I am going to buy bitcoins for the first time from a seller on LocalBitcoins. Please guide me. I am going to buy bitcoins for the first time from a seller on LocalBitcoins. He says that funds can be transferred via internet banking. He seems to have good feedback, 9+ reviews but I am kind of nervous. What exact steps should be followed for a smooth transaction?
My plan is:


Send him my wallet address, and then wait for him to transfer the bitcoins.
Upon successful transaction, I send him the required amount through an online bank transaction.
??
Profit


I hope I am doing this right. Please advise.
Meet him at a public place and do the exchange using a phone bitcoin-app and cash. Make sure that his reputation is worth more than a possible robbery/scam.