it's female psychology, which is in line with their biology. they know that most of their value comes from their vagina, subconsciously another noteworthy observation is they will more often than not use "insecure" as an insult and use it as an argument for disagreement. because women themselves are insecure, as they are biologically weaker and vulnerable. so they find confident men attractive, as it signals security. to them, the biggest "ick" they have for a man and consequentially the biggest insult they can give to a man (in their vain sex obsessed minds) is "insecure". it is all projection
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