yeah that need for a provider is essentially boiled down into attention as a resource.  i wish maslow hierarchy of memes was a real thing but the reality is there is a set point of happiness and an endless point of needs that never gets filled up which can cause a feedback loop to where people only focus on there base instincts due to its sheer abundance. when you feed these women constant attention your make there short term reward system short circuit. however if you learn to stave it off you can keep the relationship growing since men are long term thinkers to begin with. to keep her spiraling your need to get your own shit in order and find ways for her to keep her self entertained. giving her that variety of attention is part of the play and romance that there looking for so spontaneity can fill that role of stretching those highs of attention out to keep her from spiraling. idk i am just speculating.
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