rebuild the clan, we live in the mountains, well i live world wide now, but my family comes from the rural mountain clans.  life in the mountains is hard enough and land is so cheap that most people purchase more property then they can manage in old age.  the older members of the clan prematurely give land to the younger members of the clan and help them build a house on the land to keep the land well groomed and managed.  5 members of my clan all have houses on 30 acres of land up in the mountains and everyone's cousins and family members are just a walk down through the forest or across a field away.  we also co-educate all the children with mothers taking time off from work to watch the entire gaggle of children. watching 10 kids vs 3 kids is essentially the same amount of work. in fact the more children the better they operate with each other learning how to work together and playing well in groups.
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