its simple: the top donor thinks he is dating her (or will be one day) and that the rest of the people there are losers, in the simps mind, he has to keep being the top donor and has to fight off all the other donors with bigger donations or he will lose his oneitits. you also have to realize, these are mostly 40-50 year old men who havent spoken to a real life female in decades, let alone, felt their warmth, so the fact, a young, pretty girl is talking to them is enough to drive them crazy. its really sad when you think about it, but its the end game of incels who didnt neet
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