Query best possible matches and order them
SELECT col1, 
       col2,
       col3, 
       col4, 
       col5, 
       col6
FROM TableX 
WHERE col1 = 1 
   OR col2 = 2 
   OR col3 = 3 
ORDER BY (CASE WHEN col1 = 1 THEN 1 ELSE 0 END) +
         (CASE WHEN col2 = 2 THEN 1 ELSE 0 END) +
         (CASE WHEN col3 = 3 THEN 1 ELSE 0 END) DESC,
         col4, col5, col6 


or, for MS-Access:

ORDER BY IIF(col1 = 1,1,0) +
         IIF(col2 = 2,1,0) +
         IIF(col3 = 3,1,0) DESC,
         col4, col5, col6