im not an incel, but i am retarded. i am fairly attractive (6ft tall, white with blue eyes, i like to work out but am not huge, just athletic, decent enough looks and i try to be a good funny feller.) however!!!! i am mega retarded. i had a really cute hispanic lady come up to me at work (probably early 20's. really cute girl, super nice body, but a little shy) she conceded in me that she liked me and wanted my number. i just said "oh! haha, sorry i'm married" without a second thought. i am not married!!! and i liked her too! this has happened three separate times, once at work, and twice at the dog park where i take my puppy for walkies. it's like a defense mechanism that i don't even consciously control. how do i stop doing this???? i like women and want to have kids some day!!!!
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