> in reality, you need to do it while you are still young this is so true, my now wife got pregnant in my early 20's i never wanted a kid, but took responsibility. forced me to mature right quick, and i would probably still be drinking and carrying on had i not become a parent. now i am in my 40's my life is set because i didn't spend 20's-30's partying screwing around with various women etc. i am now seeing my friends who chose that lifestyle paying 10's of thousand of dollars to get fertility treatments for their used up roasties they settled with, and when that fails they get a puppy which turns out to be some misbehaved fucking irritance that eventually gets put down. the ones that do succeed just complain about how tired they are, or how little johnny got the autism because you aren't supposed to be having kids in your mid to late 40's. anyway tldr if you are going to do it, find the right person when you are young and get it done, its scary at first, but its worth so worth it.
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