Choose contact name manually? In my contact list, I entered a number of "household" contacts combined together.  For example, "Bob &amp; Sally Smith", with the corresponding e-mail addresses, phone numbers, etc.  The problem is that, if the e-mail address is also associated with a Facebook contact, it overrides my preferred naming system and shows the name of the Facebook contact.  For example, if the e-mail address were Bob's in my example, it would show "Bob Smith" instead of the combined name.

Is there a way to force it to use the name I prefer it to use?

Note that this may be specific to my phone - Motorola Droid.  A friend of mine has the Droid X and I might see if his does the same thing...
As always, it's a different Android device (but same Android version, however) so YMMV...

The Samsung Vibrant (aka Galaxy S) has a Mark as default menu option when you open a contact.  If you have more than one linked contact (with different names), it allows you to select which name appears in the contact list.