my then gf had an abortion a while back. she would have been an awful mother and she was a bad partner (what modern woman isn't) but i tried her to convince her not do go through with it. i was willing to make if work whatever i needed to sacrifice.  now i dont own this society or "country" anything, let it all burn down i don't give a shit. it honestly messed me up badly and i still think about it most days.
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