> i think you're right until a point of intelligence. if a girl is past that point then the smarter is good. a woman is only required to be smarter than a child up to the age of about 12-13. past that point, your children are young adults and no longer have anything (intellectually) to gain from their mother. from that point on, she is just nurturer and not educator, and their education should be handled by professionals or experts in whichever field they're going into.
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