Mysqlbinlog statement reading
Since the --database option does not screen out queries that explicitly name the database with the table, you should redirect that to grep and locate primary_database and INSERTs, UPDATEs, DELETEs:

mysqlbinlog --database=**database** --start-datetime="$start_datetime" --stop-datetime="$stop_datetime" list_of_binlog_file_names | grep "primary_database\." | grep "[IUD][NPE][SDL][EA][RT][TE]"


This may not be a perfect solution. Perhaps a good perl or python script and nail this one.