that is not the point man, men in power throughout history had to marry women they didn't and have concubines on the side. even in the modern world you see men marrying women they don't like just to push their progress, like sunak in the uk where he married the jeet princess with billions over his millions, even though she was ugly and a hoe and his life was now controlled by the jeet father of his wife. some men just accept any sort of power even if it means dealing with bad people and being beholden to them.
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