Restricting node reference values to owner I have played with a bunch of modules (Node Reference Node Access, Views Field, View Reference) and can't seem to find one that does a very simple job; In one content type I want a field that provides a select list of all nodes owned by current user from another content type. 

Think of it (roughly) as blog content types.


Blog 1 - Owned by user 1
Blog 2 - Owned by user 2
Blog 3 - Owned by user 1


In another content type (updates) we'll have a field that is used for building a relationship (ie, select the blog that this update will be related to) and that field should be populated with the blogs owned by that user;


Select Blog (for user 1 the list would contain;


Blog 1
Blog 3



I have read so much, installed so many modules and I just cant get it to work. The closest I have got is a field that contained the name of the view, which is not overly helpful. 

EDIT:
Screen Shots:
If I understand you right, you can use a View as the source for the nodereference widget, and give it appropriate filters to only show nodes of a certain type authored by the current user. To use a view (assuming you have Views installed and appropriate perms) you can


edit the nodereference by going to Content management -> Content types -> Edit [whatever content type] -> Manage fields -> [whatever field name];
in the fieldset Global settings click to expand the fieldset Advanced - Nodes that can be referenced (View);
select the appropriate view in View used to select the nodes;
if you want to use arguments you can specify them in View arguments.