Can emotional IQ be learned? Can emotional IQ be learned? This question concerns both the general population and those with lower than average emotional quotients such as individuals with Asperger's, or Autism spectrum disorder for example.
I don't know anything about those with lower than average.. BUT
Emotional Intelligence can be learned.

Read on:
http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/7-practical-ways-improve-your-emotional-intelligence.html

http://www.wikihow.com/Develop-Emotional-Intelligence

This will not be a process of a few hour, nor a few days.. It will take you a few weeks or months to grasp and, maybe, a few years to have something robust.
You have only positive "things" to gain if you go this route