if you actually look into it, most anime girls aren't really that outrageous. for example, makoto niijima, the most popular persona 5 girl, might be the student council president, but she's also unpopular, a bit stuckup, and not that attractive (at least in universe). she definitely isn't some super model mary sue, but she is loyal and loving which is more than you can expect from 99% of women.
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