Is the existence of an oracle such that $P^O = NP^O$ nontrivial? This famous paper proves the existence of both oracles $A$ and $B$ such that $\textbf{P}^A = \textbf{NP}^A$ and $\textbf{P}^B \neq \textbf{NP}^B$, therefore proving that any resolution to the P versus NP problem must be nontrivial in the sense that it cannot relativize.

I understand the significance of the oracle separation given by the latter oracle $B$: it shows that it certainly isn't trivially true that P = NP (of course, this result is incredibly obvious anyway!). But while I'm sure I'm wrong, the existence of the former oracle seems kind of obvious to me.

I would naively expect that for any complexity classes A and B, there would exist some oracle $O$ such that $\textbf{A}^O = \textbf{B}^O$. Just let $O$ be any oracle for a language that is complete for any complexity class C that is "sufficiently larger" than $\mathbf{A} \cup \mathbf{B}$ (in some sense which I suspect could be made precise). Then the oracle $O$ would be so much more powerful than the abstract machines whose capabilities define A and B that the most efficient solution to any tractable problem would simply be to consult the oracle and call it a day. In this case the oracle would "eat up" the original abstract machines and we would simply have $\mathbf{A}^O = \mathbf{B}^O = \mathbf{C}$. As a rather overpowered example, isn't it trivially true that $\mathbf{P}^\mathbf{R} = \mathbf{NP}^\mathbf{R} = \mathbf{R}$?

(Sorry, this question probably shows that I lack a basic conceptual understanding of how relativization works.)
The existence of an oracle with respect to which $\mathsf{P} = \mathsf{NP}$ shows that $\mathsf{P} \neq \mathsf{NP}$ cannot be proved using techniques that relativize such as diagonalization. In contrast, the time and space hierarchy theorems do relativize, disproving your claim that any two complexity classes are equal relative to some oracle.

The easy observation that $\mathsf{P}^\mathsf{R} = \mathsf{EXP}^\mathsf{R}$ seems to contradict the fact that the time hierarchy theorem relativizes. Tthe definition of $\mathsf{X}^\mathsf{R}$ that you use is $$ \mathsf{X}^\mathsf{R} = \bigcup_{A \in \mathsf{R}} \mathsf{X}^A.$$
The time hierarchy theorem shows that $\mathsf{P}^A \neq \mathsf{EXP}^A$ for every language $A$, but not for every family of languages.

The oracle with respect to which $\mathsf{P} = \mathsf{NP}$ is a single language. One possible choice is any $\mathsf{PSPACE}$-complete language. This is very similar to using an arbitrary recursive language, with a crucial difference – there are languages in $\mathsf{PSPACE}$ which are complete with respect to polynomial time reductions.