what they fail to realize is that the 'incel' no longer wants women. you could give him an entire harem of virgins as chattle slaves, forced to be loyaly and subservient to him, and he would reject it. it is no longer about gaining what he has been denied, it is about destroying those that denied him. its too late to give him what he wants because he no longer wants it. he has rid himself of the desire, and in doing so has become free. there is nothing, nothing, they can do to get him back in their camp, to make him obey. what about shame? shame is when your pride gets hurt, but these men are so beaten down that they have no pride. without pride, there can be no shame. the entirety of their control method is based on shaming men into taking the actions they want. their 'no carrot, all stick' approach doesnt work, but they will never offer the carrot, because they hate you and want you dead. if they do offer the carrot, you can be assured that it is a lie and they won't actually give it to you.
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