Problem with MySQL Cluster in practice
Without looking in detail to your configuration, I would bet that your problem is the kernel doing an Out of memory (OOM) kill: killing some of your ndbd, etc. processes. Those are usually logged to /var/log/messages, so you can confirm it easily.


  128MB of ram, 32-bits


I am not 100% sure if you can run an NDB cluster with those spects, but I can tell you that, in practice, you do not want. Here it is a guide on how much memory consumption you can more or less expect from NDB. Remember that NDB preallocates most of its memory at first execution, ant that it is a memory-focused transactional engine. Increase its available ram and/or reduce some of its configuration parameters.