same here but there is a higher risk and as i have met many many couple with fertility issues starting or detected in their 30s. its not ideal especially since for whatever reasons (environmental exposure to toxins?) were seeing lots more autistic kids and those with serious behavioural issues. waiting isnt the best course of action. i see how many kids with issues in my kids schools and i thank god that mine are healthy. its easy to get overwhelmed with problems and wants and so on but something as simple as healthy children truly is a blessing. you just have to see those without and realize how lucky you are.
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