if she doesnt have children then ask her to get saved. once saved she is a new creature in christ. forgive her. however if she has children of her own, then you will never love her children like your own. especially if you have your own children with her. virginity of the hymen is very valuable past 30, but christ jesus can repay all debts. just not the one when they already brought life into this world, that can never be repaid. she is forever one flesh and one soul with that person.
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