three things.  first is survivorship statistics plus the fact that "you're getting old". assuming 50% of women have sex each year after 18, by 28, only about 0.1% of women won't have fucked someone. this estimate is actually extremely generous, because the actual per year stat's closer to 80% of men and women get laid each year, so realistically by 22-23, this ship has sailed. second is "you're not worth waiting for", because most trad men suck. most modern tradlords aren't waiting for a woman themselves, aren't living a substantially more moral or appreciable lifestyle than the average normie "degenerate", and you're not a compelling alternative to the liberty and freedom of her just getting her own job, finding a few fwb's, and just marrying one of them in her early 30s after she's built herself a strong nest egg and can tell you "fuck off, i don't need you for your cash". last is trad men stopped delivering on the goods because global competition is too intense to support it and most men haven't kept up with inflation. it's supposed to be a structure in which you're raising kids effectively by sharply delegating responsibility - the man is 100% providing for his family while she raises kids. in most of the us, modern life demands two incomes if you're planning to not only live a subsistence livestyle, but also consistently and without reservations enjoying the occasional vacation, eating out, enjoying better food, and so on. only a very small subset of men can do all the above on a single income, and most women correctly recognize their material quality of life would greatly suffer dating a "trad men", because their "traditional" lifestyle is outmoded. it's not that complicated, honestly.
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