When I open blender it loads a previous project when I open up blender it loads a previous project. When I load factory settings it resets but then when I re-enter blender, the project is still there!!! I don't know what to do I tried deleting it but it just won't work.
It seems like you have inadvertently saved that file as your startup file.   I'd make sure you have a backup of that old project file.    Delete all the objects that you see.   Then select (File, Save Startup file).   Close and re-open Blender and see if that's more to your liking.