the thing about masculinity is that it is about imposing yourself upon the environment. when you give power to men that's exactly what they do, all you need to do is make sure that bad masculine behavior is punished and shamed and men will direct that power in a positive way towards their partner and community. femininity on the other hand is about the environment towards the self. give women power and they don't direct it at their partners, they direct it at themselves and use it as a benchmark to demand more. give girls a 150k salary and they won't approach men, buy them gift, take them on vacation, get a new car for them, they'll just say well damn now i need a guy that makes 200k.
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