yep i've had this realization already and it was a big part of why i decided to just give up on ever getting a wife or gf. i'm short and i know any woman whose father i met would be immediately disgusted and never able to have any respect for me. if he's taller than me, then it's obvious he would have no respect for me. if he's shorter than me, then he's disappointed his daughter couldn't find a better man. either way is lose lose. even if my wife/gf would lie and say she doesn't mind me being short the rest of her family and friends and everyone she ever meets will remind her that i'm worthless and she deserves so much better and she'll just leave me eventually anyways. no point even trying.
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