Transaction unconfirmed - day 12! I've got a transaction from 2017-12-06 that's still unconfirmed - i really need this money now as ive moved house - how can i get this sorted - I am will to pay for help at this point.

Can anyone please help?? Tim.

https://blockchain.info/tx/44c784d8f82d962103ffdf5d463a1460150a21cc67a0750d4a3f6a35a0d18d9a
This question is another duplicate and already answered here by dooode:
Why is my transaction not getting confirmed and what can I do about it?

You have to stop/reverse the old Bitcoin transaction you created without confirmations:
Make a backup of your wallet.dat

Run bitcoind or bitcoin-qt with -zapwallettxes=1 option.

This makes the wallet "forget" any unconfirmed transactions, thus enabling you to reuse their inputs.
Create a new transaction to make your payment and add an appropriate fee this time.

You can now send the bitcoins where ever you want or you can send them all back to yourself.