how to get estimated subtree cost?
I believe you will have to do some XML query work to get that estimated cost.

See if this is what you are looking for:

   ;WITH XMLNAMESPACES  
    (DEFAULT 'http://schemas.microsoft.com/sqlserver/2004/07/showplan') 
    SELECT TOP 1000 st.text
        ,cp.size_in_bytes
        ,cp.plan_handle
        ,QP.query_plan
        ,n.value('(@StatementSubTreeCost)[1]', 'VARCHAR(128)') AS StatementSubTreeCost
    FROM sys.dm_exec_cached_plans AS cp
    CROSS APPLY sys.dm_exec_sql_text(cp.plan_handle) AS st
    CROSS APPLY sys.dm_exec_query_plan(cp.plan_handle) AS QP
    CROSS APPLY query_plan.nodes('/ShowPlanXML/BatchSequence/Batch/Statements/StmtSimple') AS qn(n)
    WHERE cp.objtype = N'Adhoc'
        AND cp.usecounts = 1
    OPTION(RECOMPILE);


This will return the cost for individual statements inside of a batch. You might need to work in some grouping if you need the total estimated subtree cost for the entire batch.