no one is being forced to share. it is the lack of generosity that is disgusting.  are you poor? are you greedy? have you no love or affection for your friends? why not feed them? why not show them what good taste you have, your skills as a cook, and better still, to share a meal is to share a social event, you can continue the fun while eating. when you were in school did cliques not eat together? it is at its root a social event. even neanderthals ate together.
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