecisive thing where she would initiate flirty chats and would enjoy the attention i gave her but then never want to take things to the next level. two weeks ago it was just me and her at work and she starts with the same routine. i decide 'fuck it lets just do this' and put my arm around her and she doesnt pull away but when i try to kiss her she moves away (but still holding my hand). at this point i'm fed up and i don't even like her that much, she's just someone i thought was down for some easy sex so i'm just like "come on it'll be fun" i then unbuttoned my pants and had my boner pop out but she turned away from me and said what are you doing. then we kind of made a joke of it and resumed talking like nothing happened. a few days later i get called up by the company and put on paid leave and now i have a meeting. what do i even say here? i don't want to keep this job anyway,it's a mimum wage cleaning job full of immigrants i've only been doing for a year while i do a part time degree i was going to preemptively just quit to avoid an embarrasing investigation,  the only reason i haven't quit is so i can salvage as much final pay as possible until i get a new job and i also hoped the girl would drop her complaint after i sent her an apology. (she's less than a model worker herself and has loads of her own complaints for lying and shirking off work) what do i say in the meeting? if the dick thing comes up i will obviously say that's not true and that it was joke that she took seriously. this is gonna be awkard
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