also i'm about to start dating again and at 43 i have to date a girl in her 30s. at least.  i can't date a woman my own age she'll look way older than me.  people will think there's an age gap when there's not and it'll embarrass her.  so i have to date a woman in her 30s so we age together.  or? maybe even a girl in her 20s since they hit on me all the time and again, i need to age with the girl i'm with somewhat equally.  can't date a woman my own age, she'll look too old.
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