i'm not gonna lie bro sex is simple and very often there's no way to know if someone's done it before or not, there's no shame and the hard part is getting them in bed in the first place go outside and meet people, go to bars and talk your way into groups that are out for fun or are going to clubs later try dating apps if you feel like it, don't worry about shit like tradness because at your age getting a 20yo untouched qt3.14 isn't really an option unless you're rich or boogie2988 get an escort if it's not working and mentally draining enough to keep you up at night and if you have the money once you deal with your virginity stigma focus on being a reliable guy with friends to vouch for you, women desperately need nests and they will happen to you once you start going out and taking part in activities i'd advise against trying your ex unless the situation is incredibly lucky and your chances are astronomically high, not worth the drama and you have misgivings anyway
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