Object origin is being set to wherever the 3d cursor is even if i move it. How do i fix it? the object origin is currently at the location of the 3d cursor. Right clicking moves the 3d cursor (i have left click to select on) but it also moves the object origin/rotation point. doing ctrl alt shft c and selecting any of the option does nothing. How do i set things so that the object origin just stays in the middle of the object.
Your Transform Pivot is just set to Pivot Cursor. Press Ctrl+, to go back to Median Transform. The Shortcut for Cursor Pivot is by the way . so you might accidently clicked it. This answer only applies if you are a beginner and you don't know what the object origin is. Your question doesn't provides an image so I just assumed it