yeah fair enough. id put mumble rap as being leagues worse than landfill indie though but if you are an outsider to any of these trends you don't have the scars of being on the frontline. you've just gotta enjoy shit as it happens and not let it get to you.    yeah true. feel like it's easy for me to feel older than i actually am due to still being around a fair ammount of teenagers. as you said it's just about making the smooth transition between being a teenager and getting decent security in your 30s.   you could still do both in a way. getting some experience with romance while grinding. there's also plenty of breaks where you can still go harder on hedonism.
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