twice i've dated the ex-wife of a professional athlete. in both cases all i could think was "why am i here?". they both had luxury townhomes, multiple expensive vehicles, and appetites for the trendiest places in town. and not normal plebe trendy but trendy with the jetset crowd. i was a young attorney at one of the top law firms in the world but fuck, it was easy to see that there was nothing to could bring to the table other than attention and validation, both of which i leveraged into sex a couple of times but both sides quickly saw things weren't going to go anywhere and my job as an associate wasn't going to impress her friends that were married to pro athletes and c-suite men at top companies.  problem for these women is that they both had two children. none of the top men want that but at the same time, they're both attractive, in good shape, and aren't economic dead weight. no idea who is going to be the right match for them.
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