Table Diagram and Access File of Contact Database for Church
The design looks OK to me, though I wouldn't store phone numbers as INTEGERs, because in reality they are character sequences.
Since you want to track marriages of members, may be that should the parent for marriages, and not contacts.
If a member passes away, you may still want to maintain his/her record with a flag, instead of deleting it. This will preserve marriage and reference records, as well as emergency contacts. To accommodate that you'd want to add the membership end date and the termination reason attributes.