How are limits in mysql on size of columns etc calculated
The 61 is probably arbitrary.  If you have a 61-way JOIN, you have an awful schema.
The row size limit is not quite right.  What page is that on?  It is ignoring that MEDIUM/LONGTEXT/BLOB fields are not included in that limit.  (But, for that matter, I don't know where 64K-1 applies.)  In InnoDB, there is an "about 8K" limit excluding TEXT, etc that can be pushed to off-block storage.
The InnoDB limit was raised to 1017 recently.  The 4096 limit smells like a 12-bit fields in the Handler (Engine-agnostic) code.


I like limits, too.  Here are some more.