sorry that happened to you anon. i know a few other similar cases, friends and acquaintances who were falsely accused and had their lives/families/careers ruined, all in the last 4 years. my one friend had cell phone records, credit card records proving his ex-wife was lying as well as screen shots of her bragging about ruining his life with lies and she still got custody of the kids and all his money.   what you experienced is definitely part of a trend. it makes me wonder what's behind it. it doesn't seem to be only about the money and other incentives, though that's part of it. it's some kind of gender war dynamic, i think it has something to do with the internet and social media but can't put my finger on it.  it seems like the common thread through many maladaptive/self-destructive social dynamics is the idea of "perverse incentives" where harmful or anti-social, destructive behaviors and patterns are rewarded and incentivized. this thread is talking about one particular anti-family dynamic (arguably started by lbj with the great society welfare state) but these same perverse incentives spread across society.  another one i was thinking about earlier are the farmer subsidies in the farm bill, where farmers are incentivized (or forced) to practice harmful forms of agriculture (hog confinements, huge monoculture corn and onions) which then are used to create processed food which cause widespread health problems and the hollowing out of local economies, so on and so forth it's almost like our society is designed to harm the participants for money and power of the rulers. it's almost like everything is upside down and corrupt .it's almost like our world is controlled by the king of lies, that old serpent, satan. hope you get to better days
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