this is the 14 y/o version of playing with dinosaurs. we turned scene and emo, they do shit like this. let her be weird and don't make her feel hated, or she will lean into it and it will cause massive fucking issues for a long time. she'll probably get over it and stop sooner than later. doctors likely won't give a young girl t ever, so the only thing you have to deal with is your kid being weird and dressing weird for a while.  let them explore their own autonomy and identity and she'll probably go back to being normal. turning it into a conflict or forbidding it will backfire.
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