i'll chime in briefly. my wife is hapa. she has two brothers. her family is very well adjusted and successful. better than mine, by a long shot. anne frankly, better than most everyone else i know. they all did well in school.and athletics, excel at music, are professionally successful, have regular family vacations, etc. she loves me, i love her - marrying her was a no brainer. op, if you're concerned about "selection bias", think for a second about where you are and the people who are giving you their opinions.
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