> for some reason dudes were lead to believe that only men care about looks and women only care about personality. also this is just you misinterpreting/strawmanning. it's not that women do not care at all about looks, they just care less/other things like i mentioned earlier matter equally or often more than looks do while that isn't the case for men. men don't care about women's money or career, it could be a bonus (often is not) but men are not going to disqualify her for working a low paying job or not working at all generally speaking.
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