Unconfirmed transaction for nearly 3 months Sorry but I am fairly new to this. I have qt wallet and have done quite a few transactions, but around Xmas time I placed a few payments that didn't go through. After  checking the web, many said just to wait and the coins will come back. But as it's now been 3 months, is there anything else I can do? Please be basic as I'm not that experienced.
What you need to do is find the transaction i.d. 
There you will see everything if there is no confirmations after 3 months its just well strange , I think you can look for more answers also in bitcoin forums there are alot of people that can help there nad they answer usually instantly