ironically, she loves you a little less everytime you do things for her. not joking. human psychology is fucking ass backward - we tend to respect people that ask us to do things for them more, as that is an ancient and evolutionary mark of superiority/dominant status. a king wouldn't carry bags for the queen; the queen would carry the king's stuff (or they'd have servants to do all the carrying). men are raised to think acts of service are ingratiating to others, but they're actually the exact opposite. subconsciously, people respect you less when you do shit for them, that marks you as a servant. they respect you more when you ask them to do shit for you - that means you're the guy in charge. like that other anon said - he had a girlfriend like that, and she cheated on him. you likely want to avoid your woman cheating on you as well: stop carrying her shit (unless its literally too heavy for her to carry) and start asking her to do little things for you, like getting you a beer or glass of water or something. ironically, women love doing little things like that and proving that they're useful to a man they respect. if she bitches or won't do it, she doesn't respect you and you should dump her immediately.
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