they aren't. take a look at op's pic for example, paying attention to the features that denote sexuality. > face > hair > breasts > groin > hips > rear they're feminine, but quite grounded in reality. modern standards - informed largely by pornography - in contrast are drastically more exaggerated. everything is bigger, plusher, and bereft of blemishes. no judgements. i'm not saying one is superior to the other. just observing that they *are* different.
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