> most importantly stop approaching women, at least for a while. most men are never going to stop approaching women, and all you are doing is making it easier for us. all of you neurotic, anxious zoomers who never approach women means it is easier and better than ever for average normal guys. i am far from being a chad, but even i have hot girls going crazy and competing with each other over me and throwing themselves at me. i have a bruise on my arm from where a smoking hot zoomette bit me sexually. it's insane.  > stop texting them thinking you are interesting because you are not.  this is the one thing that you said that is true. most dudes text girls way too much. all of that shit you say to them trying to seem witty or clever or funny falls flat because girls will interpret it literally and won't get it. all that texting also makes it seem like you are thirsty and desperate and don't have a lot of other options or things going on in your life. it's just putting you into the friendzoned orbiter box with all of the other desperate low value dudes who constantly text her. if you aren't already in a serious relationship with a girl, you should only text for logistics to set up a date or other in-person meetup. if she tries to be chatty or asks why you aren't, more or less tell her that if she wants to have a conversation with you, she can do it face to face in person. don't be autistic about it, if she texts you first or if there is a real, important reason to text her, you can. but definitely don't get into long text conversations or send her every random meme you see or be one of those dudes constantly sending "good morning beautiful" type texts.
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