> women don't want to be seen as sexual objects the problem emerges when you allow chad to use you as a sex object. i want a lover, not a sex doll, but if chad is allowed to use you as a sex doll and i am not, then clearly chad is being given more permissions than i am. i need to make a greater commitment in exchange for less permissions. even if i don't want to use those permissions, it still makes me feel underappreciated. > why in the world would any woman feel fulfilled from that? virgin men are told that it is unrealistic to expect to find a virgin woman. this teaches men that women do want to be used as sex objects, just by better looking men. women have a "slutty phase" where they have non-serious relationships with hot men for fun, then they have a "settling phase" where they use sex in a transactional manner to secure a long-term provider and satisfy societal expectations of marriage. neither of these phases are what a man would consider to be "love", but the slutty phase is closer to love since the woman actually enjoys being with the man, rather than simply tolerating him for business reasons. if the only options are slutty phase and settling phase, men are going to prefer to be part of the slutty phase, and hence they are going to treat women like sex objects
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