Connect to custom bitcoind I have a fully synchronized btc node on my network.
Which mobile apps (android) and desktop apps can I use to connect to this node without running a full node/ daemon on the desktop or mobile? And how would I do that?
I really want to just transact through the local node. Every App I have looked at so far runs their own local full node.
The idea is that the family can transact through one local full-node.
Edit: should have read the cli command options on bitcoin-qt
A simple:
bitcoin-qt.exe -connect mynodeIp -addnode mynodeIp
Creates two connections to the node and blocks all others
Which mobile apps (android) and desktop apps can I use to connect to this node without running a full node/ daemon on the desktop or mobile?

Mobile apps:
Good UI/UX for using bitcoin core.
https://github.com/Fonta1n3/FullyNoded (iOS)
It's a simple app to connect to local node for broadcasting transaction. You can add more things if you are a developer.
https://github.com/percy-g2/BitK (Android)
Desktop apps:
https://github.com/cryptoadvance/specter-desktop
https://github.com/bwt-dev/bwt-electrum-plugin (Connect Electrum with bitcoin core full node)