their brains are wired very differently. we look for almost any kind of specimen to carry our genes. but, they look only for the strongest genes. that's why they cheat with bosses and etc. their instincts tell them that their genes are worth carrying. check how salmon females fake stuff with weak males. the equivalent for our species are condoms. when they say it's your fault, they mean it. so, you better become a man and act like it. and if you don't want to, just get a surrogate mother and be done with it. but make sure you can raise a child by being a child yourself. so, it's kinda our fault for not being strong willed males.
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