How Would I Join The Selected Edges Together As you can see the lines are not the same, on the bottom it has bigger spaces and on the top its smaller, please help me out i tried everything i know and am stuck.
I am not aware of an automagic way to do this, but here is a workaround: In edit mode, select one edge segment from the lower piece and the corresponding edge segment from the upper piece. Use [F] to fill a face between them. Continue doing this around the model. Because of the difference in vertex count, you will occasionally need to fill a triangle instead of a quad.

Here is some information on filling faces in edit mode:
https://www.blender.org/manual/modeling/meshes/editing/basics/creating_faces_and_edges.html

Edit: Filling faces is still useful, but Bridge is way better.

In edit mode, you'll select the edge loops, then Mesh > Edges > Bridge Edge Loops. Here's some information on edge tools—scroll down to the Bridge section: https://www.blender.org/manual/modeling/meshes/editing/edges.html