timidness and responsibility. having children pre-financial security is very unstable.  relationships are viewed contemporary as the ability to  i say contemporary because both men and women were more impulsive in the past. suave looking men doing bold actions might enthrall a woman, a woman illustrating house-chore abilities and devotion, along with makeup could make a man pine for her.  nowadays both parties are more weary due to regulations, peer pressure, and enhanced knowledge about the true value of marriage vows, instead of through the seemingly impulsive lense of hollywood.  there are a million men and women that are potentially more attractive than you. there are a million financially better off than you. a million implicit comparisons. in the era of the internet, a million people including you, have vastly bigger closets holding many more philosophic and historic skeletons. this is especially true for every user of this site that has revisited it 6 months after they were introduced to it.  this is relevant in lieu of marriage lifelong commitment and need to be able to be open in your house, unless you want to turn the house into a place of public pressure in the sense you cant watch or talk about the things you want to - even at times in your bedroom. in lieu of marriage you need to articulate your beliefs which can negatively diffuse the spouses view of you if unable to articulate the controversial aspects inherent in any person that has heard at least one summarization of a great literary works points in exposition of a deep insight on life, or had one poignant insight. these controversial aspects inform their world view; inform how they live life and view organization and interaction in the world. the need to compromise on certain itineraries of relations and beliefs held by the husband/spouse of jurisprudence.
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