because there is no existential framework that promised you anything in life beyond hunger and privation and death in pain. that we humans were able to cobble together a society to grant full bellies and clean water and warmth and shelter and personal agency and the ability to grow and think and dream as people is nothing short of a miracle. the fact that this comes with some caveats you feel intolerable like "other people somewhere else making big decisions for the good of society" is not a reason to act as if you are personally being victimized or deprived of anything that is rightfully "yours" tldr grow up have kids
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