women are the gatekeepers of sex and reproduction but men control commitment. that's why women are so butthurt about abortion, because none of the men the internet has allowed them to prioritize over their actual peers are willing to give them that commitment so without easy access to abortion they're destined to become single mothers. and now even their actual peers are too disgusted by their behavior in this new hypergamous society to give them that commitment either.   i don't see how that's a contradiction. the problem isn't that white women are disloyal, it's that they have too many options because the 5-10% of the people they all want are content in the short term to just bang half the girls that match with them and that makes the women think they have a chance at eventually marrying one. but the numbers just don't work out unless each of those men marries like 10 women.
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