encourage her to quit being difficult to get along with and make up with her ex-bf. she needs to move in with him and marry him at the earliest age possible with parental consent or otherwise. after that make it clear she'll never live under your roof again and that in all things needs to follow her husband even if that means she disagrees with him. if that means follow and support his rap career she should do it.  option 2 is give it up for adoption to a traditional married couple. you aren't a father. it will grow up and become an incomplete human being like all kids without a sad.
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