user relationship status as a visibility rule per panel pane how make a visibility rule based on UR status I've made a function to get the status between the visitor and the visited profiles 

I ask if the module provide it or could i make it appear in visibility rules for panels module if it provide any hooks for that
From: http://drupal.org/node/1185210

User Relationships provides individual panel pane visibility checks based on relationship status.
In order to use this functionality:
Make sure that the User context has been enabled for the current variant (most likely current user)
Add a new visibility rule for the pane you would like to control
Select 'User Relationship' and configure for your use case.

That being said, I wrote those instructions for Drupal 6 while porting this feature to 7 and there may be bugs with the 7.x implementation. If you find anything make sure to post what you find on the issue queue.
If you want to customize your implementation further that code would be a good starting point, and please post any additional visibility rules back to the queue.