it's sad because i was super social and had literally hundreds of friends til like 25 and i went hermit mode to get my shit together. now i regret it at age 30 because even though i have 20k in the bank and a job that makes 20 (decent in my area) now i have maybe 3 or 4 friends.  i can attract women here and there but strangely friends are harder to make it also seems like the young people aren't doing what we used to do.  it's sad and depressing.  i just wish i had kept up my friendships. now a lot of those people feel like strangers.
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