you'd look crazy too if your own fucking dad began raping you at 14. she probably didn't have a great family environment before that either.  i know of asian girls whose parents invited their aunts over, made them strip to their underwear, then beat them in front of the aunts just to maximize the humiliation and trauma. in fact i even know of males made to stand at family gatherings while their mom and dad repeated how shit their grades were just to inflict humiliation. of course, that doesn't ever cause the grades to improve, but they keep doing it anyway.
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