okay buddy if that's what you need to believe to be happy suit yourself.   > because they haven't had the brutal reality of life beat them to death with the truth. yes that is why they are so taken aback. they were expecting a guy to try and convince them that the things they are convinced of aren't actually what they want. having a woman and not even that much older wail like that speaks to their emotions which is lets face it the only thing that will ever convince other women. > my cousin is almost 40, unmarried and childless. sorry to hear. > she tells every young woman she works with not to repeat her mistakes. at least she is trying to do right by them. many regress into denial as the cat ladies and wine aunts going on about how they actually hate sour grapes and always wanted to die alone and childless.
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