seconding this. and you can't discredit the damage daycare does to you and your wife. our 2 kids went to daycare for a while my wife had a bit of a breakdown when she realized she was spending maybe one hour of quality time with the kids every day. she was able to quit her job. we made a lot of sacrifices but it's been absolutely worth it. she's happier. the kids are happier. i'm happier. house is clean, food is cooked, sex is better, she works out now. cannot recommend this arrangement enough if you can pull it off.
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