Can I connect a remote control relay to a arduino uno board by disabling the remote control in the relay? I was making a home automation system by making some of the appliances in the home like fans and lights voice activated. But by mistake I bought a remote controlled relay in place of a normal relay from a shop and return does not seems possible. So I want to know if I will be able to use that remote controlled relay in this project?
I don't like to work with mains, so I use those outlets and connect a 433MHz transmitter to the arduino to activate the outlets.

You'd have to check the frequency of the unit, and see if anyone have decoded the transmitted data package.

If that doesn't float you're boat, you could open up the unit, and remove/desolder the relay. Add a transistor, and flyback diode and you're done. Just be careful with mains power.