just like my tapeworm is a life partner and a true equal. there are many things required of men and only a few of women. moreover the cost is my health and spirit to keep my end, what i need (a confidant, and a nurse essentially) can be give freely, and on her terms, men are adaptable. we take this shit deal and rarely ever do we get close to what we want so we adapt by being deluded. like people who genuinely think they should have to even concieve of either partners social standing rather than have their value system being based on the personal connection between their roles. i don't want a submissive 'trad' wife i just want someone who cares and that i can trust implicitly. the only women like this are all 85 years old.
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