Error 10053 connecting with Management Studio
There are several causes for this. The ones I know of (at least)


max server memory set to 0
user connections set to 1 (limiting you to one only)
and possibly server side SSL enabled


Have you ever connected? Changed any settings? Have a backup of master? What other errors are there in the event log? 

Anyhow, restart SQL Server with the -f option and ensure the the 2 settings above are sensible.