i wouldnt say you have no one to blame. the contents of your mind are part of the spiraling noosphere. but it is thus theoretically possible to hop into some other spiral, depending upon where your treasures lie, and experience this life in some other way. wisdom and greatness can nonetheless be had without changing your circumstances or fate, like in that von trier movie nymphomaniac. seligmann vs the whore.  i wouldnt want to go in the krishnamurti direction though, or follow those stupid neostoics.
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