Maximum SQL Server memory set to 12 GB, but it still goes over 12 GB. How do I prevent SQL Server going over max memory limit?
My problem is that my server is going over the set 12GB memory and if things like CLR/Full Text/Server exe files taking additional memory.


What Denny Cherry wrote is true for SQL Server version from 2005 to 2008 r2. From SQL Server 2012 onward there was considerable change in SQL Server memory allocation. Memory for SQLCLR is allocated from max server memory setting in SQL Server 2012 not outside of it. BOL says that from SQL Server 2012 onward 


  Max server memory controls SQL Server memory allocation, including
  the buffer pool, compile memory, all caches, qe memory grants, lock
  manager memory, and CLR memory (basically any “clerk” as found in
  dm_os_memory_clerks). Memory for thread stacks, memory heaps, linked
  server providers other than SQL Server, or any memory allocated by a
  “non SQL Server” DLL is not controlled by max server memory.


Prior to SQL 2012, the buffer pool both “managed” memory and was a consumer of memory for database pages. It’s management of memory meant it allocated 8Kb pages of memory for other consumers like plan cache. Roll forward to 2012+, the buffer pool is a pure consumer of memory from SQLOS which manages all of the memory.


  Please tell me how to configure SQL Server, so it does not go over the set max limit.


This is not possible. In SQL Server 2012 if you are not using third party linked servers providers or if any DLL which is not Microsoft provided is not loaded in SQL Server address space there is less chance that SQL Server can consume memory outside max server memory setting. But the fact is you cannot control SQL Server not to utilize memory outside buffer pool. That is how it is designed.