the path you walk down is a matter of choice rather than of morality. people in china selectively bred for thousands of years to have yellow skin for an important reason. native americans selectively bred in order to have red skin for a reason. european men have beards because hair and fur gives one an advantage when outdoors, hunting, building things, et cetera. women do not have this adaptation. our bodies are very efficient and don't waste calories if they can help it. if you want to be a part of the melting pot, that's up to you. but understand that the traditionalists of you and your wife's race will not always welcome you with open arms. they have secrets to protect and they don't want outsiders to come in the palace garden. if you have big hands, it probably means that your ancestors were manual laborers. this is important and meaningful. you can choose not to obsess over culture and ancestry and history, but the differences between raises and ethnicities are important and have meaning. i will never be able to work out in the sun without wearing clothes as much as a black guy. maybe if i build my tan up over the course of a few years, i would have an easier time. but a black guy can get out there and start working on day one. in order to perform at his level, in a humid or tropical environment, i will need a lot more scaffolding, in the form of extra clothing and hats, spending more time in the shade, possibly needing to drink more water to regulate my body temperature, because blacks' curly hair retains water, which cools them when the breeze comes along, more than straight hair.
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