How can I move the neutral-ground bond to my house from the pole?
Yes, but only if you have a single, non-fused switching means at the pole, not a panel

You can do this if and only if the switch at the pole is a single switching means (fault-rated, non-fused disconnect switch), not any sort of panelboard, enclosed breaker, or fused switch.  In this case, the switch at the pole becomes a hot-sequence meter disconnect (as opposed to the service disconnecting means), and is permitted by NEC 230.82(3):


  (3) Meter disconnect switches nominally rated not in excess of 1000V that have a short-circuit current rating equal to or greater than the available short-circuit current, provided that all metal housings and service enclosures are grounded in accordance with Part VII and bonded in accordance with Part V of Article 250.  A meter disconnect switch shall be capable of interrupting the load served.  A meter disconnect shall be legibly field marked on its exterior in a manner suitable for the environment as follows:

                              METER DISCONNECT
                            NOT SERVICE EQUIPMENT



This may require consultation with the AHJ and/or utility -- they may require such a disconnect to be installed cold sequence i.e. ahead of the meter instead.  This is normally only seen on socket-metered 480V services where yanking the meter out of its socket under load is a good way to get yourself roasted by arc flash, but nothing in the NEC prohibits a meter disconnect on a 120/240V service.