this is the most perfect post in this thread. you only get one shot in this life and if you miss, it's game over. you need to be perfect and hit all the right notes at the perfect time, and one screw up and your life is ruined. they might as well make it a rule/law where if you're in your 30s or you haven't experienced love and relationships in your youth, you should be barred from the dating scene for life. and if you have a physical or mental disability like autism, then you should be barred regardless, even when you're still in your youth. people who never had these important life experiences will be branded as "inexperienced" or something like that for life, and this will make women avoid you. dating over 25 or 30 should just not be a thing at all.
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