this. my hs gf who i went to church with all through our 5 years of dating went to college and immediately resented me for wanting to see her regularly so she couldnt party and "have the college experience," you know. she's a hardcore lefty now, moved to fucking korea of all places, and is a literal #4b feminist with a phd in creative writing (she has never written anything, of course, and teaches english over there). for my part i married a zoomerwaffen 5'7 90% german blonde and our second kid is due in december. it's been a wild ride.
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