we men also messed up, that's why our curse is to work like slaves for ourselves and for our families. this curse is specific for men. modern times are messed up for ignoring this and assigning the curse of men to women. 17 and unto adam he said, because thou hast hearkened unto the voice of thy wife, and hast eaten of the tree, of which i commanded thee, saying, thou shalt not eat of it: cursed is the ground for thy sake; in sorrow shalt thou eat of it all the days of thy life; our disobedience makes us pay for it. 18 thorns also and thistles shall it bring forth to thee; and thou shalt eat the herb of the field; we disobeyed god when he told us we would die because of this. this is our proper penalty. 19 in the sweat of thy face shalt thou eat bread, till thou return unto the ground; for out of it wast thou taken: for dust thou art, and unto dust shalt thou return.
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