> why is being rejected by some girl who u will never see again so bad? because rejection sucks and causes insecurity.  a more extreme example is a guy who's proud of his dick and it's not bad but he got with 10 size queens in a row somehow and they all told him  > yo dick is small!  it'll set in. soon he thinks he has a tiny cock. it's not but he can't not hear the words and the faces they made.  he thinks all the women will do that.  it's inevitable.  maybe one or two didn't but..... and rejection is like that to a lesser extent.  you can't continue to suffer it regularly and keep a decent self esteem.  breaking up hurts and rejection is a like a tiny break up. he was hoping in his mind it would go another way, he had to summon up a lot of courage to talk to you, he's nervous, he has an idea of you. and then it's gone.  and he's not good enough.  not that time, not next time, and how many times is he not good enough before he believes it? so rejection sucks if it happened to you a few times it would actually damage your self esteem in severe ways.
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