i paid attention to my parents and stayed in the closet until they died, rather than come out and suddenly pretend to be surprised that they banished me. anyone not a self-absorbed narcissist knows how that conversation's going to happen before it ever happens. if you are a self-absorbed narcissist and you didn't know in advance how things were going to shake out, you deserve those tears and pain. lgbt is like a daycare for grown-up sized toddlers.
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