my niece is a ftm who is married to a mtf. neither had any surgery and my niece actually gave birth to two children, but she insists that she's a man and her husband insists that he's a woman. both dress vaguely as the opposite gender but mostly tshirts and jeans though the husband will wear dresses if he is going somewhere that will draw attention.  they're both perpetually outrages and hysterical about everything from politics to what time the garbage truck came. it's very difficult to be around them if you want peace and quiet. their kids are going to grow up so fucked up. thankfully they live in portland on the other side of the country so i don't have to see any of them very much.
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