that's exactly it. modern relationships completely ignore that men have to struggle to get a woman, it takes time and effort over a period of years, with some risk and some luck to make yourself appealing as a partner. so you get years of stress and isolation, but you overcame it and now you get a woman who gives you nothing special or intimate because she gave it to a bunch of guys before for far less effort.  consenting to such a relationship is just embarassing and remember that in order to marry, you get down on one knee and beg her to marry you. begging a woman who had no such requirements for other men, that just makes you consent to being a lesser man. fuck that, thats just insulting, atleast dying alone has self respect, other people can disrespect you, but self respect is something only you can give away.
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