women constantly seek validation - they are never comfortable  a husband does this temporarily, by providing such validation until things are stable, and next on a subconscious level she starts wondering why she doesnt have kids, this is when a man will either be a slave to his wife, or build his legacy - and you always want a man to choose the latter. if a man encourages a woman not to have kids, he is electing to suffer her ever-changing standards - and a woman will try to fill the role of the missing child by causing chaos and drama when a woman has children though, she actively seeks peace rather than conflict, as the children provide plenty of challenge for a woman on a near-constant basis, her partners strength and success can become a sanctuary rather than a competitor for attention > t. married 16 years
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