> go to school as woman > get access to 40 hour work week just like men so don't need a relationship for resources > use contraceptive things like the pill, making you desire sex a lot less  > 40h work week and career development cost time and energy, don't want kids since they would prevent you from working completely > never get kids or maybe 1 when 35 and you're with a rich enough guy  meanwhile stacy with 85 iq doesn't think about things and gets knocked up with 5 kids by some bum making slightly above min wage.
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