women's very nature is destructive. if they could pick between using the carrot or the stick, they'd use the stick 24/7. not because it yields better results, but because most of them are latent sadists who enjoy making others miserable. and they are especially prone to doing it to their partner, because he's the one around most of the time when their mood swings happen and they feel like kicking someone in the balls right now. they also feel that you cannot leave and thus have no choice but to accept it anyway.  happens every single time with woman - as long as they think they have you by the balls, they are vile cunts, but the moment you make it obvious that you can leave whenever you want, they do a 180 and almost stumble over their own feet to be sweet and kind again.
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