Quantum vs. regular computing time to break ECC? How long exactly would it take for a regular computer to crack an elliptic curve public/private key via bruteforce, vs. a quantum computer using Shor's algorithm with a couple thousand qubits?  Can anyone reference me a source?

I'm assuming the digital computer will take thousands of years, but how long exactly is the polynomial time achieved by theoretical quantum computers?
It's hard to answer given that there is no quantum computer to perform benchmark on. However, let us assume a quantum computer which would perform quantum operations as efficiently as our current standard computer can perform classical operations (this might be a bit unrealistic but it's hard to come out with realistic assumptions regarding quantum computing given the state of advancement of this research field). The complexity of Shor's algorithm being $O(\log^2 n \log \log n \log \log \log n)$ according to Wikipedia, one can observe that this is better than the complexity of the best known classical algorithms for performing the multiplication of two $\log n \times \log n$ matrices. A quick search over some papers such as this one indicates that an optimized implementation of matrix multiplication of size $1024\times 1024$ can take less than a second, hence it does not seem unreasonable to assume that if a quantum computer was executing an optimized implementation of Shor's algorithm, factorization of a 2048 bit integer would take very little time - say, less than a few minuts.

For a regular computer performing a discrete logarithm over an elliptic curve is not done with brute force as you suggest, but using the Rho-Pollard algorithm, whose complexity is $O(\sqrt{p})$, where $p$ is the order of the curve. Still, executing this algorithm on well-chosen curves of size higher than $256$ bits is completely impractical.