Show content that referenced to a user to him In my site I have a content type with a user reference field. 

I want to create a view to show  contents to a user that are referenced by this user reference field.

How would I do this?
If you have a content type with a user reference field and you want to display a list of these content types that reference the currently logged in user, you could create a view, Filter it on published nodes of that type, and then add in an Argument, which would be the field in question, and then supply as the default argument the uid of the currently logged in user.  Then just set up whatever Fields you want displayed and you should be on your way.