How to set similiar lighting I wanted to make this nice scene in Blender



And i achieved this



Present lighting is HDR, the first one is blured version, second and third are normal pictures
I also have 3 sun lamps, one is shining from windows at the front, second from window above the sink and third from behind, they are a bit yellow.

Postprocessing looks like this


I am not able to achieve so realistic look, but the biggest difference comes from lighting. How to get closer to it?
My advices:


Your scene and that scene has different type of hdris.
Install hdri addon like gaffer (it's free) and change/rotate different hdris until you find what looks most similar.
If you want the most similar look you wil have to use exact same hdri image, if it's possible but in most cases it isn't possible.
That scene has hdri of clear noon sky and you have hdri of evening or something like that.
So both images represent different time span of the day. 
You image looks darker so after you change the hdri, you should increase the strength of hdri before tweaking the sun lamp
The image you are using is already post processed image


So you will have to concentrate on post processing as well as lighting of your scene


Blender has good composition system but i would recommend adobe lightroom for this. I use it's free android app to do the post processing. 
He has used some soft area lamps