if you're a lazy coomer, then yeah they'll smell the coom from you jerking off. but the dead give away is a "dead" look in the eyes which indicates you're not really motivated, like the flouride or thousand cock stare). and then when a woman enters your view you immediately flip to pajeet rape stare. they pick up on that on a subconscious level. that used to be me, i was addicted to porn in my early 20s. kicked the habit, cut down on drink, junk food and got fit i wasn't lifting but i got toned from body weight exercises and running.  women, from cashiers or to girls in the office, or social settings would always "warm" to me, make eye contact and happy to chat to me and ask questions. they might not know for sure if i have a woman but they pick up on the fact that i'm not "eager" and relaxed. a weird thing happens with women when you are in a good mood and not really giving a shit about them that they see you as a guy "with options" and thus more attractive. women can 100% sense desperation, it's like how a man can sense that there's some danger, women have it for men's emotions. some say "fake it til you make it" but really, they can still sense something is not right, like an uncanny valley if you approach and are trying to act cool. it's like if you wear an actual mask and it slips for a second. that's why approaching women can seem "brutal" where the interaction seems to be going well and then she notices one thing that wasn't genuine or was awkward and then she "knows" you're fake and that crashes your "value" in her eyes because you're trying too hard and in her orbit. stop caring so much about women. give yourself a 3 month experiment. no jerking off to women. no thoughts of oneitis, or exes. if you have to interact with one, pretend it's just a robot giving an automated message. focus on yourself and your own goals. write it down and hold yourself accountable. women will come to you when you get your shit together. there is no shortcut.
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