just because people want something doesnt mean its healthy. extensive academic research has been done on this and older men dating young girls is morally wrong because of the power dynamics and can lead to psychological damage.  because of their age and inexperience young girls are easily susceptible to being manipulated by the older men and falsely convinced that what is happening is ok and normal. you should date your own age. older men dating younger girls are predators more often than not.
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