american so called kindness is all superficial, and small talk. normal people when they don't like someone, they don't smile at them and ask them "how are you?". an american will do exactly that. but other people when they don't like someone, they glare at them. i'd rather deal with people that aren't duplicitous. you can see what's really in the heart of an american when you read your post. i bet you think of yourself as a good person. duplicitous behaviour is especially evil, and much more so than upright hostility.
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