the literal issue is that they want strong men but they've been told that it's evil and degrading to have a man wear the pants. so they see the weak men they've been told to like as gross and the strong men they've been told to hate as gross so they think all men are gross. and while they are "searching for mr. right" they have the "situationship" with the local tinder manwhore (and they don't want to date him so he doesn't count, in contrived woman logic).
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