the worst thing about getting with a single mother is that she will respect you even less than she would while you were stringing her along and using her for poon.  single mothers are the kind of women who hate themselves, so when you settle with them, they respect you less for settling with them. this also indicates that you have cucked yourself to the degree that they can put their hooks in and start using you as a punching bag for everything going wrong.  you will always be secondary to everything in her life - her kid and also often her babydaddy. if she knows she can land you, then she can cheat because she can land another you if you catch her cheating.  single mothers are irredeemable hustlers. those single mothers who were once good have been jaded and corrupted by single motherhood, as a survival method. should you settle for one, she will see you as nothing more than a disposable pet to be nagged at and then tossed away.
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