it is. can be a little cringy sometimes too when they're trying too hard to be sexy and equally don't know how but thats cute in it's own way too. it still gets frustrating though. no one likes blue balls.   it doesn't work that way. i've got plenty of experience, i had an ex who was a stripper before i met my wife. no one is going to magically learn how not to gag just becuase someone else has done it before. getting good at anything takes patience, and practice, and encouragement. finesse and technique are skills that need to be developed and even with direction that takes time.
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