> i thought you were trying to say that someone needed to be unique and outside of a known pattern for the sake of being unique. k > idk my uncle and my sister have dropped explicit comments like that in recent years and idk wtf they're talking about either. comments like what?  they claim the jews are being hyper aggressive as a coping mechanism too?  > i was just trying it on for size to see if it meant anything to anyone else. i only thought to try it hear because i've seen people point out cycles and patterns of behavior, that they have to also be part of according to themselves, yet they're pointing it out to someone else as if it's supposed to me something. maybe that meaning is supposed to be that the person showing it is unique and outside of the cycle ok.  the reason why ideas like the grief cycle are useful is because they're broadly applicable and most people tend to go through those rough phases in roughly that way.
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