it doesn't matter if you tell a woman about your stuff or not. anything you own the government or a bank or some entity would know about(car registration). their lawyer will find it and half your ass. the only safe way is to convert your shit to money or gold and hide it. also you can transfer the assets to someone you trust through legitimate means(you had to pay them off for a debt) and wait a few years and then get it back or have them sell it and get the cash.
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