yes, you can do both.  but also sex is fundamental human nature and if we have the tech to stop unintended consequences for something that is as necessary for us as eating but has consequences that are far more reaching than taking a shit because of the way our society works then we should use it. theres no reason to force a kid to live through poverty and mental anguish just because you believe in the ideas that a nomadic desert tribe invented to maintain their population levels up so they could continue to wage war over water.
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