every man wants a woman who is paradoxically a whore for only him just like how every woman wants a man who is paradoxically a scumbag other women want yet completely loyal to her. both are fantasies rooted in insecurity. most everyone matures eventually and realizes that dating/marriage is but a means to facilitate child-rearing and thereby propagate the survival of our species. we're biologically wired to desire that, especially as we get older and subconsciously realize our respective peak reproductive timeframe's are narrowing.
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