it's all about the mom, dads usually just put up with the shit to keep the family united and not end up in someone's else house, if the mom is crazy batshit, your house will be like that, and they are on the spectrum of craziness to a degree. some dad snaps and things get down quickly because the dad is the one who's keeping the family afloat, but at the end it's still his fault for choosing such an abusive one. women abuse is far worse than men, it doesn't bruise your body, it bruises your soul forever.
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