notice no one, least op, addressed    aside from the fact that there's no such thing as greek homosexuality in general since the pederasty that indeed took place in some city-states and periods was not "homo" i.e between adults but always between an adult male and a boy, greeks too, like most ancient cultures, utterly looked down on any adult taking the passive role, in e.g plato's gorgias socrates himself, to embarrass his interlocutor, uses the completely silly idea that sodomites could be considered happy to make his point
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