no, it's not. abortion and adoption is equally hard for the father (mentally, emotionally), though no one cares about that. and of course it's hard on the infant. life ruining actually, no infant survives the abortion even! the problem with the abortion argument, the reason it's even able to be a thing, is that it's focused on women. if women were the only ones involved the child/baby/infant/fetus wouldn't have been created in the first place.
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