no. women are not obsessed with abortion. ask any regular woman in your life what she thinks about abortion and they will all tell you the same thing: "i support it but i would never get one myself." we don't think about it, we don't worry about it, we don't care. now, i'm a far right racist, but all my female friends are lukewarm normies and i assure you, it never enters their minds. politicians are the only ones obsessed with it, but that's because they're eating the remains or drinking the blood or whatnot and they try to project it on us.
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