i'm approaching 40 and haven't even been in a relationship before. it's beginning to scare the shit out of me. i've been aggressively saving for years and course correcting my 20s when i couldn't make any money. i'm out of debt and should have six figures in the bank by next year. i want to have a wife and kids but i also want to have stability in my life. i am not going to live broke and behind the eight ball like my parents did. every day right now it's just me by myself in this apartment, but sooner or later it will be a family. just taking a bit longer for me than previous generations. it'll work out.
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