> its my fathers fautl!!!  you and your family failed the 1st lesson. dont fight and work together. if you are incapable of doing that, you were probably not socialized properly.  and if your father grew up to be a squanderer thats on your grandparents.  if one family member is threatening the whole familys wealth/estate, you get rid of them. if you are too incapable/impotent to do that, you were never gonna make it anyway.  > humble life , no luxury , etc  that's just the standard of smart existing. it doesn't make you special lol. it's like saying " i won't be fat" , that , too, is just the standard of how you should be at the minimum.  i have never drunken alcohol, smoked or eaten meat in my life because thats what people do when they are looking for easy escapes from their shitty lives.
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