you're still suffering from cowardly mentality where you're afraid to confront the issue head on. why aren't you sitting down with the pediatrician and saying "ok doc here's the deal, we're not vaccinating, we're not circumcising, etc. etc. and i want to make sure that that is absolutely clear in advance, and that there is absolutely no way this will happen by mistake. how do we set that up?" are you afraid of confrontation? or do you think the doctor will try to do these things against your wishes? if the latter is the case you just need to find a new doctor. if it isn't, you need to grow a pair and speak up. obviously, don't let your guard down regardless. but if the hospital is that hostile/uncooperative or that untrustworthy, you need to go elsewhere.
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